• Am I in an abusive marriage?

    So we’ve only been married 3 months. I’m wondering if I should try to work this out or leave. I have fibromyalgia. I’ve been with him for two years. He knows my condition. I’m in pain every single day. It takes me a good hour just to feel normal in the morning after I wake up. On the weekends he wants sex the... show more
    So we’ve only been married 3 months. I’m wondering if I should try to work this out or leave. I have fibromyalgia. I’ve been with him for two years. He knows my condition. I’m in pain every single day. It takes me a good hour just to feel normal in the morning after I wake up. On the weekends he wants sex the very moment I open my eyes. I’m very cranky from the pain so I tell him I need to wake up first so I feel better. So I just move around to allow my body to adjust from waking up. He goes to the kitchen to make coffee while I get myself together. Then, I go to hug him in the kitchen and he shrugs me off him. I ask what’s wrong and he says that he’s turned off now because I’m selfish and only want sex when it’s convenient for me. I can’t live like this in such an unaffectionate marriage. He doesn’t want to hear about how I feel. He seemed so understanding before we married. Now he calls me lazy and a quitter. Can this be worked out? Right now my pride is hurt more than anything because I’m too logical to let abuse get to me emotionally. W just see it for what it is. Should I just leave? What should I do?
    44 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 4 days ago
  • Why do friends leave when times are rough for the other person?

    Best answer: because they aren't true friends... otherwise they would stay and help you out when you need them
    Best answer: because they aren't true friends... otherwise they would stay and help you out when you need them
    4 answers · Friends · 22 hours ago
  • Have you ever heard of a couple married for 7 years with no children?

    Best answer: I was married for 8 years before we had our first child. Still happily married after 43 years.
    Best answer: I was married for 8 years before we had our first child. Still happily married after 43 years.
    19 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 2 days ago
  • Where do I go to help my parents ?

    My mother has been unwell with various ailments for the past 4 years. She spends all day every day laying on the bed. She visits the doctor at least 2 to 3 times per week and he has no answers for her. My problem is she is completely unreasonable and demands that Dad sit on the bed next to her all day every day.... show more
    My mother has been unwell with various ailments for the past 4 years. She spends all day every day laying on the bed. She visits the doctor at least 2 to 3 times per week and he has no answers for her. My problem is she is completely unreasonable and demands that Dad sit on the bed next to her all day every day. His mental health is slowly erroding as he's bored silly. He spends all his time on his iPad to keep himself entertained. The minute he goes outside to do something she gets angry with him and says he's not looking after her. We are at our wits end with her and no matter how much we try to talk to her and tell her that its completely unreasonable to expect Dad to sit on the bed all day she won't listen. She tells us its his duty. Im not sure where or who to turn to for advice. Any suggestions please
    6 answers · Family · 1 day ago
  • Is it normal to want sex everyday?

    Best answer: Well, no. If you wanted it every day, all day, you might have a problem.
    Best answer: Well, no. If you wanted it every day, all day, you might have a problem.
    19 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 3 days ago
  • Does sex feel good?

    Is it overrated? Someone told me it is, but idk if they were just trying to make me feel better about being a virgin.
    Is it overrated? Someone told me it is, but idk if they were just trying to make me feel better about being a virgin.
    14 answers · Singles & Dating · 21 hours ago
  • Is it right to hate my parents for being short ?

    Best answer: Why would you hate someone for something they can't control? Your only other alternative would be not existing at all. Your parents are the only reason you exist.

    So no, it isn't right.
    Best answer: Why would you hate someone for something they can't control? Your only other alternative would be not existing at all. Your parents are the only reason you exist.

    So no, it isn't right.
    14 answers · Family · 23 hours ago
  • My boyfriend doesn’t want to take turns?

    Best answer: You two are doing good if this is your biggest issue in 3 months !!
    Best answer: You two are doing good if this is your biggest issue in 3 months !!
    13 answers · Singles & Dating · 18 hours ago
  • I want to commit suicide because I'm a short guy?

    I met a girl on tinder who I found really attractive but she told me she's 5"11 and I am only 5"4, she instantly stopped texting me and I feel worthless and pissed off with life, shall I just end it here, I'll be forgotten by most anyway
    I met a girl on tinder who I found really attractive but she told me she's 5"11 and I am only 5"4, she instantly stopped texting me and I feel worthless and pissed off with life, shall I just end it here, I'll be forgotten by most anyway
    13 answers · Singles & Dating · 20 hours ago
  • How to become vegetarian when your family isn't?

    I'm a 16 year old girl so I'm still living at home. My family and I have always been huge meat eaters and honestly I love meat and find it a struggle to imagine my diet without it. However as I'm getting older I'm starting to come to my own conclusions about things more than just following my... show more
    I'm a 16 year old girl so I'm still living at home. My family and I have always been huge meat eaters and honestly I love meat and find it a struggle to imagine my diet without it. However as I'm getting older I'm starting to come to my own conclusions about things more than just following my parents "just don't think about what you're eating" attitude. Whilst on the computer the other day I found a presentation about how immoral eating meat is, followed by the most repulsive snapshot from an abbatoir. This video paired with my own feelings helped consolidate how I feel about eating meat. I really don't want to eat it any more for moral reason and also for the health benefits. My parents are against me going vegetarian as they think it's just a phase and it's too much hassle to make me separate meals and they believe this diet won't provide me with the necessary nutrients. Can anyone help me out?
    28 answers · Family · 4 days ago
  • Help meeeeee my bro s best friend saw me fully naked !? what should i do !!?

    my name is suzana 16 years old , my parents are in a vacation . i d a music course ,when i finished i went home my bro was not there yet(he said that he will be back with his friend at 8 pm) and it was 6 pm so i decided to have a refreshing shower. i took off all my clothes put them in the washing room and went... show more
    my name is suzana 16 years old , my parents are in a vacation . i d a music course ,when i finished i went home my bro was not there yet(he said that he will be back with his friend at 8 pm) and it was 6 pm so i decided to have a refreshing shower. i took off all my clothes put them in the washing room and went to the bath with no towel or clothes i listened to music so i didn t hear anything outside . when i finished it was around 6:30 pm i went to the living room with no clothes on *i love being naked when i am alone* when i reached the room i was shocked seeing that mybrother s friend is on the sofa staring at me(my brother was in the second bathroom) ,he saw me fully naked i froze i did not wlk and he was staring at my b**bs and pu**y i noticed that he had an erection i was so embarrassed and i walked backward on the stairs to suddenly stumble on the stairs so could see all my p***y . i stood and ran to my room (he saw my ass too) to hear his voice "why hiding suzana ? i saw everything" i ignored him but he ran towards me and said: wait! so i in great stupidity turned to him and he said : you are so sexy and your body is amazing . then he hold my b**bs and kissed me ! my face turned red..he smiled and kissed me again making his p***s touch my body i could fell it,i got wet,i could not control my self so i cried and ran to the bathroom and locked the door. and i am now with no clothes in the and do not know what should i do !??? please help me tell me what to do
    13 answers · Friends · 22 hours ago
  • My sister walks around naked how do I tell her to cover up a little?

    Best answer: Perhaps you should do as the Romans and start walking around naked too.
    Best answer: Perhaps you should do as the Romans and start walking around naked too.
    20 answers · Family · 3 days ago
  • What can I do about my ex using child support money for our daughter to support 2 kids from other relationships?

    I pay child support for my 15 year old daughter monthly. My ex uses the money to support my daughter and the other 2 kids because their dads are not on court mandated child support. They are self-employed and barely give her anything. Since the child support I'm paying is supporting 4 people, my daughter did... show more
    I pay child support for my 15 year old daughter monthly. My ex uses the money to support my daughter and the other 2 kids because their dads are not on court mandated child support. They are self-employed and barely give her anything. Since the child support I'm paying is supporting 4 people, my daughter did not have money to participate in an extra curricular activity at school; her mom didn't have the money. So now, my 15-year old has a parttime job after school and is missing some of her school homework. 1) Can the courts require her to get support from the 2 dads? 2) Can I reduce my child support by sending money to the school for xtra curricular activities. 3) Can I send a portion of the child support directly to my daughter?
    22 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 3 days ago
  • Why does my wife always jump to conclusions?

    My wife has the uncanning ability to hear three or four words of a conversation, assume what the rest of it is, and then go directly to the end and start an argument because, she feels, she's not going to like what you have to say before you say it. Last night I get a call from my / our oldest granddaughter.... show more
    My wife has the uncanning ability to hear three or four words of a conversation, assume what the rest of it is, and then go directly to the end and start an argument because, she feels, she's not going to like what you have to say before you say it. Last night I get a call from my / our oldest granddaughter. She's 9. The child of my god-daughter before my wife and I were married. Anyway, several weeks ago my daughter informed me of a "donuts-for-dads" event at their school coming up. Her and her 6 year old brother attend the same school. My granddaughter was calling me last night to remind me that the event was in the morning. All my wife hears was "Ok, what time again? 8 AM? Alright, you know I'll be there." After a little more conversation we hung up. Right now my truck is in the shop and as convenient as it can be, my wife told me yesterday that she had taken the day off. The minute I got off the phone she lit into me like I had already asked her to change her plans and that she was tired of doing that for everyone. Several weeks ago me, her and her 23 year old son were in the car and she informed us that she had cancelled her eye doctor's appointment that Sat because she felt like someone would want her. No one asked her to do that. She just assumed and cancelled her appointment. Yes, I was going to ask her could I borrow her car to run about 5 miles down the road to our grandkids school to attend donuts for dads because their dads couldn't make it
    18 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 2 days ago
  • Is sex daily bad?

    12 answers · Singles & Dating · 20 hours ago