• Topless around a guy friend?

    I'm 15. The girls in my friend group have been talking about going to a nude beach this weekend. It's got black sand, with a famous sunrise view, so even I was excited. Then everyone started talking about if they would get naked or not. All of the girls said they would, or at least lose their tops.... show more
    I'm 15. The girls in my friend group have been talking about going to a nude beach this weekend. It's got black sand, with a famous sunrise view, so even I was excited. Then everyone started talking about if they would get naked or not. All of the girls said they would, or at least lose their tops. There's only one guy in our our group, he just kind of shrugged about it. I don't really care about being topless in front of the general public if it's a nude beach where I don't know anyone. But I'm uncertain because of the guy. It's not like I don't trust him, he's probably the only guy my age that I DO trust, but that's why I'm nervous. He's my best friend, who cheers me up, makes me laugh, respects me...but still. I've never been topless around a boy before. See, I like relaxing at the beach but I never go into the water, and he's the same way. So we're probably going to wind up hanging out by ourselves a lot. I've also got very large breasts, with classmates often staring and commenting even when I'm clothed. (Plus they tend to bounce a lot when I walk.) Most of my friends are petite or totally flat, and I know that if his eyes are drawn to anyone, it'll be me, the token Latina girl with 34DDs in our group of white friends I mean I want to do it, I do. It seems exciting, especially if the other girls do it too. But would it change anything between me and my friend? Would it make things weird? I don't want to ruin things with the one guy who makes me smile these days...
    10 answers · 15 hours ago
  • When a woman says: “you’re nice looking but I’m not interested”?

    Does she really think he’s nice looking? Or is she trying to avoid hurting his feelings?
    Does she really think he’s nice looking? Or is she trying to avoid hurting his feelings?
    25 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is this inappropriate and why?

    I’m 27. My boss is 42. Is he allowed to ask me if I’m straight or not? And if my ex had rough intercourse With me? Why would he ask me personal and sexual questions?
    I’m 27. My boss is 42. Is he allowed to ask me if I’m straight or not? And if my ex had rough intercourse With me? Why would he ask me personal and sexual questions?
    25 answers · 2 days ago
  • Why do people smile without showing teeth?

    I was told that smiling with teeth is natural
    I was told that smiling with teeth is natural
    11 answers · 5 hours ago
  • I called someone a name and they heard me?

    Best answer: You called her Dora? That is hardly the worst thing you could have called her and in any case she could never prove you were talking about her and not someone else.

    Don't worry, but maybe you should learn to keep your thoughts in your mind if you think expressing them will offend someone.
    Best answer: You called her Dora? That is hardly the worst thing you could have called her and in any case she could never prove you were talking about her and not someone else.

    Don't worry, but maybe you should learn to keep your thoughts in your mind if you think expressing them will offend someone.
    15 answers · 1 day ago
  • Why do young women not seem to like me and ignore me so much?

    I'm a 46 year old man, but I've had this problem since my late teens. I'm not good-looking, not like a model or anything like that, but equally I don't think I'm that ugly either, I think I'm a fairly ordinary looking, reasonably nice looking guy. Yet most attractive women (i.e. the kind of... show more
    I'm a 46 year old man, but I've had this problem since my late teens. I'm not good-looking, not like a model or anything like that, but equally I don't think I'm that ugly either, I think I'm a fairly ordinary looking, reasonably nice looking guy. Yet most attractive women (i.e. the kind of women I would like to like me), and I'm talking youngish women in their 20s or early 30s, just seem to completely ignore me and treat me with utter disdain. It makes me really hate them and resent them at times but I don't want to, because hate and resentment are such corrosive, horrible feelings to carry around with you. But it just seems like girls / women have never really liked me and I don't really understand why. I'm not a nasty person really. It just seems so unfair.
    9 answers · 13 hours ago
  • Is something going to happen to my brother?? Meeting strangers online?

    My bro is 20 and he’s been playing a video game where he met 2 girls who are 20 and a guy who is 46. He’s planning to meet with them all at Disneyland since they all got ‘close’. They literally met on a kids game and it makes me wonder what a 46 year old MAN is doing playing a DISNEY GAME. He was saying they were... show more
    My bro is 20 and he’s been playing a video game where he met 2 girls who are 20 and a guy who is 46. He’s planning to meet with them all at Disneyland since they all got ‘close’. They literally met on a kids game and it makes me wonder what a 46 year old MAN is doing playing a DISNEY GAME. He was saying they were all planning on getting a hotel room and he will have to share a room with the freaking guy. What kind of 46 year old has anything in common with 20 year olds? The 46 year old apparently said he’s married and has kids. Like is your wife freaking cool with you hanging out with 20 year olds? If that’s even true?! Apparently he’s only seen pictures of all of them too and no videos and when he asks they said no. And the girls are supposingly ‘flying out’ to meet at Disneyland and the 46 year old will be picking him up FROM HIS HOUSE. Why would you even give a stranger your address? Plus I’d like to mention, the 46 year old is paying for him, Disneyland and the hotel and everything. Wtf? Could this be me just tripping? Apparently my brother told him he can pay him back when he gets a job. I know those kind of people go on those sites to lure out NAIVE people and he isn’t listening to me saying ‘he knows it’s gonna be okay’.
    7 answers · 5 hours ago
  • Is it worth living?

    Best answer: I think your first port of call is your doctor, I think you have clinical depression. If you think life is not worth bothering about then you are undoubtedly depressed. If you are having Suicidal thoughts then you need to get to a doctor or hospital and tell them how you feel and they will help. Everyone on the... show more
    Best answer: I think your first port of call is your doctor, I think you have clinical depression.

    If you think life is not worth bothering about then you are undoubtedly depressed.

    If you are having Suicidal thoughts then you need to get to a doctor or hospital and tell them how you feel and they will help.

    Everyone on the planet is worthy of being here simply because they are here.

    If you are feeling suicidal please speak to someone and I don't mean on here. Go and see you doctor because suicide while it might seem the solution to your problems will obviously end them. What about the devastation that would leave behind for other people.

    Years ago when I was younger I dated a girl for a short while maybe only a month or so. I did not know she was two timing me. Her boyfriend found out about us and killed himself because of it.

    I sort of knew him and it still effects me 20 years later. Me and the girl were just having a bit of fun but it cost someone's life.

    That effected not just his family but also me and my family, the girl and her family and everyone else who knew him.

    I didn't know him well, but knew I was the reason he killed himself. I think about that every day. Please don't put that on your family and friends. Please go and see a doctor.

    Suicide is the most selfish act.

    Life is good, it is not always nice and sometimes you have to go through some **** but you learn from experience.

    I have been through depression and still take medication for it.

    Yes life is worth living because even if you can't see it now there might be something brilliant just around the corner.

    If you really are considering doing harm to yourself then you should get off here and ring your doctor or call for an ambulance.
    10 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is it better to have a lot of friends and connections or is it better to have a tight circle with only a few friends?

    Best answer: a tight circle!! there are going to be less fake people and if you ever want to change friendship groups its not like youre friends with everyone already
    Best answer: a tight circle!! there are going to be less fake people and if you ever want to change friendship groups its not like youre friends with everyone already
    17 answers · 3 days ago
  • Roommate copying me?

    Im a freshman in college and my roommate is copying everything I do. I don't know why but its starting to make me uncomfortable. It started out with just her borrowing my clothes, ordering the same clothes and copying my nail color which didn't really bother me, but then she started coping what I say and... show more
    Im a freshman in college and my roommate is copying everything I do. I don't know why but its starting to make me uncomfortable. It started out with just her borrowing my clothes, ordering the same clothes and copying my nail color which didn't really bother me, but then she started coping what I say and do. For example she got the same job as me when she already had another job and now she's completely switching her major and minor to copy me and its a pretty unique combination. I'm not sure what to do or if I should just leave it be.
    8 answers · 1 day ago
  • Why did my best friend touch my pussy during wrestling ?

    Best answer: You are wearing clothes that give her access to feel you easily. She was enjoying her time kinda used you for her own joy, probably one of the best moments of her life.
    Best answer: You are wearing clothes that give her access to feel you easily. She was enjoying her time kinda used you for her own joy, probably one of the best moments of her life.
    8 answers · 1 day ago
  • Should I be offended by what my friends said?

    today my friends slapped and touched my stomach and they said i was "getting a beer gut" im on the skinny side and my metabolism is fast but this really hurts me because i was always insecure about my belly they said it was just a joke and im slim and i know they wouldn't lie, but idk im offended
    today my friends slapped and touched my stomach and they said i was "getting a beer gut" im on the skinny side and my metabolism is fast but this really hurts me because i was always insecure about my belly they said it was just a joke and im slim and i know they wouldn't lie, but idk im offended
    5 answers · 5 hours ago
  • My friend stole a vape...and the manager of the store thinks I stole too.?

    Best answer: What's your question, dumbass? You were an accomplice which makes you just as guilty.
    Best answer: What's your question, dumbass? You were an accomplice which makes you just as guilty.
    6 answers · 1 day ago
  • Why my best friend get really mad when i have self confidence and she immediatly try to put me down and remind me that i am ugly?

    Best answer: She’s jealous of you, knowing that you’re way better than her in all aspects. She’s also not a best friend. Throw her back into the trash where you found her from and find a new one, preferably not trash.
    Best answer: She’s jealous of you, knowing that you’re way better than her in all aspects. She’s also not a best friend. Throw her back into the trash where you found her from and find a new one, preferably not trash.
    12 answers · 3 days ago
  • What are some good reasons to tell people i dont want to smoke weed when they ask?

    Best answer: You dont need an excuse, just say 'no thanks'
    Best answer: You dont need an excuse, just say 'no thanks'
    28 answers · 7 days ago
  • Why Is Saying NIGA bad if I say it ?

    Best answer: it's about not having the rights to say that word because you're different. like imagine u're in team A, and someone from team B says "sup teammate". i do find it kinda cringey when white kids say that word tho, it's like being desperate to tryna fit in with the black kids. but yeah, i... show more
    Best answer: it's about not having the rights to say that word because you're different. like imagine u're in team A, and someone from team B says "sup teammate". i do find it kinda cringey when white kids say that word tho, it's like being desperate to tryna fit in with the black kids. but yeah, i don't think they your friends if they beat the hell out of you like that. maybe, acquaintances is the right word lol.
    6 answers · 11 hours ago
  • What does my guy friend mean?

    I was telling my guy friend I broke my toe and it was swollen. I said my coworkers were picking on me bc I was limping lol and a box a Keurig came out and whacked me in the head too! He sends a text back that says, "Sounds like your new composite toe shoes and a hard hat with a winky face? Wth does he mean? Ha.
    I was telling my guy friend I broke my toe and it was swollen. I said my coworkers were picking on me bc I was limping lol and a box a Keurig came out and whacked me in the head too! He sends a text back that says, "Sounds like your new composite toe shoes and a hard hat with a winky face? Wth does he mean? Ha.
    6 answers · 1 day ago