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You can shelter your child from everything and everyone and teach them ideals, dreams and fantasies different from the whole world.
But once you are dead or your child have left his nest to the wide wide world you are throwing a lamb to a wolf.
Better to bring up a child with respect, decency, self-restraint and discipline, intelligence and awareness of the world around him to be able to make smart choices in life while respecting others to make their own choices.
They grow up to become better people, better religious integrity, better parents.
Its true that how you look doesn't reflect who you are as a person and believer.
Its also very hypocritical to say EVERYTHING about the Western world is bad.
We live within all modern inventions and concepts CREATED and ADAPTED by Western people.
Its like living on a pig farm and selling pigs to earn a living and then saying that people who eat pork are evil and sinful.
Any culture can be made bad by the people living within them. Every culture has its pros and its cons.
The key is to find a proper balance.
Look at Arab cultures - some of their cultures are very barbaric and backwards. Are you going to follow that too?
Many Malay Muslims don't realise that following Arab culture doesn't make you better Muslim - follow ISLAMIC culture is what makes you a better Muslim.
Many Arabs practice total female circumcision (cut and sewing up entire genitals), honour killings and other cultural things.
Is it still superior to other cultures?
Religion is religion. Culture is culture. Don't misinterpret the two.
To the person above who said everything about the West is immoral.
Well lets' stop practising democracy, freedom of religion, speech and pursuit of happiness.
If someone tell you to walk off a cliff and laughs at you because you refuse to walk - are you going to feel resentful and angry that you refused, or are you confident in your own decisions because you know that what you are doing is right?
Just because in the Western culture TODAY everything seems very immoral doesn't mean you should be.
The West is a fast-paced, fast changing society. Just a hundred years or more ago women covered from neck to toe and wore head covering as a norm in the U.S and U.K.
Perhaps tomorrow they will be better believers than us.
How do you know?
We should never be quick to judge other people.
There are many very moralistic and decent people in the West who practice their religion even better than people in Malaysia/Singapore/SE-Asia despite all the sin surrounding them.
Does that make them better believers?
Take it as a challenge and don't push away a test from God.
Jenova.
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