• I'm in love with a married man and it hurts?

    I can't deal with the feeling, I see him everyday I'm so in love with him. What should I do? I'm 22 He is 35 I feel sorrowful.
    I can't deal with the feeling, I see him everyday I'm so in love with him. What should I do? I'm 22 He is 35 I feel sorrowful.
    28 answers · 3 days ago
  • God knows I try to help people who are in need, but my friend has been walking to work for?

    Two years, ten miles, but now I think he is taking advantage of me he wants me to pick him up but also, take him here there every where, to run his errands. Then on top of that I'm exhausted after work cuz I suffer from low iron, and I'm tired, and he goes your always tired, ok but we women do tire easily,... show more
    Two years, ten miles, but now I think he is taking advantage of me he wants me to pick him up but also, take him here there every where, to run his errands. Then on top of that I'm exhausted after work cuz I suffer from low iron, and I'm tired, and he goes your always tired, ok but we women do tire easily, but any how sometimes I get off from work early like twelve noon, he gets off at 4:30, I tell him that I'm going on home, he says so your not going to wait, I'm like that's too many hours, when I can just go home. Then on my days off he asks me to take him to work. I said not on my days off. What do I do? Feeling like I'm being taking an advantage of.
    8 answers · 19 hours ago
  • Boyfriend makes me that sad I self harm?

    I don’t know what to do . When we are great we are great but when we argue.. he’s so harsh with words and always manages to twist my words and feelings.. and then I cry and spend all night apologising and crying some more then I slice into my hips/ thighs. I can’t stop, the only thing that makes me feel better is... show more
    I don’t know what to do . When we are great we are great but when we argue.. he’s so harsh with words and always manages to twist my words and feelings.. and then I cry and spend all night apologising and crying some more then I slice into my hips/ thighs. I can’t stop, the only thing that makes me feel better is self harming. He makes me feel so ****, but the trouble is it’s my fault and I need to stop. I love him so much. It hurts so bad. What do I do? Please can someone give me some tips or help. Regards Charlotte
    25 answers · 6 days ago
  • Should I sign office birthday cards, when I didn’t get one myself?

    Best answer: No, don't.
    Best answer: No, don't.
    9 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is it rude to stand up somebody who is really pushy. I don't want him and tried to say no. He wouldn't listen so I'm thinking I just?

    Best answer: Avoid like the plague. Pushy indicates a controlling nature.
    Best answer: Avoid like the plague. Pushy indicates a controlling nature.
    10 answers · 3 days ago
  • Will mom get angry if she discovers that I masterbate?

    Best answer: Do you really think your mother has lived her whole life without the knowledge that women masturbate? If so you probably are also under the misguided belief that married women don't masturbate (because they do too). But the beauty of this subject is that it never needs to be a topic of conversation. The same... show more
    Best answer: Do you really think your mother has lived her whole life without the knowledge that women masturbate? If so you probably are also under the misguided belief that married women don't masturbate (because they do too). But the beauty of this subject is that it never needs to be a topic of conversation. The same way that 29 is still young and you have plenty of time to consider getting into a relationship if you want later in life.
    12 answers · 4 days ago
  • I have some relationship questions (need advice)?

    I'm a 25-year-old female and I notice that every one of my friends is getting engaged. A lot of my guy friends are getting engaged too. Should I feel weird about this? BQ: On the radio last night, a guy said that a girl asked him out and said to him "let's date" or "make this official."... show more
    I'm a 25-year-old female and I notice that every one of my friends is getting engaged. A lot of my guy friends are getting engaged too. Should I feel weird about this? BQ: On the radio last night, a guy said that a girl asked him out and said to him "let's date" or "make this official." The guy said okay and was very happy. Now they are dating. If I did that though, the guy would end up running away. I notice other guys seem fine when girls ask them out sometimes. A guy would probably say I'm clingy.
    5 answers · 14 hours ago
  • Before saying “sugar daddy” I have my own job make good money I’m just looking for fun/love. Should I stay talking to him? I like him but?

    So I been talking to this guy from Sweden, it all started with a dîck pic... yup a dîck pic but once he found out I’m 18 he was like oh I can be your father I’m sorry. We started having really nice conversations, but at times he can get a little dirty. Once he was talking about the beaches in Greece and was like “... show more
    So I been talking to this guy from Sweden, it all started with a dîck pic... yup a dîck pic but once he found out I’m 18 he was like oh I can be your father I’m sorry. We started having really nice conversations, but at times he can get a little dirty. Once he was talking about the beaches in Greece and was like “ I don’t wanna see you on the beach I’ll have to lay down (cause of *****).” Once I asked what he was doing, he’s like you don’t wanna know then I’m like what “taking care of this ***** I woke up with”. Then he basically told me he won’t send me anymore dîck pic unless I wanted. He thinks I’m really hot when I tell him I’m 18 he says it isn’t his problem. When I ask him you don’t have a age limit he said “not really as long as the girl is grown up and has same interests”. The other night I told him I was chilling with a face mask on. Him “oh sooo fun (or funny can’t remember). It would be fun af if you fell asleep”. That scared me was he trying to say he wants to do stuff to me while I sleep? When I asked him today he said “oh because you were doing a mask and wasn’t supposed to fall asleep but you did anyway that made your face red”. But I told him I wasn’t supposed to leave the mask on and I fell asleep and it made my face red afterwards. He’s 30 he works for making steps for new apartments and balcony’s. I found his family on Facebook they look like nice Sweden’s people. I would like a relationship with him but I’m in New York. He wants to take me on vacation
    11 answers · 6 days ago
  • Is it okay for this woman to ignore me now?

    Best answer: Is it ok? Well of course. You conditioned her to avoid you. She has no reason to believe you will ever be of help to her, because you chose to not be available when she tried before. So don't blame her. Blame yourself.
    Best answer: Is it ok? Well of course. You conditioned her to avoid you. She has no reason to believe you will ever be of help to her, because you chose to not be available when she tried before. So don't blame her. Blame yourself.
    19 answers · 5 days ago
  • If an employee saves his boss’s life, should he be rewarded?

    My boss needed a blood transfusion. He has a very rare blood type, and fortunately my 10-year-old son was a perfect match. After my boss’s successful recovery, I received something from him in the mail: a lousy “thank you” card. My boss is a multimillionaire, so this really infuriated me.
    My boss needed a blood transfusion. He has a very rare blood type, and fortunately my 10-year-old son was a perfect match. After my boss’s successful recovery, I received something from him in the mail: a lousy “thank you” card. My boss is a multimillionaire, so this really infuriated me.
    19 answers · 6 days ago
  • A man is trying to talk to me about his marital problems but it makes me uncomfortable?

    Best answer: i agree
    Best answer: i agree
    6 answers · 2 days ago
  • Pissed off and Lonely. I need advice :(?

    I'm beginning to get frustrated with my life. I'm a 20 year old High School drop out being financially screwed over, high car insurance payment, demanded rent from ingrate relative and unable to go back to school. I'm in an unhappy relationship, she has a child and im not ready to be a father, and would... show more
    I'm beginning to get frustrated with my life. I'm a 20 year old High School drop out being financially screwed over, high car insurance payment, demanded rent from ingrate relative and unable to go back to school. I'm in an unhappy relationship, she has a child and im not ready to be a father, and would feel to guilty to leave her with no back up plan but I am constantly trying to find something better, with no luck of course. Everyone in my town who knows me is deliberately toxic or nasty towards me with no reason or explanation as to why. I have no friends and none of my "family" ever has a minute for me. I hate my life and the constant toxicity and boredom surrounding it is making me toxic, frustrated and even violent. I'm becoming increasingly more unstable and angry with every day that passes. What do I do?
    4 answers · 6 hours ago
  • Can the dead feel pain?

    My dad said “Ouch" when I told him about how the dead bird's left eye had been eaten by ants.
    My dad said “Ouch" when I told him about how the dead bird's left eye had been eaten by ants.
    5 answers · 1 day ago
  • What to do with my messed up life? leave or stick to pain?

    Well, briefly, I am living with a non compliant schizophrenic mother who is making my life hell, Im a graduate teacher but jobless thnx to my great country's ruined economy, so difficult to earn here, so im kinda stuck with my psycho mom which herself is living on debt and in fear of going broke any day(well... show more
    Well, briefly, I am living with a non compliant schizophrenic mother who is making my life hell, Im a graduate teacher but jobless thnx to my great country's ruined economy, so difficult to earn here, so im kinda stuck with my psycho mom which herself is living on debt and in fear of going broke any day(well she doesn't care since she's a psycho), father is a selfish freak who left long ago, I want to leave and cut them off like forever, BUT I have a younger sibling who is also stuck with my mom, and I have no clear plan for leaving so i fear things couldnt work fine for me wherever im going, I need help making the right decision, I am in torment here, i feel im dying slowly and I need to change something, But I feel the responsibility to be with my mother and sibling now, idk how things could escalate when i leave, Should I leave and let go, or should I be patient and wait for fate to intervene, I dont know how more i can last, the whole situation seems so hopeless, and i'm depression and stress are killing me more everyday, What should I do?
    15 answers · 6 days ago
  • Is there anything that can be done about this situation?

    Best answer: You really need to find a more appropriate category for this question to get answers that might possibly be useful. My advice would be to find a specialist lawyer to see if you can challenge your father's inheritance, but you may have to accept that your mother's failure to make a will specifying where the... show more
    Best answer: You really need to find a more appropriate category for this question to get answers that might possibly be useful. My advice would be to find a specialist lawyer to see if you can challenge your father's inheritance, but you may have to accept that your mother's failure to make a will specifying where the savings should go.
    4 answers · 16 hours ago
  • Why does this girl not want to be friends with me?

    Best answer: You bullied her in school for no reason, you probably caused her a lot of distress, most people would not want to be friends with their childhood bully. The fact that you keep approaching this girl despite her telling you to leave her alone, and the fact that you call her "bitter" for not being friends... show more
    Best answer: You bullied her in school for no reason, you probably caused her a lot of distress, most people would not want to be friends with their childhood bully. The fact that you keep approaching this girl despite her telling you to leave her alone, and the fact that you call her "bitter" for not being friends with you tells me you are not a good person, but you're still the shitty bully you were 10 years ago.
    6 answers · 3 days ago
  • Family-friend kissed me? what do i do?

    Best answer: It's pretty common for kids that age to see people kissing and see the kissing on tv, and think that's just the way of showing affection. I remember my daughter kissing me on the lips- when I asked, she said that's what she saw people doing on tv. This kid is too young to have any sexual attentions-... show more
    Best answer: It's pretty common for kids that age to see people kissing and see the kissing on tv, and think that's just the way of showing affection. I remember my daughter kissing me on the lips- when I asked, she said that's what she saw people doing on tv. This kid is too young to have any sexual attentions- don't blow this out of proportion.
    We're very up tight about these things in the US. In many cultures, people kiss everyone every time they see them- friends, relatives, it doesn't matter.
    5 answers · 2 days ago
  • How do I come out?

    I'm scared.
    I'm scared.
    8 answers · 4 days ago