• My uncle, separated but not divorced, is sleeping with someone new. Is this normal and okay when separated but still married?

    Best answer: Well your uncle is not yet legally divorced, so technically-and morally-he is committing adultery. Is if normal and ok to do this when separated? No, probably not because he still married. But unless he is harming you in some way with what he does, then you need to stay out of his business.
    Best answer: Well your uncle is not yet legally divorced, so technically-and morally-he is committing adultery. Is if normal and ok to do this when separated? No, probably not because he still married. But unless he is harming you in some way with what he does, then you need to stay out of his business.
    36 answers · 2 days ago
  • Can a marriage work if you are no longer in love?

    I am stuck in a difficult situation. I love my fiance but I feel like I have fallen out of love with him. However I love his country and marrying him means I get to move there? I know we could have a good marriage but I don't have the same fight in me that I used to have. Can I make the relationship work... show more
    I am stuck in a difficult situation. I love my fiance but I feel like I have fallen out of love with him. However I love his country and marrying him means I get to move there? I know we could have a good marriage but I don't have the same fight in me that I used to have. Can I make the relationship work feeling this way?
    27 answers · 2 days ago
  • Do you think a threeway spices up a marriage?

    I am trying to spice up our sex life by having a threesome with my husband and his brother. Do you think this is a good idea?
    I am trying to spice up our sex life by having a threesome with my husband and his brother. Do you think this is a good idea?
    78 answers · 4 days ago
  • Should I let my wife sit in the front seat of our vehicle or my mother?

    So for the first few times I allowed my mother to sit the front seat and my wife got really upset with me about it and declared because it is OUR car and because were married she should sit next to me as a woman. But I thought it was more respectful to allow my mother to take the first seat So I talked to my mom... show more
    So for the first few times I allowed my mother to sit the front seat and my wife got really upset with me about it and declared because it is OUR car and because were married she should sit next to me as a woman. But I thought it was more respectful to allow my mother to take the first seat So I talked to my mom about this and she feels because she is my mother and the oldest she should be given the first seat. So now were all fighting over this and I'm in the middle. Who typically takes the front seat and why?
    58 answers · 4 days ago
  • My husband's farts are ruining our marriage, what should i do?

    My husband farts a lot and they smell really bad. He will fart in bed, in the car, when we are watching TV or having sex, which by the way is a huge turnoff. I told him to stop farting but he continues doing it. I am at my wit's end and I am almost ready to file for a divorce. What should I do to heal this... show more
    My husband farts a lot and they smell really bad. He will fart in bed, in the car, when we are watching TV or having sex, which by the way is a huge turnoff. I told him to stop farting but he continues doing it. I am at my wit's end and I am almost ready to file for a divorce. What should I do to heal this crumbling marriage?
    71 answers · 5 days ago
  • My brother-in-law is asking my husband to borrow money to pay for an engagement ring. Opinions?

    My husband's brother is asking my husband to lend him $6000 to buy an engagement ring, claiming he will pay us back within a year. My husband seems to think this is no problem.. I think my brother-in-law is being selfish. I think that it would be one thing if he was in a bad situation and really needed the... show more
    My husband's brother is asking my husband to lend him $6000 to buy an engagement ring, claiming he will pay us back within a year. My husband seems to think this is no problem.. I think my brother-in-law is being selfish. I think that it would be one thing if he was in a bad situation and really needed the money. He also just got unexpectedly married last year to a different woman and divorced 3 months later. We have a mortgage and a toddler, with another kid on the way and we work hard to save money. He is single with no children and a decent paying job and even brags about having expensive taste and spending money on himself. I also feel like he is kind of selfish and wouldn't do the same for us if we needed help. Am I wrong for not wanting to lend him and for thinking he has a nerve to ask?
    37 answers · 4 days ago
  • Can I add my husband (step father) to my daughter birth certificate? While my daughter father still on her birth certificate? Both ?

    My husband been on my daughter life 5 years since she was 3 months old. Last 4 years my daughter father was not supporting me only my husband . Till the beginning 2018 as soon I told him I will be taking my daughter full custody he started help out. My husband loves my daughter soo much I want him to surprise him... show more
    My husband been on my daughter life 5 years since she was 3 months old. Last 4 years my daughter father was not supporting me only my husband . Till the beginning 2018 as soon I told him I will be taking my daughter full custody he started help out. My husband loves my daughter soo much I want him to surprise him for perfect Christmas gift Certificate as his own daughter as well . But is it possible?
    15 answers · 1 day ago
  • Is it normal to want to be a slave?

    Best answer: Email me, i might have a couple of jobs for you!??

    Lol
    Best answer: Email me, i might have a couple of jobs for you!??

    Lol
    12 answers · 1 day ago
  • Stuck in a relationship....Please help!!!?

    I have been married for almost 15 years now. I have two kids. My wife is a homemaker. Our married life looks perfect from outside, however, it is very very unsatisfied from inside. I am living almost sexless (once one month) and respect-less life for the last 5 years. Whenever I try to talk to my wife she always... show more
    I have been married for almost 15 years now. I have two kids. My wife is a homemaker. Our married life looks perfect from outside, however, it is very very unsatisfied from inside. I am living almost sexless (once one month) and respect-less life for the last 5 years. Whenever I try to talk to my wife she always ignores/yell/blame at me. We also went for counseling, however, no benefit. I am completely stuck in this relationship. I also met with a divorce attorney, however, I found that divorce will SURELY make my kid’s life worse. I really need help on how to handle this situation. This is creating lots of issues into my professional and personal growth. Can anybody give any PRACTICAL suggestion which can be applied to resolve this issue?....I tried to talk to her several time (almost 100+ times) but end-up with more stress and blame. Please help me!!!!!
    15 answers · 2 days ago
  • Should I break up eith my boyfriend of 6 years because he wont marry me?

    Best answer: In my view, and i'm a woman, i see that women have some idea that their entire world will change when they get married and it will be like living some sort of fantasy. Well, this is not the case, life goes on as usual. And a lot of women DO have the idea they want to get married, and this is not a bad thing... show more
    Best answer: In my view, and i'm a woman, i see that women have some idea that their entire world will change when they get married and it will be like living some sort of fantasy. Well, this is not the case, life goes on as usual. And a lot of women DO have the idea they want to get married, and this is not a bad thing whatsoever.

    Men, on the other hand, have to feel financially prepared, of course, but more importantly for the man, he has to feel EMOTIONALLY prepared for marriage. This is an entirely different ball of wax than how most women think. And if a man isn't ready, he's not. I'd never ask my boyfriend (of 7 years) to marry me because i don't really think it's the best of plans to try to urge a male to get married. It's just not a good idea, and most men are not predisposed to being pressured -- this is how they see it when a woman keeps asking about marriage.

    Not sure what you're going to think about if you spend time apart, except for the fact that you could truly consider laying off the marriage pressure and focus on something else. There you two are, together for quite sometime, considering getting a house together (which he obviously has agreed to, so this is a HUGE commitment for a man and maybe the first step toward making a future, marriage commitment when he doesn't feel pressured).

    Along with all of this, two people need to be on the same page when it comes to getting married. He's not. I'd leave it alone, and i would toss the ball into his court.

    As far as a prenuptial agreement goes before marriage, they are fine and well, but they are all about assets held by a person BEFORE marriage to protect investments.... prenuptial agreements are not about assets gained after marriage. Whatever is gained during a marriage is mutual property. It's just the way it is in most states, that i know of. I'd just play dumb about this, if he has no clue what a prenuptial agreement is all about. I guess he will find out sooner or later, if he doesn't know now.

    I don't think you're "compromising"... the two of you simply do not want the same thing at this moment in time. Not sure why you can't just be happy with things the way they are. If you buy the house together, he's making a huge commitment already (again, and i said this before). Just give him time and space, focus on other things - such as your relationship as it is right now. Right now, i don't see that you have any major problems.
    10 answers · 18 hours ago
  • Husband won’t have sex with me, I am 33 yo, attractive I think but he would rather read a book, should I get a dildo or look for a real man?

    Best answer: Look for an ALPHA MAN.
    Best answer: Look for an ALPHA MAN.
    12 answers · 1 day ago
  • My wife's farts are ruining our marriage, what should I do?

    My wife farts a lot and they smell really bad. She will fart in bed, in the car, when we are watching TV or having sex, which by the way is a huge turnoff. I told her to stop farting but she continues doing it. I am at my wit's end and I am almost ready to file for a divorce. What should I do to heal this... show more
    My wife farts a lot and they smell really bad. She will fart in bed, in the car, when we are watching TV or having sex, which by the way is a huge turnoff. I told her to stop farting but she continues doing it. I am at my wit's end and I am almost ready to file for a divorce. What should I do to heal this crumbling marriage?
    10 answers · 20 hours ago
  • I love my wife but I don’t find her sexually attractive anymore. She’s growing resentment towards me, I don’t know what to do?

    Best answer: I can't stand my boyfriend anymore he's grumpy whiny racist and pisses me off. I'm not leaving cause he isn't abusive and makes ok money but it's become a matter of dislike. I might leave after our kid is grown up. I suggest either change something to make sex exiting or learn to pretend to... show more
    Best answer: I can't stand my boyfriend anymore he's grumpy whiny racist and pisses me off. I'm not leaving cause he isn't abusive and makes ok money but it's become a matter of dislike.
    I might leave after our kid is grown up.
    I suggest either change something to make sex exiting or learn to pretend to enjoy sex( we women do it all the time!)
    9 answers · 21 hours ago
  • My husband bought me flowers should I forgive him?

    My husband and I argued about work and the kids. He works 4am to 5pm and I m self employed and work on call for a few hours. Well he went to help a friend on his truck and I got a call from work and well I had to take my two boys with me. We ve talked about him needing to be there for my work too and he s never... show more
    My husband and I argued about work and the kids. He works 4am to 5pm and I m self employed and work on call for a few hours. Well he went to help a friend on his truck and I got a call from work and well I had to take my two boys with me. We ve talked about him needing to be there for my work too and he s never done this to me before he s always there to help with our boys if I get a call. But when I called him I was so angry that he said he couldn t come back right then and there to watch the boys. Well he bought me flowers today I woke up to them and him saying sorry but I m not sure if I m ready to just forget and not be mad anymore. Am I wrong? Should I forgive and talk about it.
    29 answers · 5 days ago
  • Husband wants to go home to see his son for Christmas but we can’t afford it.?

    We barely have any savings, and a round trip ticket for a family of 3 will cost atleast 1,800. This would take away from the children’s holiday gifts and I don’t think it’s fair to anyone. Especially our 2 year old daughter whom we have a set budget for. I was planning on mailing his son his gifts and hoping that... show more
    We barely have any savings, and a round trip ticket for a family of 3 will cost atleast 1,800. This would take away from the children’s holiday gifts and I don’t think it’s fair to anyone. Especially our 2 year old daughter whom we have a set budget for. I was planning on mailing his son his gifts and hoping that we could go visit after the holidays are over so we have more time to book a flight at a cheaper cost. If we go home we have to worry about budgeting for everyone else’s gifts on top of the flights and right now I rather keep our money since we barely have 5k in our savings at the time. Am I being selfish or am I being logical?
    36 answers · 5 days ago
  • If wife is 29 and husband is 36, then is it true that the wife is very young age and the husband's age is too old?

    Best answer: No that is a perfectly fine age gap. My mom was 29 and dad 46 when they had me. 17yr difference.
    29 is not young it is knocking on 30. Also 36 is not old not even middle aged.
    Best answer: No that is a perfectly fine age gap. My mom was 29 and dad 46 when they had me. 17yr difference.
    29 is not young it is knocking on 30. Also 36 is not old not even middle aged.
    16 answers · 3 days ago
  • Is every romantic relation ship a contract where the participants agree to fulfill each others' physical and emotional needs ?

    Best answer: Yes, but there are no terms that prevent either party to unilaterally void the contract at any time, except in marriage.
    Best answer: Yes, but there are no terms that prevent either party to unilaterally void the contract at any time, except in marriage.
    8 answers · 9 hours ago