• I hate the car that my parents bought for me?

    I just turned 16 on February 10th and my parents got me a car for my birthday. They got me a 2009 Honda Accord. I know its not that old, but it has problems. When I drive it the car stops at random times, it's dangerous. And the window doesn't work. I can't even go through a drive thru because the... show more
    I just turned 16 on February 10th and my parents got me a car for my birthday. They got me a 2009 Honda Accord. I know its not that old, but it has problems. When I drive it the car stops at random times, it's dangerous. And the window doesn't work. I can't even go through a drive thru because the window won't go down. What should I do? How should I tell my parents that i hate it and that I want a new car?
    50 answers · 22 hours ago
  • Niece wants me to help her get an abortion, should I?

    I am not against abortion, but I never expected this from her. My sister and her husband are hardcore pro life so if they knew there's no telling what would happen. She's legally an adult and is in her second year of college. She won't give me any details about the father, but as far as I know he is in... show more
    I am not against abortion, but I never expected this from her. My sister and her husband are hardcore pro life so if they knew there's no telling what would happen. She's legally an adult and is in her second year of college. She won't give me any details about the father, but as far as I know he is in another relationship. What she wants is for me to travel with her (it's pretty far) so she isn't alone and help her pay. My main concern is if she regrets it and just keeping this secret in general. I'm leaning towards helping her, but I'm still so unsure. Never really thought this would happen to someone I know.
    72 answers · 5 days ago
  • I'm 22 and my dad still won't acknowledge me?

    I have been trying to reach out to him for years, I grew up with out knowing him and I want to at least talk to him one time. I messaged him on Facebook and all he doea I read and never responds. Is there anyway to Make him talk to me?
    I have been trying to reach out to him for years, I grew up with out knowing him and I want to at least talk to him one time. I messaged him on Facebook and all he doea I read and never responds. Is there anyway to Make him talk to me?
    11 answers · 4 hours ago
  • I can't find it in me to support my daughter, what to do?

    I am a lawyer, my oldest is going into neurosurgery, second oldest is interning at Micron and is shooting to be an engineer. The youngest are the twins. The oldest twin has already taken up the debate club and is set on following my footsteps. On the other hand, her sister (the other twin) wants to work in child... show more
    I am a lawyer, my oldest is going into neurosurgery, second oldest is interning at Micron and is shooting to be an engineer. The youngest are the twins. The oldest twin has already taken up the debate club and is set on following my footsteps. On the other hand, her sister (the other twin) wants to work in child care... That career choice doesn't seem fulfilling or very succesful. I don't know how she could have the siblings she does and choose child care. I really don't understand and I want to support her but I can't.
    29 answers · 3 days ago
  • Having trouble moving out of my moms?

    So here's the backstory me and my girlfriend who are both 18 years old, Recently had a baby who is now 2 months old, Believe me I know lol to young. But our relationship has been Overall pretty healthy and We have a ton of support behind us. She's been living with me and my mom since the beginning of her... show more
    So here's the backstory me and my girlfriend who are both 18 years old, Recently had a baby who is now 2 months old, Believe me I know lol to young. But our relationship has been Overall pretty healthy and We have a ton of support behind us. She's been living with me and my mom since the beginning of her pregnancy so almost a year now. Currently here it's my mom, my grandma, my brother, and I living here. Recently her grandma has decidied to give us one of her homes that she owns, that has been vacant for years. I've had fun customizing the house to my liking and Cleaning it up with my girlfriend. But as the "move in" days start coming near I find myself having some serious anxiety's about moving out. My girlfriend really wants to live there ebecause she says she wants her own privacy now that we have ababy and I can totally understand that. The house will also come with no rent which is also a plus. I've been so nervous about moving away from my family, in my head it's almost like I'll never see them again, But obviously I know I will, I kinda feel bad for just getting up and moving to a new house away from them, but the house is literally 5 min away from my mom's house lol. Should I just take the Leap and move Into the other house with my girlfriend. My Indecisiveness has sort been putting a strain on our relationship. I need some advice with my anxiety my mom is also supporting the move. Not sure what to do please
    19 answers · 2 days ago
  • How do I get my parents to stop controlling my life?

    So I’m 19 soon to be 20 and my parents try to control every aspect of my life. I am only allowed out till 10, never allowed to stay or move in with my boyfriend who has his own house. They are trying to force me to do a uni course I don’t want to do. My parents were married and had me at 19 and say that I can not... show more
    So I’m 19 soon to be 20 and my parents try to control every aspect of my life. I am only allowed out till 10, never allowed to stay or move in with my boyfriend who has his own house. They are trying to force me to do a uni course I don’t want to do. My parents were married and had me at 19 and say that I can not move in with my boyfriend of 3 years until we have made a commitment of engagement. Any advice?
    13 answers · 1 day ago
  • What to do my mom can't give me $180 to buy something I need?

    I'm going to college and my parents rarely provide me with anything. The only thing they provide is a house which we own and thats it. Every time I talk about buying or money my mom makes huge tantrum. My dad on other hand says no to everything. They refuse to get me insurance so I'm left with no health... show more
    I'm going to college and my parents rarely provide me with anything. The only thing they provide is a house which we own and thats it. Every time I talk about buying or money my mom makes huge tantrum. My dad on other hand says no to everything. They refuse to get me insurance so I'm left with no health insurance because they can't afford to pay for anything how can I get help for my needs
    11 answers · 2 days ago
  • My Soon To Be Step-Dad Wants To Get Rid Of Our Family Dog?

    Best answer: Sit her down and tell her point blank, "It absolutely has to be put to sleep! But, at least we'll still have the dog!"
    Best answer: Sit her down and tell her point blank, "It absolutely has to be put to sleep! But, at least we'll still have the dog!"
    31 answers · 4 days ago
  • Am I being unreasonable (rent issue)?

    I live with my sister and her boyfriend. Right now my dad is paying for our rent and utilities (the bills are in our names and he gives us money) so we can save our money to later invest. My sister’s boyfriend lives with us rent-free and I told my sister he should contribute. My sister and I split the grocery bill... show more
    I live with my sister and her boyfriend. Right now my dad is paying for our rent and utilities (the bills are in our names and he gives us money) so we can save our money to later invest. My sister’s boyfriend lives with us rent-free and I told my sister he should contribute. My sister and I split the grocery bill and he buys some of his own. She argues that her bf has no problem driving us places (he does sometimes pick me up from work) and says he cannot afford to pay $200 - $300 in rent even though he works full time as he is “paying off his own bills.” She also says “dad pays for everything so butt out,” and accuses me of ruining her happiness. I think this is immature as the original plan was for my dad to help my sister and me gradually move out on our own. My dad also does not approve of her boyfriend even living with us and doesn’t know that he is. Any thoughts on what I should do?? I hate being stuck in the middle :/
    19 answers · 3 days ago
  • Who is the worst person in your family?

    34 answers · 5 days ago
  • Is it weird to masturbate with my younger brother?

    Best answer: It’s not weird or gross. It’s being a brother. You would be surprised how many brofriends do it together.
    Just teach him the unwritten rules. Clean up, not in front of mom, ect.
    Best answer: It’s not weird or gross. It’s being a brother. You would be surprised how many brofriends do it together.
    Just teach him the unwritten rules. Clean up, not in front of mom, ect.
    9 answers · 1 day ago
  • My family making fun of me for being vegetarian has gone too far, what to do?

    I never really enjoyed meat anyway (I don't mind if others do, you do you type of thing) so when I was like fourteen I decided to be vegetarian. My parents laughed at me and said when I started cooking my own meals I could, so I learned to cook but they still mock me. There's always some sort of joke during... show more
    I never really enjoyed meat anyway (I don't mind if others do, you do you type of thing) so when I was like fourteen I decided to be vegetarian. My parents laughed at me and said when I started cooking my own meals I could, so I learned to cook but they still mock me. There's always some sort of joke during meal times and when I try to leave the table to eat elsewhere they get so mad at me and tell me to stop being so offended. Anyway, my younger sister has been learning to cook from my mom lately and gave me a "veggie burger". Once I knew it wasn't I got so angry and my parents kept saying it wasn't a big deal because I wasn't dying and my older brother just laughed and made more jokes. I'm 16 so I can't move out but it's going too far. I just don't like meat, that's it! I remember a time when I could sit down at the dinner table to discuss my day without someone demanding that I eat the steaks that are served.
    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • Do you like fried children?

    8 answers · 19 hours ago
  • I have little problem about my family. All my brothers and sisters impregnated and got impregnated after their high school.?

    Best answer: There are far more purposes for human beings than just making more of them.
    Are you able to continue your education? Perhaps there is bigger plan for your life.
    After all, your name itself means, "As God Wishes".
    Best answer: There are far more purposes for human beings than just making more of them.
    Are you able to continue your education? Perhaps there is bigger plan for your life.
    After all, your name itself means, "As God Wishes".
    7 answers · 8 hours ago
  • Why doesn't UK apply the death sentence to child abusers and rapists like Pakistan do?

    Best answer: The UK is nothing.
    Best answer: The UK is nothing.
    8 answers · 20 hours ago
  • Why are adopted kids more likely to turn out badly?

    Although most adoptees end up raised in good homes, they still have higher drug/crime rates. Even if the adoptive parents weren’t like that, the child has a higher chance of screwing up compared to biological kids. Especially those who were adopted later than 12 months old or has memory of having no parents.
    Although most adoptees end up raised in good homes, they still have higher drug/crime rates. Even if the adoptive parents weren’t like that, the child has a higher chance of screwing up compared to biological kids. Especially those who were adopted later than 12 months old or has memory of having no parents.
    9 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is it ok to take my brother's girlfriend's side over his if he was abusing her?

    They've lived with me for over a year. She was getting bruises and black eyes occasionally, but she made excuses. Recently I heard them arguing and he threatened her with homelessness if she left him. It was super abusive. I didn't do anything because in my head I justified it that if she makes excuses for... show more
    They've lived with me for over a year. She was getting bruises and black eyes occasionally, but she made excuses. Recently I heard them arguing and he threatened her with homelessness if she left him. It was super abusive. I didn't do anything because in my head I justified it that if she makes excuses for him it must be because it's her fault and she hits him first or something, But it didn't sound like that at all and he's never had a scratch. So then my brother hit her again except worse than before, she has 2 black eyes, but she fought back. She broke 2 of her fingers punching him in the face, and she gave him a minor hip fracture and a broken arm hitting him with a baseball bat. So he called me from hospital telling me to kick her out. She was going to leave but she asked me to lend her money, because apparently she doesn't have any even though she has worked and is trying to get a job and he doesn't. Apparently he takes all of her money which I didn't know but it makes sense from what I've seen. So instead of kicking her out I sent his stuff to our parent's house and said she could stay. Except now my parent's are blaming me for everything and calling me disloyal even when I explained. I think this is the right thing to do, even if he's family. Am i wrong?
    21 answers · 4 days ago