• What should I do when my mom is like this?

    My mom has always blamed me for a lot. Even when I was younger. It's also like talking to a brick wall. For example: I tell her a better internet she could get for cheaper and she blows it off or says to just leave it. My opinions mean nothing. So here is the situation. My mom is due for neck surgery because she has a growth or swelling of her... show more
    My mom has always blamed me for a lot. Even when I was younger. It's also like talking to a brick wall. For example: I tell her a better internet she could get for cheaper and she blows it off or says to just leave it. My opinions mean nothing. So here is the situation. My mom is due for neck surgery because she has a growth or swelling of her gland in her neck. I live in Arizona, she lives in Indiana. She calls me and says it's happening right then and now so I took a train there. Here I am and now she is saying they haven't even scheduled it and are unsure if they are for sure even doing it. I spent 226 dollars plus food and supplies to come. I signed up for college and payed already and if I am not back before the end of July then I have to repay double the price. I don't have a job. I just do odd jobs at the moment until college is done. I told my mom this and she is begging me to stay longer in case her surgery goes wrong and says it will be my fault if I leave and something bad happens. The other problem is, I take care of a baby and a woman who got in a bad car accident and suffered brain damage , which is my boyfriend's sister. He is watching her for now and her mother here and there, same with her baby. But, they will lose thier jobs if I stay longer than planned, a month. So I'm pretty much knee deep in stress and non stop thinking of me screwing everything up either way I go. So, I ask you, what in the hell do I do?!
    5 answers · Family · 6 months ago
  • I don't know what to do in this situation. Can you help?

    Here is my situation. I have recently been added to a group of facebook that does promoting for models and photographers. I have always loved taking pictures but recently started to try modeling and I gained 100+ followers on my newly made instagram and a company is sending me free stuff to model for them. Problem is, my boyfriend doesn't care... show more
    Here is my situation. I have recently been added to a group of facebook that does promoting for models and photographers. I have always loved taking pictures but recently started to try modeling and I gained 100+ followers on my newly made instagram and a company is sending me free stuff to model for them. Problem is, my boyfriend doesn't care much for the internet so he doesn't have an instagram and has a facebook but rarely uses it for social reasons, more of scrolling through the news feed to cure boredom. The only thing is, he seems very numb or "i don't care what you do" to the modeling/photography situation. Am I wrong for trying to achieve one of my dreams or am I just overreacting?
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 8 months ago
  • What do I do about this?

    So I live at my boyfriend's parents with him while we save money to get our own place and car and such and his mom keeps using things that I buy without asking and plays dumb when I ask her about it and she stops for a few weeks and starts again. Keep in mind that she has a better job than me and can clearly buy her own bathroom supplies but... show more
    So I live at my boyfriend's parents with him while we save money to get our own place and car and such and his mom keeps using things that I buy without asking and plays dumb when I ask her about it and she stops for a few weeks and starts again. Keep in mind that she has a better job than me and can clearly buy her own bathroom supplies but chooses to use mine and some of them are not cheap. (Razors/Hair Products). So I ask you , what should I do? I took them out of the bathroom for the night and I'm going to see what happens when she showers tomorrow evening when they are gone. I'm not being selfish , it's just rude to me when she doesn't ask and then acts like she didn't do it when I can clearly smell the shampoo and such on her hair and see that more is gone than usual when I didn't use it that day. Help.
    6 answers · Family · 8 months ago
  • Is my boyfriend's statement true or false?

    Hi. My boyfriend has a distant cousin coming from a little ways away and she is rich and very pretty but has 3 kids. He was really excited about it and kept asking when she will be here. Is he just excited because she is family that is close to him because they are native americans or does he like her in "that way"? He got mad when I said... show more
    Hi. My boyfriend has a distant cousin coming from a little ways away and she is rich and very pretty but has 3 kids. He was really excited about it and kept asking when she will be here. Is he just excited because she is family that is close to him because they are native americans or does he like her in "that way"? He got mad when I said it's because he likes her and ignored me for an hour or so. I have right to be suspicious because he has tried to cheat before bit got caught making a dating account and deleted it and has since never done it. I'm not exactly fit, I weigh 209 at the moment and struggle with acne and have some stretch marks from loosing a bit of weight from diets and excercise but this cousin is like really fit, pretty, got the fat where it counts and again, she's rich. Yes, I'm insecure but he just acted very weird about this. He has never seemed this excited over any other family members... Help.
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 10 months ago
  • Can the police pay for you to fly to see family if you are far away and out of money and it's an emergency in the state of Arizona?

    My grandmother is very ill and seems to only get worse and I am out of a job and options or money. Is there such a program or service?
    My grandmother is very ill and seems to only get worse and I am out of a job and options or money. Is there such a program or service?
    6 answers · Law Enforcement & Police · 10 months ago
  • How much will the salon charge me to fix my hair?

    I just bleached it. Hair isn't damaged that much, barely even noticeable. It's platinum blonde on the roots and orange about 5 inches from roots and patches of orange and the rest is still brown/black. How much will they charge me to fix this disaster?
    I just bleached it. Hair isn't damaged that much, barely even noticeable. It's platinum blonde on the roots and orange about 5 inches from roots and patches of orange and the rest is still brown/black. How much will they charge me to fix this disaster?
    3 answers · Hair · 11 months ago
  • Will she win the court case or lose?

    My mother has multiple medial problems including, ms , irregular heartbeats/heart problems, high blood pressure, restless leg syndrome, anemia, and much more. She applied for disability and was turned down saying they needed more info before she could have her disability. She is set to go to court to fight for her disability since her health... show more
    My mother has multiple medial problems including, ms , irregular heartbeats/heart problems, high blood pressure, restless leg syndrome, anemia, and much more. She applied for disability and was turned down saying they needed more info before she could have her disability. She is set to go to court to fight for her disability since her health problems are keeping her from working or doing daily normal tasks. Will she win?
    4 answers · Law & Ethics · 1 year ago
  • Do I have a disorder or do I just need a diet?

    I have to look in the mirror almost every time I see one and make sure everything looks perfect or I feel ugly. I weigh 215 pounds and am 5'7". I constantly feel ugly and fat no matter what anyone says , even if they say I'm pretty... Do I need to consult a doctor or just take up a diet?
    I have to look in the mirror almost every time I see one and make sure everything looks perfect or I feel ugly. I weigh 215 pounds and am 5'7". I constantly feel ugly and fat no matter what anyone says , even if they say I'm pretty... Do I need to consult a doctor or just take up a diet?
    5 answers · Diet & Fitness · 1 year ago
  • What is going on ?!?!?

    My boyfriend's fb account is linked on my phone so I can sell stuff for him since he doesn't use it much, meanwhile trying to sell things I noticed some of his family members who haven't met me yet have me blocked but have my bf still added. I generally don't do anything bad on my facebook and in person I be as polite as can be. I... show more
    My boyfriend's fb account is linked on my phone so I can sell stuff for him since he doesn't use it much, meanwhile trying to sell things I noticed some of his family members who haven't met me yet have me blocked but have my bf still added. I generally don't do anything bad on my facebook and in person I be as polite as can be. I don't understand. The only difference is his family is native american and I'm white. Help.
    4 answers · Etiquette · 1 year ago
  • Why is she treating me this way?

    My boyfriend's mom was talking to me this morning and offered me some breakfast which I said sure. Everything seemed fine until I said " Walmart may hire me soon again" (I worked as a cashier and was almost to 4 occurences due to being sick a lot and my bf hurt his back and needed me to do everything for him so I had to and had no... show more
    My boyfriend's mom was talking to me this morning and offered me some breakfast which I said sure. Everything seemed fine until I said " Walmart may hire me soon again" (I worked as a cashier and was almost to 4 occurences due to being sick a lot and my bf hurt his back and needed me to do everything for him so I had to and had no choice so they let me go.) So she looks at me and says " Oh cool just don't mess it up this time. You need to keep this job." First off, rude right? This was pretty much my first job i've ever had so it doesn't make sense. The thing is with her she talks bad behind everyone's back. So my question is why? Why does she treat me this way when I clean for her all day and take care of her daughter's baby, and cook. Does she not like me or is she just this way to everyone? She has a hot temper as well. She could knock over a trash can accidentially and then she just goes into rage mode yelling and throwing things. Just please. Help.
    3 answers · Other - Family & Relationships · 1 year ago
  • What to do with my hair color?

    I recently got my hair done and the stylisy messed up big time. I have black hair on the top layer but now a faded ugly orange and purple layer underneath.... My blonde roots are also still showing. What do I do? I'm beyond upset.
    I recently got my hair done and the stylisy messed up big time. I have black hair on the top layer but now a faded ugly orange and purple layer underneath.... My blonde roots are also still showing. What do I do? I'm beyond upset.
    2 answers · Hair · 1 year ago
  • What hair color suits me?

    My dirty blonde roots are coming back and am planning on dying it and cutting it again. What should i get? If have medium pale skin, blue eyes, i have an oval shaped face, i have wavy frizzy hair, i have wide hips and shoulders, im 5'7.
    My dirty blonde roots are coming back and am planning on dying it and cutting it again. What should i get? If have medium pale skin, blue eyes, i have an oval shaped face, i have wavy frizzy hair, i have wide hips and shoulders, im 5'7.
    1 answer · Hair · 2 years ago
  • What do I do?

    My boyfriend gets mad when I'm on my phone for even 5 minutes , I'm usually looking for stuff I need on Amazon or counting calories of the food I eat ( on a diet). But when he is on his electronics he is on longer and I don't say a damn thing. Why is he being a hypocrite? Please help.
    My boyfriend gets mad when I'm on my phone for even 5 minutes , I'm usually looking for stuff I need on Amazon or counting calories of the food I eat ( on a diet). But when he is on his electronics he is on longer and I don't say a damn thing. Why is he being a hypocrite? Please help.
    2 answers · Diet & Fitness · 2 years ago
  • Why is my boyfriend acting like this?

    He recently got a job and the first day of the job, he comes home acting cranky, treating me like I'm nothing. And all my questions are dumb. Help.
    He recently got a job and the first day of the job, he comes home acting cranky, treating me like I'm nothing. And all my questions are dumb. Help.
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 years ago
  • Is my boyfriend lying to me?

    I plugged in his phone for him and it opened up something he was looking at, it was called JapanCupid.com, a dating website. I checked if you had to actually fill out anything to browse and have a profile and you do. Name, age, email, everything. He said he didn't make it and got pretty mad when I brought it up. Idk what to believe anymore.
    I plugged in his phone for him and it opened up something he was looking at, it was called JapanCupid.com, a dating website. I checked if you had to actually fill out anything to browse and have a profile and you do. Name, age, email, everything. He said he didn't make it and got pretty mad when I brought it up. Idk what to believe anymore.
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 years ago
  • Why did my boyfriend do this?

    My phone is messing up and he had an old phone he used bit doesn't anymore and he was going to give it to me but before he gave it to me he deleted his web browser and was watching me looking at it the whole time and was acting really weird. Is he cheating or just hiding porn or something? I don't want our 5 year relationship to go to waste..
    My phone is messing up and he had an old phone he used bit doesn't anymore and he was going to give it to me but before he gave it to me he deleted his web browser and was watching me looking at it the whole time and was acting really weird. Is he cheating or just hiding porn or something? I don't want our 5 year relationship to go to waste..
    4 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 years ago
  • What unnatural hair colors suit pale skin and blue eyes?

    I was thinking of dying my hair black and doing the tips deep blue , but I would like some other options to think about. Post links to pics of the hair idea if you can.
    I was thinking of dying my hair black and doing the tips deep blue , but I would like some other options to think about. Post links to pics of the hair idea if you can.
    1 answer · Hair · 2 years ago
  • Should I get a personal diet from the doctor?

    I feel like no diets work with me. I only loose a tiny bit of weight and not much more after. Should I consider getting a personal diet?
    I feel like no diets work with me. I only loose a tiny bit of weight and not much more after. Should I consider getting a personal diet?
    2 answers · Diet & Fitness · 2 years ago
  • Dors anyone have tips on driving?

    I have never drove and my bf's parents want me to learn before I take the test. I am going to study the driver's book before hand, but I need tips to learn fast and easy. Please help.
    I have never drove and my bf's parents want me to learn before I take the test. I am going to study the driver's book before hand, but I need tips to learn fast and easy. Please help.
    5 answers · Other - Cars & Transportation · 2 years ago