• Hubby feels date nights are pointless?

    So my husband doesn't see the point of date nights. We haven't been out together in 5 years. The last time we went to the movies or did anything that represented a date was during my pregnancy with our daughter back in 2013. Then our first son was born a year after she was, and we just had our second son 7... show more
    So my husband doesn't see the point of date nights. We haven't been out together in 5 years. The last time we went to the movies or did anything that represented a date was during my pregnancy with our daughter back in 2013. Then our first son was born a year after she was, and we just had our second son 7 months ago. He feels time is better spent staying home and cleaning house (yes, we're behind on housework), except when friends invite us out to the park or over to their house for a bbq. Our fifth anniversary just passed, and we did nothing. He worked all weekend. My boss--who is more of a father than my own dad--told me just to go alone. But getting out of the house alone is a complete chore in itself. My 4 y/o thinks that just because someone is leaving, that she can automatically go too. IMO, he's kind of holding a grudge that I got pregnant again last year. He completely changed after the baby was born. He used to bring me coffee in bed in the mornings. Now if he just pours into my mug is like...wow! It's crossed my mind a few times that he only stuck around because of the kids; that maybe we wouldn't have made this long or far if it hadn't been for them. Now it's to the point where I don't care if I go out with HIM; I just want to go out and do something without the kids. But he acts like I'm being a bad mom for even considering it.
    18 answers · 20 hours ago
  • Should I believe my husband or is he lying ??

    I was about to take my husbands everyday leather jacket for drycleaning when I found a pair of tights in his pocket. I asked him about it and he confidently said he bought them for me. Mind he couldn’t tell me where from, when, show me a receipt or even explain why they were unwrapped and roughed up in his pocket.... show more
    I was about to take my husbands everyday leather jacket for drycleaning when I found a pair of tights in his pocket. I asked him about it and he confidently said he bought them for me. Mind he couldn’t tell me where from, when, show me a receipt or even explain why they were unwrapped and roughed up in his pocket. All he had to say was that he bought them for me. Obviously I didn’t believe that and a fight started. Few hours later he comes up with another story saying he got them in my drawers and was gonna ask me if I’m still wearing them, then put it in his pocket and forgot. So the first story was a lie now he wants to make me believe this one that still doesn’t make sense. I told him I didn’t believe him and he got angry and now accuses me of persecuting him, breaking the peace in the marriage and insists he’s done nothing wrong. I asked him for a STI test. He first refused saying I’m overreacting. I insisted and now he will get it done after another long argument about it. I’m i overreacting ? Should I believe him and let it go. ? Ps: he has cheated on me twice before
    17 answers · 18 hours ago
  • Do you need love In marriage?

    Let’s say that you married your wife because of a serie of unfortunate circumstances and family pressure. It was a kind of an arranged marriage. So you have no feelings for her, but you still think that she’s a good person.
    Let’s say that you married your wife because of a serie of unfortunate circumstances and family pressure. It was a kind of an arranged marriage. So you have no feelings for her, but you still think that she’s a good person.
    31 answers · 3 days ago
  • If your wife bring a younger and pretty woman into the bedroom would you accept it?

    Best answer: Not without having a long talk with the wife. I know a trap when I see one.
    Best answer: Not without having a long talk with the wife. I know a trap when I see one.
    14 answers · 23 hours ago
  • What should I do when my husband leaves?

    My husbands going to his best friends bachelor party in Vegas (which I’m very against but he’s set on going). I need ideas on how to keep distracted I don’t want to be sitting on the couch crying for 3 days and wondering every second if he’s got a stripper around him. If I go to Vegas too it’ll look like revenge... show more
    My husbands going to his best friends bachelor party in Vegas (which I’m very against but he’s set on going). I need ideas on how to keep distracted I don’t want to be sitting on the couch crying for 3 days and wondering every second if he’s got a stripper around him. If I go to Vegas too it’ll look like revenge and I don’t want to do a spa day that just gives you more tome to think and panick. Any ideas? Im desperate? I live in California so anywhere I can go to totally distract my mind from paranoia?? :( Thanks!
    13 answers · 22 hours ago
  • Husband 15 year prison sentence? Advice?

    My friend husband just received a 15 year prison sentence for drug possession, what would you advise her to do, wait for him or divorce him, I didn't dare say go on with your life yet because she's emotionally attached to him, they been married 3 years no kids . Honestly if he was a repeat offender I think... show more
    My friend husband just received a 15 year prison sentence for drug possession, what would you advise her to do, wait for him or divorce him, I didn't dare say go on with your life yet because she's emotionally attached to him, they been married 3 years no kids . Honestly if he was a repeat offender I think he didn't think of the consequences or about how this would affect her , pretty selfish I'd say, honest opinions ONLY.
    23 answers · 3 days ago
  • Blended family estate planning?

    My husband and I are in our second marriage. My husband has 2 kids from his earlier marriage. I have one. We have none together. My questions is how will the combined assets be divided between the children? Should everyone get the same share (that would mean 2/3 for my husband's children and 1/3 for mine) or... show more
    My husband and I are in our second marriage. My husband has 2 kids from his earlier marriage. I have one. We have none together. My questions is how will the combined assets be divided between the children? Should everyone get the same share (that would mean 2/3 for my husband's children and 1/3 for mine) or should my son get just a little more? I'd like to know your opinion and also your own experience if any. Thank you
    11 answers · 23 hours ago
  • Married couples or people in relationships: How do you balance your close family and your fiance/husband?

    I know you can just bring your spouse or fiance, but what if the family member just wants to spend time with you? Is it disrespectuful to your partner to alienate them to spend time with family members who just want your time?
    I know you can just bring your spouse or fiance, but what if the family member just wants to spend time with you? Is it disrespectuful to your partner to alienate them to spend time with family members who just want your time?
    21 answers · 3 days ago
  • Having feelings for a guy at work?

    I don't know his exact age but he's 10 years younger than me, lol -Im married, he's free. He works directly across from me, assembly line work , I catch myself staring at him wondering what he looks like nude, funny thing is I was never attracted to him until I started hanging out with him at lunch... show more
    I don't know his exact age but he's 10 years younger than me, lol -Im married, he's free. He works directly across from me, assembly line work , I catch myself staring at him wondering what he looks like nude, funny thing is I was never attracted to him until I started hanging out with him at lunch break. I know he is well endowed , one of the girls slept with him, he broke her heart. wish my husband was like him :(
    17 answers · 2 days ago
  • In a divorce, why doesn't each person keep what is there's (what they payed for)?

    So if one spouse works and earns income, or buys something (especially something big like a house), why shouldn't they be able to keep their income THEY earned and the house THEY bought?
    So if one spouse works and earns income, or buys something (especially something big like a house), why shouldn't they be able to keep their income THEY earned and the house THEY bought?
    10 answers · 14 hours ago
  • Was I right to confront my future sister in law about not making me her bridesmaid?

    So in the beginning of my brother's engagement he said he would make me his wive's honarary bridesmaid. I was very excited After six month in the engagement (today) my future sister in law sat me down and said, she would prefer to have close friends and her sisters to be her bridesmaids and insincerely... show more
    So in the beginning of my brother's engagement he said he would make me his wive's honarary bridesmaid. I was very excited After six month in the engagement (today) my future sister in law sat me down and said, she would prefer to have close friends and her sisters to be her bridesmaids and insincerely apologized. This pisses me off. So I later confronted her and told her how much of a controlling ***** she is and just jealous because my brother loves me more and I even threatened to ruin their relationship. She was in tears and my brother was very upset with me and hurt that she didn't want me as her bridesmaid. Who's in the wrong?
    9 answers · 9 hours ago
  • Splitting money between a couple?

    A couple that has been together for 6 yrs and has one child go buy tires. One person in the couple (the main driver) pays 100 dollars. The other person pays 300 dollars for the tires making the total 400 for the tires. It is later found out that the person who paid 300 dollars actually won 4 thousand dollars the... show more
    A couple that has been together for 6 yrs and has one child go buy tires. One person in the couple (the main driver) pays 100 dollars. The other person pays 300 dollars for the tires making the total 400 for the tires. It is later found out that the person who paid 300 dollars actually won 4 thousand dollars the previous day and was hiding it from the other person. Should the person who won the 4 thousand give anything to the other one or at least pay for the tires completely? Honest answers please.
    9 answers · 12 hours ago
  • Is infidelity inevitable in every relationship/ marriage?

    Best answer: No.Its a CHOICE that people make - to remain faithful, or not. Cheating cannot start unless you open that door initially by thinking "I deserve more..." and "Maybe there is someone else out there" and then allow those situations to occur where it might be possible to cheat. The faithful person... show more
    Best answer: No.Its a CHOICE that people make - to remain faithful, or not. Cheating cannot start unless you open that door initially by thinking "I deserve more..." and "Maybe there is someone else out there" and then allow those situations to occur where it might be possible to cheat. The faithful person knows that there are others out there but CHOOSES not to think about them.
    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • What would u think if you got a message like this? would u be annoyed?

    Best answer: Honest, to the point, not remotely interested in things going anywhere but a thing to do, handily, at work when bored. I'd believe it! And not expect any further communication of either side.
    Best answer: Honest, to the point, not remotely interested in things going anywhere but a thing to do, handily, at work when bored. I'd believe it! And not expect any further communication of either side.
    9 answers · 1 day ago
  • Why does my wife always bear sons?

    Best answer: sons is a good thing. i also was having only sons - i have 3 - and my friend was having only daughters. that's a tragedy. my husband's ex wife was also having daughters. can u imagine having 4 girls? the horror
    Best answer: sons is a good thing. i also was having only sons - i have 3 - and my friend was having only daughters. that's a tragedy. my husband's ex wife was also having daughters. can u imagine having 4 girls? the horror
    8 answers · 10 hours ago
  • Wife doesn’t want sex anymore?

    Our sex life has been declining ever since we got married. There would be any excuse In the world. As of lately we’ve sleeping on separate beds. I have brought this up with her on many occasions and have gotten upset how she seems to be naive about it makes me feel. I’m a man that provides for our family, we have 4... show more
    Our sex life has been declining ever since we got married. There would be any excuse In the world. As of lately we’ve sleeping on separate beds. I have brought this up with her on many occasions and have gotten upset how she seems to be naive about it makes me feel. I’m a man that provides for our family, we have 4 kids, I help around the house and with the kids, she doesn’t even have to clean the house because I make sure it’s spotless every morning, I support her in every single way possible. When faced with rejection I become upset when my communication about it’s not received, she disregards it with comments like: “you’re just a dog”, “you only think about your dick”. In her mind I’m just throwing tamrrums, she even went ahead to compare me not having sex like one of our kids whinging about not having a chocolate. I’m very passionate and affectionate person, I love my wife to bits, I’m deeply I. Love with her. I’ don’t know what else to do.
    40 answers · 5 days ago
  • MIL Drama. Help!!?

    My mom was planning a visit in 2 weeks that we’ve been planning for months. There is a church event we have that weekend which is why she’s coming that weekend. 2 weeks ago my MIL asked my hubby if she could come that same weekend to go to the same church thing. I asked my hubby to tell her that my mom was already... show more
    My mom was planning a visit in 2 weeks that we’ve been planning for months. There is a church event we have that weekend which is why she’s coming that weekend. 2 weeks ago my MIL asked my hubby if she could come that same weekend to go to the same church thing. I asked my hubby to tell her that my mom was already planning on coming that weekend. We live in a small house and I really just wanted to hang out with my mom over the weekend. To make it fair, I told my husband we should go visit his mom this weekend for Memorial Day. I thought everything was fine but now MIL is super mad saying she doesn’t understand why she can’t come over next weekend too. She’s like well Your mom can stay in your sons room and I’ll just stay in the living room. Like seriously? I don’t want everyone on top of each other at my house. My MIL is sending my hubby these nasty texts like I don’t understand why your wife doesn’t want me there I deserve to know why she doesn’t want me to come. We only have one extra bathroom so my mom would have to share a bathroom and it’s just really a hassle! Honestly if I tell my mom she’ll probably just want to come a different weekend even though she’s been planning on coming for months. Am I crazy? Am I making way too big of a deal?I feel like shes blaming this all on me and of course my hubby says he supports me but he never really stand up to his mom either.
    12 answers · 3 days ago