• To Those Who Believe Looks Are An Extremely Crucial Aspect Of A Relationship, What Will You Do When You And Your Partner Are In Your 70s?

    I have read constant back-and-forths between people who say they can love someone eternally when their looks falter (and they do, as I have seen with my parents) and those who say it cannot be done unless you are as close to resembling a model as possible; to those in the latter camp, I beg the title question.
    I have read constant back-and-forths between people who say they can love someone eternally when their looks falter (and they do, as I have seen with my parents) and those who say it cannot be done unless you are as close to resembling a model as possible; to those in the latter camp, I beg the title question.
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 8 months ago
  • Will Your Bank Be Suspicious Of You Completely Paying Off A Longstanding Debt?

    I'm gonna assume they may think you acquired a loan, mom and dad saved your ***, or you attained a high-paying job (I am the latter), but just in case, should I gradually pay it off instead of in one fell swoop?
    I'm gonna assume they may think you acquired a loan, mom and dad saved your ***, or you attained a high-paying job (I am the latter), but just in case, should I gradually pay it off instead of in one fell swoop?
    9 answers · Credit · 11 months ago
  • In The Notebook, is young Noah's and young Allie's relationship the stupidest one to ever happen?

    1. When Noah first approaches Allie while she is dating someone else at a carnival, she says "No" to him and looks at him in disgust as he keeps moving in on her. "No" means "Yes?" 2. He stalks her to the Ferris Wheel where he watches her and waits for an opportunity to jump onto her cart, again, as she is WITH... show more
    1. When Noah first approaches Allie while she is dating someone else at a carnival, she says "No" to him and looks at him in disgust as he keeps moving in on her. "No" means "Yes?" 2. He stalks her to the Ferris Wheel where he watches her and waits for an opportunity to jump onto her cart, again, as she is WITH SOMEONE ELSE! As the wheel spins, pushing the cart further from the ground, he hangs himself by a metal pole above it and threatens to drop himself if Allie refuses a date with him. He then makes her keep repeating "Yes" out loud. 3. When he encounters her on the street later, he harasses her much the same as he pursues while she keeps pushing him back. "No" means "Yes?" He even says, "When I see something that I like, I gotta- I LOVE IT!" Ladies, is that anything you'd appreciate a man you knew for a few minutes saying to you? Especially one you repeatedly pushed away? 4. What the **** was up with his laying-in-the-middle-of-the-street fantasy where a car nearly ran both of them over and they knew in advance this would likely happen? And how the hell was this charming to Allie? I know they saying goes we will never understand women, but this went over the rainbow. 5. The moment after they ****** the 1st time said it all: Allie asks Noah, after noticing her mind raced during the sex while his did not and in general noticing his emotionless nature after all this time (notice, throughout the movie, his vocal tone and body language is flat?), does he have a care in
    2 answers · Singles & Dating · 11 months ago
  • When a man drives you on a 1st date, do you judge him by the songs he plays?

    I'm filling up my playlist and am about to burn it for the first time in years before I jam to it in my car when I drive. As I do this, I'm thinking about how the people who ride with me will react to them, and I'm anticipating they'll be lip-syncing, bobbing/shaking their heads, making hand gestures, and any combination of these if... show more
    I'm filling up my playlist and am about to burn it for the first time in years before I jam to it in my car when I drive. As I do this, I'm thinking about how the people who ride with me will react to them, and I'm anticipating they'll be lip-syncing, bobbing/shaking their heads, making hand gestures, and any combination of these if not all at once. In short, I expect them to enjoy what I put on. And I'm confident a future girl I may take out will as well, but I suppose I never know. Hence, this question. (Bisexual) ladies and bisexual/gay men, what are your thoughts?
    1 answer · Singles & Dating · 12 months ago
  • How Does Repaying a Secured Loan Work?

    I've received a loan offer up to 10 grand from OneMain Financial who I am researching before I consider accepting. However, I also want to know what the process of repaying this is like: minimum payments each month like a charge card or an in-full payment at one point or another. Thanks in advance!
    I've received a loan offer up to 10 grand from OneMain Financial who I am researching before I consider accepting. However, I also want to know what the process of repaying this is like: minimum payments each month like a charge card or an in-full payment at one point or another. Thanks in advance!
    5 answers · Credit · 1 year ago
  • Why did I have a really hard time breathing while I was snoring when I was waking up? And why could I barely move?

    This is the 1st time this has ever happened. I'm thinking it may have to do with my Ativan consumption as of late because those pills have been making me feel weird in the head and also once made it hard for me to breathe when I was laying down trying to go to sleep, but what's posed in the question is something new entirely. I am thinking... show more
    This is the 1st time this has ever happened. I'm thinking it may have to do with my Ativan consumption as of late because those pills have been making me feel weird in the head and also once made it hard for me to breathe when I was laying down trying to go to sleep, but what's posed in the question is something new entirely. I am thinking it might have been sleep paralysis, but usually when I endure that, the bedroom I'm in is just a dream-conjured up one (or so I think, since some things when I snap out of it aren't there anymore) instead of my actual one.
    1 answer · Heart Diseases · 1 year ago
  • Why did I have a really hard time breathing when I was waking up? And why could I barely move?

    This is the 1st time this has ever happened. I'm thinking it may have to do with my Ativan consumption as of late because those pills have been making me feel weird in the head and also once made it hard for me to breathe when I was laying down trying to go to sleep, but what's posed in the question is something new entirely.
    This is the 1st time this has ever happened. I'm thinking it may have to do with my Ativan consumption as of late because those pills have been making me feel weird in the head and also once made it hard for me to breathe when I was laying down trying to go to sleep, but what's posed in the question is something new entirely.
    1 answer · Other - General Health Care · 1 year ago
  • Why Does Anyone Care About Tim Tebow's (Non-Existent) Sex Life?

    I have run into articles calling him "lame" because he won't get down with "the hoes," and while I do encourage experimentation while you are young, saying someone's choice not to engage when they are fully-aware of what they are missing out on is just stupid. If they do not want to do it, why continuously write articles... show more
    I have run into articles calling him "lame" because he won't get down with "the hoes," and while I do encourage experimentation while you are young, saying someone's choice not to engage when they are fully-aware of what they are missing out on is just stupid. If they do not want to do it, why continuously write articles about it? And how is a person "lame" for not wanting to go on the usual young person's adventures when there is so much more to an individual than just journeys? Perhaps one of you who criticize him for his lifestyle choices can answer this.
    2 answers · Media & Journalism · 1 year ago
  • Can Ativan Withdrawal Cause A String Of Nightmares?

    The details of these nightmares may trigger some, so bare warning: 1. 2 sleep paralysis episodes. The 1st one, I am a girl (I'm a man in real life) who can barely move and her boyfriend decides to "take advantage." The 2nd one, I am my actual gender fighting as hard as he can to break free before he finally moves. 2. I think this one... show more
    The details of these nightmares may trigger some, so bare warning: 1. 2 sleep paralysis episodes. The 1st one, I am a girl (I'm a man in real life) who can barely move and her boyfriend decides to "take advantage." The 2nd one, I am my actual gender fighting as hard as he can to break free before he finally moves. 2. I think this one was part of my 2nd sleep paralysis episode, but I can't vividly remember: I'm traveling downstairs (I live in a 2-story house), holding on the to the railing the whole way down because I can't keep my balance, before I reach the bottom and then collapse; my mom sees me and freaks out (in real life, she is sound asleep). 3. I am raising 10 dalmation puppies as well as the dog I actually have in real life. At one point, I find my actual dog and 5 of the puppies lying outside on the streets without moving...until they all eventually get up after I come close to them. 4. Some of my middle school bullies appear in my house, as well as some kids who didn't like them for whatever reason, and as a result, for several minutes, a fight to the death ensues, finalizing in my bedroom where there's only 2 people left (I never see anyone die, just...everyone else was gone for some reason), and they just turn into the shape of some of my surrounding items as I am laying in bed before they disappear and I am able to get up; my eyes never "opened," as it was as if I was awake all along and just experiencing a massive hallucination.
    2 answers · Mental Health · 1 year ago
  • Why Do Some People "Get Down" On The First Date?

    I recall when my ex and I started getting sexual, and that was only after we'd gone on a number of dates. We got very close, and I noticed it seemed like that's all our relationship was becoming: we hardly talked or did things outside of kissing, humping, touching, etc., and I just started being disappointed with the whole thing. Now, that,... show more
    I recall when my ex and I started getting sexual, and that was only after we'd gone on a number of dates. We got very close, and I noticed it seemed like that's all our relationship was becoming: we hardly talked or did things outside of kissing, humping, touching, etc., and I just started being disappointed with the whole thing. Now, that, as I said, all happened well into dating; from what I can tell, some people just ***** on the first date, and I must ask: doesn't that make it harder for your relationship to extend beyond sex? Maybe somebody in a lasting relationship who is in it after doing this can explain things for me.
    3 answers · Singles & Dating · 1 year ago
  • Have Party Drugs Ever Given You See-Through/X-Ray Vision?

    I downed roughly 1,100 mg of Dextromethorphan and was able to see things moving around in my room with my eyes closed. Shhit was kind of cool and trippy.
    I downed roughly 1,100 mg of Dextromethorphan and was able to see things moving around in my room with my eyes closed. Shhit was kind of cool and trippy.
    2 answers · Other - Games & Recreation · 1 year ago