My friend asked me a question about a doctor's appointment I had had, I answered and then said I was still having some pain. She made me mad by saying I was just having tenderness. How would she know what I'm feeling. I said it wasn't tenderness, it was actually pain and she argued with me, saying she had tenderness also. I then asked (in a kind of loud voice) if the "tenderness" was stabbing and she told me to calm down and proceeded to assure that I only had tenderness. I felt it was totally disrespectful to tell me what I'm feeling. On the other hand, I don't usually make a big deal out of stuff.
Also, a couple of weeks ago we were talking to another friend about her getting an apartment. My friend said that apartments were expensive but that I had lucked out by being where I am so long. Well, first of all, she has no idea how much rent I pay. For the fun of it, I looked in the apt listings and my rent is in the range of other 1 br apartments in the area.
Anyway, I'm kind of mad about the pain/tenderness thing, and realizing that she's always assuming facts not in evidence, that she will actually argue with you about, and was wondering if I should say something, or just seethe in silence?