My father passed away almost two years ago, i am only thirteen. how do i deal with this?

Question

i miss my dad so much.. he means the world to me and i dnt know if i can do it anymore.. it hurts to much.. i need help

Answer 1

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I know how bad this hurts I lost my mom
You have to keep busy and talk to people even a counselor (thats what I did)
Now I talk to my mom all the time and Look for little signs that shes around AND WATCHING OVER ME! Dont get yourself in a big depression now
you also should see your doctor he can help At one point I just wanted to die so bad but that is cheating your Dad from watching you grow up! He is watching you and you need to believe that I know that it is hurting him to see you so sad I would be more than happy to talk more to you about this as my brother also died by taking his life so I have a lot of experience about this just email me at yahoo.com using my YA name at yahoo.com
Please see your doctor so you can get some help
there is a grieving process and you are still going through it
Best of luck and I am truly sorry for your loss

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thanks, i know hes watching me and is telling me not to give up, its just so hard i dnt know how to understand that hes really gone, forever.

Answer 2

Talk to someone - a family member, friend, etc. just talk to someone. You'll be glad you did.

You may also want to do something in his honor. If he liked gardening, plant something in his honor.

Answer 3

i would try to calm yourself down and think about happy times with you and your dad then keep putting flowers on his grave every month then you might move on but remember hes always watching you