• Why do I only really want something until I finally have it?

    I’m not so much like this with material things for some reason. But specifically women, I’ll be very attracted to and enticed by a woman, but then once I get to know her better, spend time with her, and in some cases have sex with them, I start to feel about them kinda like how I’d feel after beating a game where it’s like okay, this isn’t giving me... show more
    I’m not so much like this with material things for some reason. But specifically women, I’ll be very attracted to and enticed by a woman, but then once I get to know her better, spend time with her, and in some cases have sex with them, I start to feel about them kinda like how I’d feel after beating a game where it’s like okay, this isn’t giving me the same sense of satisfaction that it once did. This sucks because I’ll feel genuinely interested in a woman and then I end up having to hurt her either by explicitly breaking it off or noticeably not giving her the same attention I did in the past and slowly ghosting her. I guess this kinda makes it sound like I view women as objects (which, who knows? Maybe subconsciously at some level I do), but consciously I don’t feel as if I do. If I did, I don’t think I’d be able to recognize the flawed pattern as I do. But anyways yeah it kinda sucks, why am I like this?
    Singles & Dating · 1 month ago
  • Should I have sex with this girl?

    There’s a girl I wanna have sex with that’s down. BUT, she got mono a week ago. Her symptoms are gone, but I know that there’s evidence that says mono can be given to someone else for as long as the virus is present in you (which is for the rest of your life). So I know I SHOULDN’T have sex with her, but I really want to...is having mono really that... show more
    There’s a girl I wanna have sex with that’s down. BUT, she got mono a week ago. Her symptoms are gone, but I know that there’s evidence that says mono can be given to someone else for as long as the virus is present in you (which is for the rest of your life). So I know I SHOULDN’T have sex with her, but I really want to...is having mono really that bad??????
    Infectious Diseases · 3 months ago
  • Will I pass a urine drug test?

    I smoked weed everyday this passed weekend (Thursday-Sunday) and hadn’t smoked at all the month prior to those days. I have a urine drug test in 23 days. I’m 19 years old, 6”0’, about 165 pounds and I play soccer regularly. I guess I have a high metabolism cause I eat a lot and can never gain weight. Is it likely that I’ll pass the test?
    I smoked weed everyday this passed weekend (Thursday-Sunday) and hadn’t smoked at all the month prior to those days. I have a urine drug test in 23 days. I’m 19 years old, 6”0’, about 165 pounds and I play soccer regularly. I guess I have a high metabolism cause I eat a lot and can never gain weight. Is it likely that I’ll pass the test?
    Medicine · 4 months ago
  • Dream about loves?

    This is not so much a question as it is a “ I’m just curious what people’s ooinions might be” type thing. Anyway, there are two dreams that I recall from last night, each was about a different girl that I’m pretty fond of. The girl in the first dream, we have a mutual interest in each other; in the dream, we cuddled and I had the usual feeling that... show more
    This is not so much a question as it is a “ I’m just curious what people’s ooinions might be” type thing. Anyway, there are two dreams that I recall from last night, each was about a different girl that I’m pretty fond of. The girl in the first dream, we have a mutual interest in each other; in the dream, we cuddled and I had the usual feeling that I have when I’m with her of just feeling very cared for and comfortable. The next dream involved the other girl, which I’m also interested in, but I’m not too sure as to if she’s interested in me. In the dream, we had very passionate sex and I just remember feeling this deep, passionate connection with her that I guess I also feel toward her in real life, but I’ve just subconsciously suppressed that feeling as I don’t know if my interest in her is reciprocal. So I guess my question is what are your takes on these dreams? Sorry I couldn’t be more detailed, you guys know the character restrictions
    Dream Interpretation · 5 months ago
  • Restore Suede?

    This hat is suede and it got wet. It's dry now, but as you can seethe materal darkened around where the hat and bill meet. Any way to fix this?
    This hat is suede and it got wet. It's dry now, but as you can seethe materal darkened around where the hat and bill meet. Any way to fix this?
    3 answers · Fashion & Accessories · 7 months ago
  • Does the officer involved in a case have the power to say that the offender does not have to go to court?

    Or is the court date upheld once the summons has been written?
    Or is the court date upheld once the summons has been written?
    6 answers · Law & Ethics · 9 months ago
  • Photography editing help?

    Does anyone know how or where to add a diplopia( double vision) effect to photos? Thanks
    Does anyone know how or where to add a diplopia( double vision) effect to photos? Thanks
    1 answer · Photography · 10 months ago
  • Does a possession of marijuana charge look bad in places where it is legal?

    If one is charged with possession of marijuana, I understand that it might hinder their ability to find work. How great is this hindrance in places where marijuana is legal though (Colorado,California, etc)?
    If one is charged with possession of marijuana, I understand that it might hinder their ability to find work. How great is this hindrance in places where marijuana is legal though (Colorado,California, etc)?
    3 answers · Law & Ethics · 10 months ago
  • Is there a way to contact a certain police officer?

    Can I contact the officer that was present during an incident I was involved in?
    Can I contact the officer that was present during an incident I was involved in?
    1 answer · Law Enforcement & Police · 10 months ago
  • Could I represent myself in court with this evidence?

    I was recently caught with marijuana inside my college dorm room and charged with possession. In the write-up the authorities did on the incident (which is reported to the university) it says "No illegal substances were found." Can I use this as my defense to plead "not guilty" in court, and would I need a lawyer to do so, or is... show more
    I was recently caught with marijuana inside my college dorm room and charged with possession. In the write-up the authorities did on the incident (which is reported to the university) it says "No illegal substances were found." Can I use this as my defense to plead "not guilty" in court, and would I need a lawyer to do so, or is this evidence undeniable enough that I could represent myself in court?
    9 answers · Law & Ethics · 11 months ago
  • How should I approach/take advantage of this situation?

    A few weeks ago some campus police found weed in my college dorm room. They also documented that there was an odor of marijuana in my room, the shower was running and there was a towel under the door (because I was smoking in there). The cop seemed pretty chill when she was confiscating my weed, but in the incident report that was given to the... show more
    A few weeks ago some campus police found weed in my college dorm room. They also documented that there was an odor of marijuana in my room, the shower was running and there was a towel under the door (because I was smoking in there). The cop seemed pretty chill when she was confiscating my weed, but in the incident report that was given to the university, it documents the shower running, the towel under the door, and the odor, but literally says "No illegal substances were found." I have my conduct hearing with the university in a few days. Will this help even though the smell and shower were documented. Also, I was charged for possession of marijuana and I have to go to court, but the report says none was found so?????? If anyone has some insight on the implications of this, it would be helpful, than
    1 answer · Politics · 11 months ago
  • How does a misdemeanor possession of marijuana charge look?

    How does this charge look if i have a masters in physics? To me, yeah you broke the law, but you obviously have some sort of sense if you completed a graduate level physics degree, but then again, I’m not an employer.
    How does this charge look if i have a masters in physics? To me, yeah you broke the law, but you obviously have some sort of sense if you completed a graduate level physics degree, but then again, I’m not an employer.
    3 answers · Other - Careers & Employment · 11 months ago
  • 2nd offense possesion of marijuana?

    I was charged with possesion of marijuana. At court the judge gave me 6 months to compete 24 hours of community service. I was just charged with possesion of marijuana again. How will this effect my first case since it isn’t completely resolved? Will this be my 2nd offense since i haven’t been convicted of the first offense yet? What might either... show more
    I was charged with possesion of marijuana. At court the judge gave me 6 months to compete 24 hours of community service. I was just charged with possesion of marijuana again. How will this effect my first case since it isn’t completely resolved? Will this be my 2nd offense since i haven’t been convicted of the first offense yet? What might either judge say? Thanks.
    4 answers · Law & Ethics · 11 months ago
  • Can someone help me make sense of this acid trip?

    So I dropped acid last night around 9 at my place (just 100 mics) and went to my friends place where a group of people where him and some of my other friends were. Firstly, I tripped way harder visually than I expected to, I’ve done acid twice before this and my highest dosage was 600 mics. But anyway, we went to Walmart to pick up some stuff for... show more
    So I dropped acid last night around 9 at my place (just 100 mics) and went to my friends place where a group of people where him and some of my other friends were. Firstly, I tripped way harder visually than I expected to, I’ve done acid twice before this and my highest dosage was 600 mics. But anyway, we went to Walmart to pick up some stuff for one of my friends and then went back and played basketball (playing a competitive game on acid is a very weird experience). I just remember walking around our campus (we live in our college’s campus dorms) and seeing people just exist. I normally feel like “woke” or “enlightened” (for lack of better words) when I trip, but this time idk, I felt less confident in my own character, like I was just unsure of who I was supposed to be in the moment and just caught myself observing other people’s selves instead of just existing myself (which I guess I do a lot even when I’m not tripping) and just feeling like I didn’t measure up to everyone in a social sense. I felt like I was just not doing enough with my life to progress toward my actualized self. This wasn’t a bad trip by any means, it was just weird and left me with more questions than answers. Am I actually myself? What do I really want? Am I on the right path to realizing my true self? Does a true self even exist or are we just constantly trying to mold ourselves into what we think our most authentic self is? Idk man, all very conceptual, heady stuff that I have to deal with.
    2 answers · Psychology · 1 year ago
  • Can a court appointed attorney help with my case?

    I'm an 18 year old college student so you can infer my personal financial situation. I m majoring in physics and my grades are great so far and I have a clean record. Can a public defense lawyer in Norfolk, VA get me off of a trespassing and minor possession of marijuana (less than 2 grams) charge? Or at least get the penalties reduced?
    I'm an 18 year old college student so you can infer my personal financial situation. I m majoring in physics and my grades are great so far and I have a clean record. Can a public defense lawyer in Norfolk, VA get me off of a trespassing and minor possession of marijuana (less than 2 grams) charge? Or at least get the penalties reduced?
    5 answers · Law & Ethics · 1 year ago
  • Can a lawyer defend several people if they were involved in the same incident?

    A few friends and myself were recently arrested for trespassing. If we decide to hire a lawyer to defend us in court, can he/she defend all of us since it is the same incident (we all have the same court date and time).
    A few friends and myself were recently arrested for trespassing. If we decide to hire a lawyer to defend us in court, can he/she defend all of us since it is the same incident (we all have the same court date and time).
    4 answers · Law & Ethics · 1 year ago
  • Should I hire a lawyer or would I be fine with the defense attorney appointed to me?

    I live in Virginia. I was arrested and written a summons for possession of marijuana and trespassing (both Class 1 misdemeanors). I don’t think this case is very serious, but I’m not well versed in laws and the court system, so I’m wonder if I would need to hire an attorney or if I would be okay with just the defense attorney appointed to me the day... show more
    I live in Virginia. I was arrested and written a summons for possession of marijuana and trespassing (both Class 1 misdemeanors). I don’t think this case is very serious, but I’m not well versed in laws and the court system, so I’m wonder if I would need to hire an attorney or if I would be okay with just the defense attorney appointed to me the day of my summons? If you need anymore details about the situation in order to produce a more qualified response, just let me know. Thanks in advance.
    3 answers · Law & Ethics · 1 year ago
  • Does anyone know of any websites where I can customize a hoodie with an image I've selected printed on the back and the sleeves?

    I also only wanna make 1 so I don't want a bulk buy site. Thanks
    I also only wanna make 1 so I don't want a bulk buy site. Thanks
    3 answers · Fashion & Accessories · 2 years ago
  • Can I go to college for free if I join the military after?

    I'm planning on majoring in physics (astro or quantum). If I agree to join the military after I graduate college will they pay for it, or would I have to join the reserves while I'm in college?
    I'm planning on majoring in physics (astro or quantum). If I agree to join the military after I graduate college will they pay for it, or would I have to join the reserves while I'm in college?
    13 answers · Military · 2 years ago