I am 20 years-old and my girlfriend is going to be 40.
my parents know nothing about it because I know that they'd never accept it and only want my best (which this is not, in their opinion)
Is it weird to have a 40 year-old girlfriend? she's Italian and I am Kurdish, that might be another con for our relationship due to cultural connection, which is important for my family.
She also lives in Italy and I live in Germany, she visited me like 3 times and we rent an apartment and stood together for days. (of course i had to sneek out of the house and had to have an alibi)
Her mom knows me but she told her mom that i am 30ish.
What is your sincere opinion? Should I talk to her and quit?
I love her and she loves me but this circumstances are so hard.
also my brother found out about her (he found condoms in my pocket and I admitted)
according to him , "she lived her life and looks for young meat to f**k" ,which I think is not the case, but maybe I am naive.
He told me to break up and thinks that we broke up. he didn't tell my parents but he was kind of disappointed that I lied to my familiy.
what do you think?
and honest opinions please.
Dorian3 AnswersSingles & Dating12 months ago