• Is my friend a lot older than me?

    Her birthday is October 28, 1999 and my birthday is February 11, 2000. She always tries to make me sound like a little baby just because I was born in the 2000s and she was born in the 90s, I mean she’s only months older so it’s starting to bother me how she’s always all like “hey little baby” and she says things... show more
    Her birthday is October 28, 1999 and my birthday is February 11, 2000. She always tries to make me sound like a little baby just because I was born in the 2000s and she was born in the 90s, I mean she’s only months older so it’s starting to bother me how she’s always all like “hey little baby” and she says things like “haha you didn’t experience the 90s” and it really bothers me. It got me thinking, is she really a lot older than me and would that make her a century older than me like she says?
    18 answers · Friends · 2 days ago
  • Do you think a man is wrong?

    Let's say a man and his wife had a baby. The man's wife was one of those people who are against vaccination. So he took the baby to be vaccinated behind her back, against her will.
    Let's say a man and his wife had a baby. The man's wife was one of those people who are against vaccination. So he took the baby to be vaccinated behind her back, against her will.
    16 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 1 day ago
  • What are insufffiecnment funds?

    Best answer: It means that you do not have the money or do not have the entire amount of money that you are trying to spend on a debit or credit card.
    Best answer: It means that you do not have the money or do not have the entire amount of money that you are trying to spend on a debit or credit card.
    6 answers · Family · 1 day ago
  • Doc wants one thing, husband thinks another.?

    My doctor wants me to see a counselor for help with my depression and anxiety. My husband thinks that I use both as an excuse. My entire family suffers from this and I am on medications, but they are not working and I'd like to do something healthier. Doctor thinks that being able to talk to someone will help... show more
    My doctor wants me to see a counselor for help with my depression and anxiety. My husband thinks that I use both as an excuse. My entire family suffers from this and I am on medications, but they are not working and I'd like to do something healthier. Doctor thinks that being able to talk to someone will help tremendously. Husband won't agree with it. So do I see counselor? Do I tell my husband or not tell my husband? What do I do.
    16 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 2 days ago
  • I'm happily married. But I can't stop looking at other women. What should I do?

    Best answer: There's nothing wrong with looking. Mother Nature pretty much dictates that men should look at women. It's almost a reflex. Naturally you'll notice when an attractive woman walks by. If you stop looking, you're dead. And by the way, you don't think women don't notice attractive men, do... show more
    Best answer: There's nothing wrong with looking. Mother Nature pretty much dictates that men should look at women. It's almost a reflex. Naturally you'll notice when an attractive woman walks by.

    If you stop looking, you're dead. And by the way, you don't think women don't notice attractive men, do you? Of course we do.

    The point is that you should not stare, ogle, leer, or make suggestive remarks. You should also try to avoid obvious looking when your wife is with you.
    18 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 2 days ago
  • Why does no one care about my birthday?

    Just turned 14 today. Didn’t get a present, didn’t do anything. My parents excuse was they were busy but up until this point they’ve been watching Television. We don’t have money problems, I’m not grounded or in trouble in any way, I have a 4.0 GPA (and had for my whole life.) I feel under appreciated, especially... show more
    Just turned 14 today. Didn’t get a present, didn’t do anything. My parents excuse was they were busy but up until this point they’ve been watching Television. We don’t have money problems, I’m not grounded or in trouble in any way, I have a 4.0 GPA (and had for my whole life.) I feel under appreciated, especially since my friends can afford to take me out and not my parents. Am I being spoiled? Im feeling close to suicidal at this point because of the events that have led up to this day. Help.
    10 answers · Friends · 11 hours ago
  • How do you know when you have found the one?

    Best answer: If you listen only to your heart - you may get burned like billions of people in the past, including me, did. It takes mutual true love, lots of things in common, and both people being strong people for a relationship to last a lifetime. Here's some information about love from the books True Love Lasts,... show more
    Best answer: If you listen only to your heart - you may get burned like billions of people in the past, including me, did.

    It takes mutual true love, lots of things in common, and both people being strong people for a relationship to last a lifetime.

    Here's some information about love from the books True Love Lasts, Straight Talk About Teen Dating, and Straight Talk About Dating:

    “Unfortunately, lots of people don’t know what true love is and that’s a big reason why a large number of marriage relationships are unhappy. Many people think that true love is just a feeling. You know, the wonderful head spinning feeling of being “in love.”

    If true love is just a feeling, feelings come and go. But true love doesn't come and go. True love is patient and kind. It isn’t jealous, rude, selfish, controlling, or easily angered. It forgives. It’s supportive, loyal, hopeful, and trusting.

    Unlike the feeling of being “in love” which is relatively easy to get especially during dating, true love usually develops slowly over a significant period of time (often years). True love is so much more than just the feeling of being “in love” - it’s supposed to be a mutual lifelong commitment. When you say that you love your significant other, you’re saying that you’re committed to loving them for the rest of your life - for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, from this day forward, until death do you part. True love lasts - it almost never fails.

    Think of it this way, if a person has true love for another person, it’s like the sun - it’s always there no matter what (remember that even at night, the sun is still there, it’s just shining on the other side of the earth - and when it’s cloudy outside the sun is also still there, it’s just behind the clouds).

    On the other hand, the feeling of being “in love” is like sunshine - even though we’d like it to be sunny every day, the truth is that the amount of sunshine changes regularly. Some days it’s nice and sunny and the feeling of being “in love” is strong, on others it’s partly cloudy and the feeling of being “in love” is there but it’s not very strong, and on other days it’s cloudy and the feeling of being “in love” is barely there at all. I’m hoping that this explanation is helping you to see that it’s possible for a person to have true love for another person and not have a strong intense feeling of being “in love” with that person at a particular moment. (If you talk with married couples, I think they’ll tell you that the strength of their feelings of being “in love” changes regularly.)

    So when you hear someone say, “I don't love him or her anymore” - take it for what it usually is. It’s usually someone saying that they’ve lost the feeling of being “in love”, that they don’t know how or they’re not willing to make the effort required to get the feeling back, and that they probably never had true love for their significant other to begin with because true love almost never fails.

    Many times I’ve heard young women say, “my boyfriend loves me.” Unfortunately, most of these women have been fooled. How could their boyfriend possibly have true love for them if their boyfriend doesn’t even know what true love is? Sadly many people marry when one or both people don't have true love for the other - and the result is usually divorce because it's hard to keep a marriage together when it's based only on the feeling of being "in love."

    My first suggestion is that you put in the effort necessary to become a strong person (if you’re not already). A strong person has good character (honesty, integrity, trustworthiness), a positive attitude (cheerful, caring, friendly, forgiving, helpful, and respectful), fulfills their responsibilities (for handling pains in a positive way, for always trying to make a good choice, for taking care of themselves, for serving others), puts forth their best effort, and displays self-control (of their body, anger, tongue and money).

    My second suggestion is that you eventually look for this type of person (otherwise you are setting yourself up for a broken heart). Unfortunately this type of person is difficult to find – but save yourself the heartache and don’t settle for less.

    (Please remember that you eventually want a 50 or 60 year marriage - not a 5 or 10 year marriage.)

    Hope this helps!
    10 answers · Singles & Dating · 3 days ago
  • Is lusting over your child sexual abuse?

    Best answer: He's already been sexually abusing you for years with grossly inappropriate touching. You can get him stopped and get help for yourself by telling a teacher, a nurse, a doctor, a police officer, call 911, call Child Protective Services, tell them what's been happening to you. Don't bother telling your... show more
    Best answer: He's already been sexually abusing you for years with grossly inappropriate touching. You can get him stopped and get help for yourself by telling a teacher, a nurse, a doctor, a police officer, call 911, call Child Protective Services, tell them what's been happening to you.
    Don't bother telling your mother. Chances are she's well aware of what her husband's been doing to you and either doesn't care to stop it or blames you (you are NOT at fault). He is NOT being playful --- he is a sexual predator. I've seen many mothers abandon their kids like this. Get help and get out of there as soon as possible.
    24 answers · Family · 4 days ago
  • Found my 17 year old sisters vodka. What do I do?

    So my sister stole ten dollars from me while I was sleeping and while I was home alone I snooped through her room and found vodka. She is a douche to me (as you can see by the fact she took my money, plus she hits me for no reason), so I was thinking I should tell or maybe even make her pay me off. What should I do?
    So my sister stole ten dollars from me while I was sleeping and while I was home alone I snooped through her room and found vodka. She is a douche to me (as you can see by the fact she took my money, plus she hits me for no reason), so I was thinking I should tell or maybe even make her pay me off. What should I do?
    21 answers · Family · 3 days ago
  • The best way to respond to an insulting wife?

    A lot of people know about my struggles with my wife. Perhaps the worst of it are the insults that affect my self esteem. Comments such as stupid, idiot and useless. I have to do my best to try and be happy with life but it is very hard sometimes. I read a website that said the best way to deal with an insulting... show more
    A lot of people know about my struggles with my wife. Perhaps the worst of it are the insults that affect my self esteem. Comments such as stupid, idiot and useless. I have to do my best to try and be happy with life but it is very hard sometimes. I read a website that said the best way to deal with an insulting wife is to ignore the comments and carry on as normal. Because apparently a wife is so upset subconsciously that they need to lash out and drag the husband down until he is so unhappy that he gives her an easy reason to leave. Now that might be well and good, but I really don't think it will assist in behaviour changes. Yes behaviour change can only come about from the person doing the wrong thing. Also, I feel like it's a bad example for my son. He is too young to understand but what happens when he is older and he sees his mother calling his father stupid and dumb? I might end up with a son that doesn't respect me and joins in calling me stupid. I don't expect my wife to change any time soon. I can try to ignore the nasty comments. But I need something to change :(
    36 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 4 days ago
  • Losing Virginity/Girl?

    Best answer: here is your problem "I was wet but he got super excited and stuck it in early lmao" sex does not stretch out your vagina. but sufficient foreplay causes it to easily open to fit a penis. you may have been "comfortable" but you were no where near turned on enough for penetration. when you are... show more
    Best answer: here is your problem "I was wet but he got super excited and stuck it in early lmao"
    sex does not stretch out your vagina. but sufficient foreplay causes it to easily open to fit a penis. you may have been "comfortable" but you were no where near turned on enough for penetration. when you are aroused enough for sex the cervix moves up out of the way so that it is not getting punched at a mere 3 inches. you should be close to orgasm through foreplay before you allow him to "stick it in" being wet happens very early in arousal, that does not mean aroused enough for penetration
    38 answers · Singles & Dating · 5 days ago
  • If you had a friend who believes the earth is flat would you still be their friend?

    Best answer: Nobody honestly *believes* that. The whole "Flat Earth" thing is only a psychological ploy used by people with confrontational tendencies. They're intentionally denying reality just to irritate & annoy others. It's no different than someone insisting the Easter Bunny is real, simply bcuz they get... show more
    Best answer: Nobody honestly *believes* that. The whole "Flat Earth" thing is only a psychological ploy used by people with confrontational tendencies. They're intentionally denying reality just to irritate & annoy others. It's no different than someone insisting the Easter Bunny is real, simply bcuz they get off on arguing with people about it. And personally, if I knew someone who was THAT confrontational, they're not the type I'd want as a friend regardless.
    39 answers · Friends · 5 days ago
  • Should men get murdered for cheating on their wives?

    Best answer: I believe in equal treatment so your idea has merit. But according to my beliefs, stoning of unfaithful women ended over 2000 years ago
    Best answer: I believe in equal treatment so your idea has merit. But according to my beliefs, stoning of unfaithful women ended over 2000 years ago
    10 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 17 hours ago
  • If a 40 year old man dates an immature 21 year old girl who looks 13-14 is he a closet pedophile?

    She is incredibly immature. She cannot spell to save her life and she is from the suburbs, lives in her parents nice home yet she talks in slang terms. Her grammar is awful and she talks like she is in a gang despite living in an affluent neigborhood with her 2 married parents who dote on her. She complains that... show more
    She is incredibly immature. She cannot spell to save her life and she is from the suburbs, lives in her parents nice home yet she talks in slang terms. Her grammar is awful and she talks like she is in a gang despite living in an affluent neigborhood with her 2 married parents who dote on her. She complains that life is too hard and she shouldn't have to do her own laundry or work part time while in college. She is obsessed with memes and facebook and writing long rants about how life is so unfair and she has the hardest life of anyone she knows. The girl is spoiled rotten, her parents baby her and gave her a car, free rent, free college. All she has to do is pay for her car insurance and her food and she thinks its the end of the world. She looks like she is 14 years old at the very oldest. She listens to trap music and the horrible artists that do nothing but swear and say words that rhyme and she is the type that makes snapchat vidoes of her making duckfaces with those songs playing in background. A typical phrase for her is something like "im so sick of life lol, when ur parents tell you have to pay insurance, now wonder people drink or commit suicide, i work just to hand my money to bills, thank god for weed and beer, ugggh" To reiterate she looks 14, she could pass for an 8th grader, she's 4'11 and wears childish clothes as well
    50 answers · Singles & Dating · 5 days ago
  • Is it wrong to do this to my husband?

    Sometimes I slip tablets into my husband's coffee or tea to help stimulate him to have sex with me. Sometimes he's too tired or never aroused We had a dry spell where we would have sex once a month. Now with using the tablets we have sex 3-5 days a week. One of my girlfriend's suggested this and I... show more
    Sometimes I slip tablets into my husband's coffee or tea to help stimulate him to have sex with me. Sometimes he's too tired or never aroused We had a dry spell where we would have sex once a month. Now with using the tablets we have sex 3-5 days a week. One of my girlfriend's suggested this and I feel good about it. But another friend of mine said its immoral and said I should divorce him for not naturally being able to have sex as much as I desire. Am I horrible wife?
    62 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 5 days ago
  • Why did my mother in law explain to my son that he isn't a real bio grandson, but that he is a stepgrandson?

    I was angry at her and all as she said is that she has respect for the honest truth and the children shouldn't be lied to about things like this. My husband has been the only father he knows. Now this woman has blown it and how my son sees his grandmother. My husband says that his mother is the matriarch of... show more
    I was angry at her and all as she said is that she has respect for the honest truth and the children shouldn't be lied to about things like this. My husband has been the only father he knows. Now this woman has blown it and how my son sees his grandmother. My husband says that his mother is the matriarch of the family and when she doesn't think something is not truthful or morally right she will address it.
    14 answers · Marriage & Divorce · 2 days ago
  • Who is your crush?

    15 answers · Singles & Dating · 2 days ago