• I am having an affair and got engaged to my fiance' last night. Should I leave my wife now or wait until Christmas is over?

    Best answer: Am confused, why didn't you get a vasectomy if you didn't like kids ? I mean, sure, the first one could have been an accident or a mistake, but anything after that is on you. As far as when to move out ? Right now would be a good time as any, they are probably more attached to their mother than to you... show more
    Best answer: Am confused, why didn't you get a vasectomy if you didn't like kids ?

    I mean, sure, the first one could have been an accident or a mistake, but anything after that is on you.

    As far as when to move out ? Right now would be a good time as any, they are probably more attached to their mother than to you anyways so not much will be missed.
    22 answers · 1 day ago
  • Would you marry outside of your race?

    25 answers · 2 days ago
  • Why is marital rape wrong?

    Raping a stranger is one thing, but when you get married, you sign a contract, meaning that you are legally surrendering your bodies to one another. I mean what is the point of getting married if you are not going to have sex? Sex is more important in marriage than you think. When you get married, that means that... show more
    Raping a stranger is one thing, but when you get married, you sign a contract, meaning that you are legally surrendering your bodies to one another. I mean what is the point of getting married if you are not going to have sex? Sex is more important in marriage than you think. When you get married, that means that you can pretty much do whatever you want to your wife with no consequences. I mean what reason would a wife refuse her husband for sex?
    14 answers · 5 hours ago
  • Married and co-sleeping...?

    I'm a 33 year old male. I've been married to my wife, who is 29 for 9 years. Due to my demand, our previous 2 children who are now 9 and 13 were sleeping in their own beds at a relatively normal age for sleeping alone. However, our latest child (who is also the first child my wife chose to breastfeed for a... show more
    I'm a 33 year old male. I've been married to my wife, who is 29 for 9 years. Due to my demand, our previous 2 children who are now 9 and 13 were sleeping in their own beds at a relatively normal age for sleeping alone. However, our latest child (who is also the first child my wife chose to breastfeed for a full year after birth, if that means anything...) is 3 years old. My wife chose to have him sleep in our king size bed with us so she didn't have to get up multiple times a night to feed. I was ok with that. But now he is 3½ years old, and even after multiple demands to move him to his own room (which I completely remodeled 4 years ago and put a crib in that he hasn't used one single time), she keeps him in the bed with us. I've threatened to move out if I don't get our bed to "just us", on several occasions... But it didn't do a thing. So tonight I said I'm moving to the spare room if he isn't out of our bed right now... And her response was "do what you gotta do". So at this moment, I'm laying in a spare room of our house on an air mattress... Because I am completely over sharing our bed with my child every single night for almost 4 years straight and never ever being able to just roll over and snuggle with my wife any time I want. I feel like she would let me walk out of the house and never return before she goes back to having our bedroom be ONLY ours. Any thoughts on my issue would be greatly appreciated!
    15 answers · 14 hours ago
  • Should child support keep a few women rich while many other single mothers are receiving minimal child support and struggling.?

    If it were really about the kids wouldn’t all kids get the same amount of money. So if the top 10 percent of mother’s get 20,000 a month and the lowest 10 percent get zero wouldn’t it be fair for all kids to receive the average of say $1500 month.
    If it were really about the kids wouldn’t all kids get the same amount of money. So if the top 10 percent of mother’s get 20,000 a month and the lowest 10 percent get zero wouldn’t it be fair for all kids to receive the average of say $1500 month.
    13 answers · 7 hours ago
  • I'm stuck in a relationship. My girlfriend keeps hinting for me to propose to her but I don't want to?

    Best answer: Hey man I'm glad you're being up front about how you feel. Some hoes on this page should learn a thing or two from reading this
    Best answer: Hey man I'm glad you're being up front about how you feel. Some hoes on this page should learn a thing or two from reading this
    15 answers · 1 day ago
  • The man I was seeing went back to his ex I think. I am so heartbroken. What should I do?

    They were dating for two years. He said he broke up with her because she was a golddigger. I do know that they did not see each other while I dated him (for 5 months). But we started having problems because he was always busy. Then we broke up (I initiated it). The ex was someone who never created any problems. She... show more
    They were dating for two years. He said he broke up with her because she was a golddigger. I do know that they did not see each other while I dated him (for 5 months). But we started having problems because he was always busy. Then we broke up (I initiated it). The ex was someone who never created any problems. She was very accomodating of everything he preferred. But she wanted material goods from him. I never asked for any such thing. Now I have some clues they may have reconciled (she always was sending him messages, meeting his friends etc). Did I drive him away? Would he go back to her if he really wanted to be with me?
    12 answers · 2 days ago
  • My wife wants my children that are all under the age of 10 to pay "$500.00 each" in rent, And she insist they pay this rent?

    I don t get child support because my first wife passed away 3 years ago, Just this year I have remarried, with her understanding I have these kids. We all live in her place and I pay the bulk of all the bills, and pay for the care of my children. The children don t cost her a cent but she wants them paying rent... show more
    I don t get child support because my first wife passed away 3 years ago, Just this year I have remarried, with her understanding I have these kids. We all live in her place and I pay the bulk of all the bills, and pay for the care of my children. The children don t cost her a cent but she wants them paying rent anyway. Can she actually do this with them all being minors legally? She doesn t have anything to do with them, because she doesn t want a relationship with them, I understand, if I need help with them I ve hired a nanny to care for them while I m at work or taking responcibility of something else.
    31 answers · 3 days ago
  • Is it wrong not to make love to your husband because your in pain down there?

    Best answer: Your husband should be understanding and considerate enough to not want to cause you pain. Your husband loves you (or so one would presume) and would want to know if he’s hurting you. Talk to him about what’s going on - and then see your medical professional to make sure it’s nothing serious. If it needs... show more
    Best answer: Your husband should be understanding and considerate enough to not want to cause you pain. Your husband loves you (or so one would presume) and would want to know if he’s hurting you.

    Talk to him about what’s going on - and then see your medical professional to make sure it’s nothing serious. If it needs treatment, they’ll be able to prescribe something or recommend the best steps.
    12 answers · 20 hours ago
  • Why can't I get a date when I am a working professional, college educated, healthy weight etc? A lot of folks my age are getting married?

    Many of my peers are either getting married or been married and are now having kids. Many of the bums I went to high school with are already on their 5th kid to their 5th woman. I have been on one date and it was challenging to get. I was in MUCH better shape, made more money, more educated, than the woman and... show more
    Many of my peers are either getting married or been married and are now having kids. Many of the bums I went to high school with are already on their 5th kid to their 5th woman. I have been on one date and it was challenging to get. I was in MUCH better shape, made more money, more educated, than the woman and I thought everything went well we talked for like 2 hours then she didn't want to see me again. I am extremely frustrated. I feel like that whole relationship aspect of life has been robbed from me.
    14 answers · 1 day ago
  • Can real brother married his sister?

    10 answers · 10 hours ago
  • What to do with an unfaithful husband?

    31 answers · 3 days ago
  • Woman I’ve been seeing has threatened to tell my wife about us?

    The woman is pregnant and wants to keep the child. She is quite young so I don’t understand why she would want to keep it. I told her I refused to help her raise that baby because I already have a kid with my wife. She wants me to leave my wife and move her into my home so we could raise the baby together. I told... show more
    The woman is pregnant and wants to keep the child. She is quite young so I don’t understand why she would want to keep it. I told her I refused to help her raise that baby because I already have a kid with my wife. She wants me to leave my wife and move her into my home so we could raise the baby together. I told her she was absolutely insane for even thinking of something like that. I’m in a no-win situation here. What can I do?
    46 answers · 4 days ago
  • We are a couple for 10 years and my wife making a mistake?

    We are a couple for 10 years and my wife making a mistake?

    just need someone awell ive been married to my wife for 10 years.just found out she been seeing a guy she works with and she told me the far as it went was a kiss what do i do and how can i forgive her.i love her more than anything GOT 3 KIDS WITH HER AND MY OLDEST daughter she raised since she was 13 months old... show more
    just need someone awell ive been married to my wife for 10 years.just found out she been seeing a guy she works with and she told me the far as it went was a kiss what do i do and how can i forgive her.i love her more than anything GOT 3 KIDS WITH HER AND MY OLDEST daughter she raised since she was 13 months old and 4 months old we got her nieces 2 kids out of a bad place .i want to BELIEVE her but every time look at her i just ball my eyes out .For ten years all i heard was she would never break her wedding vowels .but now my whole world is a mess so please help me find someone to make any sense out of this im lostdvise
    9 answers · 12 hours ago
  • My 32 year old son doesn't want to get married until he buys a car and learns driving, he says its his passion. Read details.?

    He threatens us that if we forcefully get him married, then he would never consummate the marriage (sexless marriage). We're from India, and his mother and I are both over 60 and don't know what to do. Please help.
    He threatens us that if we forcefully get him married, then he would never consummate the marriage (sexless marriage). We're from India, and his mother and I are both over 60 and don't know what to do. Please help.
    9 answers · 15 hours ago
  • Why should someone have to pay alimony?

    Like I don t understand it. Basically, someone wants a divorce and usually the woman asks to get alimony. Why should a grown *** woman (or man) be entitled to money for living expenses? And usually they get this on top of child support too! You want to be all independent and have a divorce, yet you still want... show more
    Like I don t understand it. Basically, someone wants a divorce and usually the woman asks to get alimony. Why should a grown *** woman (or man) be entitled to money for living expenses? And usually they get this on top of child support too! You want to be all independent and have a divorce, yet you still want money from the other person?! All while the person having to pay is killing themselves working and having to pay everything on top of their own stuff. Do you agree or disagree and why? Btw I m a girl...I just think its wrong.
    22 answers · 3 days ago
  • Should I tell my MIL that her son and I are getting divorced, because he hasn’t, and we’ve been separated 8 months!?

    My soon to be ex hasn’t told his mother that we have even split up, and it’s been 8 months. Our divorce is almost final. He doesn’t want a relationship with her, but she has sent him several letters in the mail to my house, obviously thinking we are still together. I have just been passing them on to him. She... show more
    My soon to be ex hasn’t told his mother that we have even split up, and it’s been 8 months. Our divorce is almost final. He doesn’t want a relationship with her, but she has sent him several letters in the mail to my house, obviously thinking we are still together. I have just been passing them on to him. She hates me, and would probably be delighted to hear we are getting divorced... my question is- should I sent my MIL an email telling her that her son doesn’t live here anymore? Tell her about the divorce? Leave it alone?
    12 answers · 2 days ago