• Spicing up sex life = cheating?

    My husband bought bondage, a booty plug, lingerie and other various stuff from the sex shop. It was a bit random to me since we havent talked aboit trying new things out. He has seemed a little different in the bedroom, does this indicate he is possibly cheating?
    My husband bought bondage, a booty plug, lingerie and other various stuff from the sex shop. It was a bit random to me since we havent talked aboit trying new things out. He has seemed a little different in the bedroom, does this indicate he is possibly cheating?
    18 answers · 1 day ago
  • Should I allow my Wife to look at my Check?

    Yesterday my wife picked up my check, looked it over and said "you make a nice bit." Something about that made me angry like she was invading my privacy. When I told her not to just pick up my check looking at it, she said "I'm your wife, I'm allowed to look at it to see how much you're... show more
    Yesterday my wife picked up my check, looked it over and said "you make a nice bit." Something about that made me angry like she was invading my privacy. When I told her not to just pick up my check looking at it, she said "I'm your wife, I'm allowed to look at it to see how much you're bringing in." I don't really agree with with that but should I just allow her to do it? Is there any harm in it?
    26 answers · 3 days ago
  • If a woman works in a marriage does it make the man look weak?

    I've wanted an honest opinion out of this. In a marriage if the wife works and the husband works does it emasculate the man? I've heard people say before if your wife works "it's not a marriage you are roommates". My cousins husband does all the work in their household even though he is... show more
    I've wanted an honest opinion out of this. In a marriage if the wife works and the husband works does it emasculate the man? I've heard people say before if your wife works "it's not a marriage you are roommates". My cousins husband does all the work in their household even though he is stressed all the time I admire him for being a strong man and taking one for the team. Yes I'd rather be stressed and angry than emasculated as well as strange as that may sound. What are your opinions?
    17 answers · 2 days ago
  • Why is your love better than any other?

    14 answers · 1 day ago
  • Why do many people question those who never marry or have children? Are they jealous? Besides, isn't it rude?

    I'm a single woman, 50s, never married or had children but am economically independent with a relaxed job I like. Travel loads, have lots of male and female friends. In fact I manage to combine my job with travel as I work for myself in technology. I simply did not meet a guy with whom I thought it would stand... show more
    I'm a single woman, 50s, never married or had children but am economically independent with a relaxed job I like. Travel loads, have lots of male and female friends. In fact I manage to combine my job with travel as I work for myself in technology. I simply did not meet a guy with whom I thought it would stand the test of time and rather than ending up a single mother or divorced (with all the trauma that goes with it) I made a decision not to become a parent and not to get married. I've had a couple of relationships including live-in and am on good terms with those guys. Why then do I sometimes get this: Did you not want to have children? Do you regret not having children? Did you not want a family? When are you going to settle? To top it off, my sister who has 4 children said 'You don't know what work is!' And another friend of 32 said 'Did you know at the age of 30 that you would still be single at your age?' Honestly, are they jealous? I look ten years younger, am happy and contented with the life I lead. I don't criticise their lives so why all the negative judgemental comments? I've never once said, never mind thought 'Why did you marry?' Why did you have children?' Besides, I would consider that rude. Opinions please.
    12 answers · 16 hours ago
  • Marriage, sex, and communication.?

    I have been married for almost 8 years. Whenever my husband gets mad at me he gives me the almost silent treatment. Meaning he only only talks to me if necessary and with as few words as possible, I beg him to tell me what s wrong, sometimes very loudly because I m so mad he s giving me the silent treatment, and ... show more
    I have been married for almost 8 years. Whenever my husband gets mad at me he gives me the almost silent treatment. Meaning he only only talks to me if necessary and with as few words as possible, I beg him to tell me what s wrong, sometimes very loudly because I m so mad he s giving me the silent treatment, and he responds with, "who says I m mad, did I tell you I was mad" but it s very obvious he is mad. And then when he is done being mad several days later, usually only because he wants sex, he will pretend like absolutely nothing ever happened, and while im asleep i wake up to him touching my private parts, No explanation. No telling me why he was mad. It has been like this the entire relationship, even before we was married. As a result most of the time we have sex now i hate. What can I do to make him talk to me when he is mad.
    13 answers · 1 day ago
  • I'm at a loss with my husband please help!?

    He was fired from his nice paying job. It seems like everytime he gets a really good job it's to hard for him. He is NOT dumb just lazy. You'd think my husband was the Prince of whales. He cannot comprehend how he is but he's just lazy. I'm so frustrated and feel like it's always something with... show more
    He was fired from his nice paying job. It seems like everytime he gets a really good job it's to hard for him. He is NOT dumb just lazy. You'd think my husband was the Prince of whales. He cannot comprehend how he is but he's just lazy. I'm so frustrated and feel like it's always something with him. He has had an emotional affair, gambling addiction, been fired frkm.jobs before... He had 2 children from a previous marriage. I'm sick of it he says he has anxiety or depression. I can't take anymore. After he was laid off he didn't tell me high blood pressure was super high and he either abused his anxiety med or has an atypical seizure... wrecked into a stop sign and kept driving all the way home dragging the sign. Our son was in the car and I was screaming at him - he doesn't remember it. This is how i feel all the time he is driving crashing into things and he's acting like he can't hear me because he doesn't care. He is weighting me and his son down from so much and I am starting to feel like he's ungrestful he doesnt deserve me. If i express my feelings he says im attacking him. I feel like he's just bringing me and his son down and does not even care. I'm tired of excuses. He wants me to make his resume again and be his little.secretary. I don't even know if he's applied to any jobs yet. I hate him for the emotional.affair a long time ago too. I love him but he disgust me too. The worst part is in his mind I treat him bad... I just react to his behavior. Any advice?
    15 answers · 2 days ago
  • Am I greedy for wanting more than just a card for Valentine’s Day?

    My husband says he only wants to do cards for valentines. Now I don’t need the most expensive present ever, but I think it would be nice to know he put more thought into it than just “here’s a 99 cent card I got you today”. I made him a handmade card and his gift was this:... show more
    My husband says he only wants to do cards for valentines. Now I don’t need the most expensive present ever, but I think it would be nice to know he put more thought into it than just “here’s a 99 cent card I got you today”. I made him a handmade card and his gift was this: https://www.thinkingcloset.com/2014/01/2... He commented that he wanted to choose when the dates were and didn’t like the idea of having to do the dates in a specific month so I don’t think he liked it very much. But he did like the card. Anyways, this year I asked him to make his card and for it to be more than just “I love you” written on a piece of paper. Am I greedy?
    24 answers · 3 days ago
  • 2nd marriage!!?

    When I was 20 Year’s old I had a son with my boyfriend, we continued to raise him even after I got married to another man years later and I hyphanated my maiden name to his, I spent 12 wonderful years with my husband had 3 children with him but he passed away 5 years ago. I am getting remarried to my eldest sons... show more
    When I was 20 Year’s old I had a son with my boyfriend, we continued to raise him even after I got married to another man years later and I hyphanated my maiden name to his, I spent 12 wonderful years with my husband had 3 children with him but he passed away 5 years ago. I am getting remarried to my eldest sons father, my boyfriend from when I was 20. Thing is I don’t want to let go of my maiden name or my husbands last name I want to stay Kostas-Webb but my fiancé wants me to have his last name because he said people would think that I’m not his wife but still the wife of my former husband. I don’t want my full name to be Samantha Kostas-Webb- McCallister!! What do I do!
    16 answers · 2 days ago
  • Mother-in-law moved in temporarily and soon it will be 2 yrs. I want her out! HELP?

    The agreement was she move in till she got her cataract surgery and had her heart checked out. Surgeries completed and her heart is fine, but now it my shoulder hurts or I feel sick etc.. This has been going on almost 2 yrs now! We live in a 1 bedroom apt and she sleeps on the couch. She wanted too! Now my living... show more
    The agreement was she move in till she got her cataract surgery and had her heart checked out. Surgeries completed and her heart is fine, but now it my shoulder hurts or I feel sick etc.. This has been going on almost 2 yrs now! We live in a 1 bedroom apt and she sleeps on the couch. She wanted too! Now my living room is a mess with all her junk, if anyone comes by she just complains about her health, now nobody comes by for more than 5 mins. Someone calls she talks to them before she tells us the call is for us, friends rarely call now. I don't want to her her feelings but she has to go! Husband agrees but he is having a hard time telling her cause it is his mom.
    14 answers · 2 days ago
  • He cheated , I wanted a separation and divorce. Why is he upset with me?

    Over two months ago I found out my husband was having an affair with a coworker. On top of all this I am 4 months pregnant. I did take him back but only to both of us agree to work on our marriage. When he came back, he didn’t care to go to counseling, didn’t want to talk about the affair and wanted to move on like... show more
    Over two months ago I found out my husband was having an affair with a coworker. On top of all this I am 4 months pregnant. I did take him back but only to both of us agree to work on our marriage. When he came back, he didn’t care to go to counseling, didn’t want to talk about the affair and wanted to move on like nothing happened. I knew myself that I wasn’t going t be able to get over it so I told him I wanted to be separated. For two days now I have been asking him for divorce and he has been so mean to me saying I’m trying to break apart this family. Also saying He doesn’t want the divorce and I’m horrible for wanting it before our child is born. But he was the one who cheated?? I just want to move on, and not have nothings linked with him but this child. Am I in the wrong?
    29 answers · 5 days ago
  • I don't think I can forget the hurtful things my husband said to me and forgive him. What should I do?

    Me and my husband have been married a little over two months now and things have been very complicated for me on my side. We were dated for three months before we got married I believed he was the right one now I'm seeing different sides of him that aren't too great. I still believe my husband has some... show more
    Me and my husband have been married a little over two months now and things have been very complicated for me on my side. We were dated for three months before we got married I believed he was the right one now I'm seeing different sides of him that aren't too great. I still believe my husband has some feelings for his ex-girlfriend who he was with before we got together. Two weeks ago he told me he had a dream and in his dream he told me that him, me and his ex-girlfriend were having a threesome and that his ex(another woman) was kissing all up on him. When I told him I was not happy about it and that he was obsessed with his ex he got mad and blurted out and said to me, "I miss the sex with my ex-girlfriend." When I confronted him about it he said he didn't mean it and said it out of anger to hurt me and make me shut up. Although, he has stopped talking about her I still feel so depressed and not too confident in this marriage. I'm trying to let it go and move on but I can't. When I tell him I'm still hurt he gets mad and says it's in the past and to just let it go because he's married to me now and ignores it.Ever since then I have lost interest in being intimate and romantic with him because I'm still upset and hurt. Ever since we started dating and up until we got married he constantly compared me to her sometimes he compared my body and personality to hers and even talked about the sex they had together and how she hurt him. Something doesn't sit well with me still
    22 answers · 4 days ago
  • ONLY STICKING AROUND FOR THE KIDS BUT I WANT OUT!?

    I can't stand the father of my kids. I used to love him but now i just can't stand the sight of him. Being in the same room as him makes me sick. The last year and a half he's put me through hell and I don't love him, or even like him as a person. We fight constantly and that is not fair to the kids... show more
    I can't stand the father of my kids. I used to love him but now i just can't stand the sight of him. Being in the same room as him makes me sick. The last year and a half he's put me through hell and I don't love him, or even like him as a person. We fight constantly and that is not fair to the kids to be around. I wanna leave with my children but I have no money & no job. Kids father is the bread winner with a great job. I have a 22 month old and an 11 month old. I would get a job but I can't atm because they are so young and I'm at home taking care of them. Also I have NO family to help with them during the day so I can find a career/schooling. His family isn't around either. Please someone give me suggestions. I don't want to live like this anymore, or have this for my children.
    14 answers · 3 days ago
  • Was Princess Diana really that great?

    My mum says she was crazy and my mum is English so...
    My mum says she was crazy and my mum is English so...
    25 answers · 5 days ago
  • Does this raise your eyebrow?

    Would you think someone is divorced (or on the brink) if they post Instagram pics/comments (jokingly) of a Wood stove, saying this is their "hot date" tonight followed by hashtag #mycurrent situation along with multiple other hashtags like "#funny, #hotdate, etc. Then another day the person posts a... show more
    Would you think someone is divorced (or on the brink) if they post Instagram pics/comments (jokingly) of a Wood stove, saying this is their "hot date" tonight followed by hashtag #mycurrent situation along with multiple other hashtags like "#funny, #hotdate, etc. Then another day the person posts a valentines pic/comment that says "Do you have a date for Valentine's Day? Yes, Feb 14th". Followed by a comment saying "I hope everyone enjoys valentines, followed by hashtags #funnyhumor, #singlelife. Another time they posted a inspirational quote about gratitude, followed by a comment recognizing all the individuals in her life she's is thankful for... mom, dad, brother, sister, cousin, friends, family, children... but no mention of her spouse. She has been married for 10 years and has 3 children with her husband. Would you think her marriage is having problems by these examples?
    9 answers · 1 day ago
  • Will you let your husband have snapchat ???

    I m highly bothered by so call snapchat when I saw my spous iPhone he has so call Twitter and snapchat. If your married you suppose to appreciate your wife because you don t need to wast your time with bunch of shameless slut who throw themselves on you. Some of them showing their **** and private parts to randome... show more
    I m highly bothered by so call snapchat when I saw my spous iPhone he has so call Twitter and snapchat. If your married you suppose to appreciate your wife because you don t need to wast your time with bunch of shameless slut who throw themselves on you. Some of them showing their **** and private parts to randome man with no shame. They don t have morals dignity no respect. So I don t want my spous to be part of this crap. I told him I trust you but you need to delete those shameless.
    13 answers · 3 days ago
  • Does he truly love me?

    Best answer: "Does he truly love me?" Let's see. Start with the basics. Real, true love is loving words backed by loving actions so let's see what his actions say, OK? "My husband has never been there for me emotionally." Strike one - doesn't sound like he is there to support you... show more
    Best answer: "Does he truly love me?" Let's see. Start with the basics. Real, true love is loving words backed by loving actions so let's see what his actions say, OK?
    "My husband has never been there for me emotionally." Strike one - doesn't sound like he is there to support you emotionally.
    When you were very ill "He rarely visited, promised to call" and didn't. No loving action either.
    "... he was trying to sleep with someone else while I was in the hospital." so he was looking elsewhere while you needed him most.. No loving action there, and he is basically a cheater..
    "My husband left me home alone with our 3 kids a lot and ran around." so he not only doesn't look after you, he doesn't care for the children either. No support, no sympathy, no empathy, no loving action there.
    Then "He took my pain medication and was trying to exchange it for sexual favors" so he left you in real pain in order to trade your drugs for sex? How many signs do you need to see he not only doesn't love you, he doesn't even act like you are someone he even likes at all.
    "I keep questioning where I stand." You are standing beside a guy who wouldn't piss on you if you were on fire. You are with a user, both of drugs and of people. You are trying to hold onto a guy who simply is not worth the effort. Someone who is already more than half way out the door, looking for someone else.
    That's where you stand. But you don't have to keep standing there. You can make a move and make a change for the better. Or not. Your choice.
    24 answers · 5 days ago