My mom has always blamed me for a lot. Even when I was younger. It's also like talking to a brick wall. For example: I tell her a better internet she could get for cheaper and she blows it off or says to just leave it. My opinions mean nothing. So here is the situation. My mom is due for neck surgery because she has a growth or swelling of her gland in her neck. I live in Arizona, she lives in Indiana. She calls me and says it's happening right then and now so I took a train there. Here I am and now she is saying they haven't even scheduled it and are unsure if they are for sure even doing it. I spent 226 dollars plus food and supplies to come. I signed up for college and payed already and if I am not back before the end of July then I have to repay double the price. I don't have a job. I just do odd jobs at the moment until college is done. I told my mom this and she is begging me to stay longer in case her surgery goes wrong and says it will be my fault if I leave and something bad happens. The other problem is, I take care of a baby and a woman who got in a bad car accident and suffered brain damage , which is my boyfriend's sister. He is watching her for now and her mother here and there, same with her baby. But, they will lose thier jobs if I stay longer than planned, a month. So I'm pretty much knee deep in stress and non stop thinking of me screwing everything up either way I go. So, I ask you, what in the hell do I do?!