• I hate my dad. Any advice?

    So my mom and my dad dont get along and I have to suffer because of it. He is refusing to pay my college tuition which is only 4,000 a semester since its a state school and wants my mom to pay all of it. He pisses me off so much. I can never have a conversation with him without him getting an attitude. He never... show more
    So my mom and my dad dont get along and I have to suffer because of it. He is refusing to pay my college tuition which is only 4,000 a semester since its a state school and wants my mom to pay all of it. He pisses me off so much. I can never have a conversation with him without him getting an attitude. He never confides in me, never once congratulated me on graduating high school, and never seems happy for me and my accomplishments. I can never talk to him because he s always so negative and blames everything on me. And of course my brother is always on his side. Nobody ever understands how I feel having to deal with this angry man who always makes me feel like crap. The number one man in your life is suppose to be your dad but not my dad. He never gives me any attention and he treats me like ****
    7 answers · 13 hours ago
  • Why does my family think they have any right to call me an elitist snob?

    My wife and I are in our mid 20s. We met in college and discovered we had similar childhood experiences. Both raised in pretty bad environments with parents and family who were poor, unprofessional, and irresponsible, put drugs or alcohol before their children, and blamed all their problems on everyone else. My... show more
    My wife and I are in our mid 20s. We met in college and discovered we had similar childhood experiences. Both raised in pretty bad environments with parents and family who were poor, unprofessional, and irresponsible, put drugs or alcohol before their children, and blamed all their problems on everyone else. My wife and I worked our way through college, graduated, we both have good jobs, and we got married. I've tried to limit contact with my family. I don't plan on ever helping my parents, not even when they're old and need it. They didn't help me, so why should I really. Now my wife and I are about to have a daughter, and when my family found out I told them that they weren't going to be allowed to be in her life, because I don't respect them or their behavior. Then a few days ago I got a call from one of my relatives who said I look down my nose at all of them because I have money and they don't, and that I'm just an elitist snob who wants to forget where I came from. The thing is, I haven't forgotten, and that's exactly why I don't want to speak with them. They refuse to take responsibility for the fact that they're losers and improve their lives, so why should I be viewed as a snob for actually being productive, professional, and responsible?
    13 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is it possible that it just wasn’t meant to be (for me)?

    Best answer: I would say probably 85% of a person's circumstances aren't their fault. It's not your fault, it's theirs. Your circumstances have been rigged in such a way that your failures were predetermined from birth. What are you willing to do about it?
    Best answer: I would say probably 85% of a person's circumstances aren't their fault. It's not your fault, it's theirs. Your circumstances have been rigged in such a way that your failures were predetermined from birth. What are you willing to do about it?
    7 answers · 3 days ago
  • My little sister gave me an erection. Am I going to Hell?

    I feel like crap now. She walked into my room with just bra and panties, and I got super hard. SMH! I swear I do not like her at all. I just couldn't control my erection. Ever since, I can not look at my sister the same way.
    I feel like crap now. She walked into my room with just bra and panties, and I got super hard. SMH! I swear I do not like her at all. I just couldn't control my erection. Ever since, I can not look at my sister the same way.
    13 answers · 14 hours ago
  • Why is it wrong living with your parents at 30 or even 40 years old?

    Lets say you are 30, 40 years old still living with your parents..... Your parents is happy because you are helping them pay rent... Your mom don t do your laundry anymore... You have a good job... You pay rent... Buy groceries... Pay bills... etc... Is it wrong to live with your parents? Honestly, I can move out... show more
    Lets say you are 30, 40 years old still living with your parents..... Your parents is happy because you are helping them pay rent... Your mom don t do your laundry anymore... You have a good job... You pay rent... Buy groceries... Pay bills... etc... Is it wrong to live with your parents? Honestly, I can move out on my own, but I don t see the point.... I m saving money.... I get to eat every night with my parents..... If my dad or mom has a problem with their health, I can be there and help them get to the hospital.... I m asking this question because a friend of mind look down on me when I told them I m still living with my parents..... Honestly, I feel bad... even if I move out on my own I know for a fact my lifestyle won t be any different... My parents aren t complaining I m staying with them.. They are happy I m paying rent..
    35 answers · 4 days ago
  • Why Do People Think Bullying Is Ok ?

    Best answer: Anybody who thinks bullying is acceptable has an impaired moral compass.
    Best answer: Anybody who thinks bullying is acceptable has an impaired moral compass.
    4 answers · 2 days ago
  • Am I verbally abused?

    Best answer: 1. this is probably bad enough to call the cops about
    2. 105 lbs is actually about 7 lbs lighter than you should be at your age and height
    Best answer: 1. this is probably bad enough to call the cops about
    2. 105 lbs is actually about 7 lbs lighter than you should be at your age and height
    12 answers · 1 day ago
  • Is it ok for my parents to still bathe me? (Im 15)?

    I don’t mind it and am fine with it. They have always done it for me and we’ve just never had a reason to not do it. They are my mummy and daddy after all. I only ask this as a friend of mine told me it was weird when he was at my house for a sleepover and I went to have my bath. My parents offered to wash him too... show more
    I don’t mind it and am fine with it. They have always done it for me and we’ve just never had a reason to not do it. They are my mummy and daddy after all. I only ask this as a friend of mine told me it was weird when he was at my house for a sleepover and I went to have my bath. My parents offered to wash him too as his mummy and daddy weren’t there but he declined and washed himself. Long story short: is it weird?
    11 answers · 18 hours ago
  • My Aunt screamed the word "NO" in my face, what I should I do about this attitude ?

    The last heated debate that I got in with my aunt was about the Democrat's attitude toward me... She screamed "NOOOO, THE DEMOCRATIC PARTY DOESN'T REPRESENT YOU!!!!!" in my face.. and the screamed in my face... "YOU NOW OWE, YOU ARE NOW THE PAYER INTO OUR PROGRAMS... YOU ARE NOT THE... show more
    The last heated debate that I got in with my aunt was about the Democrat's attitude toward me... She screamed "NOOOO, THE DEMOCRATIC PARTY DOESN'T REPRESENT YOU!!!!!" in my face.. and the screamed in my face... "YOU NOW OWE, YOU ARE NOW THE PAYER INTO OUR PROGRAMS... YOU ARE NOT THE BENEFICIARY... WE ARE NOT YOUR FRIEND ANYMORE... ITS YOUR JOB TO PUT MONEY INTO MEDICAID FOR NEW APPLICANTS" What should I do about this attitude from people ?
    11 answers · 1 day ago
  • My mom might have caught me jerking off?

    Best answer: There's a huge chance she didn't see you. There's also a substantial chance that she DID see you, however, there's a slim chance she will raise the issue with you if this is the case, as it's an awkward subject: remember, she's probably feeling as embarrassed, or even more embarrassed, as you. show more
    Best answer: There's a huge chance she didn't see you. There's also a substantial chance that she DID see you, however, there's a slim chance she will raise the issue with you if this is the case, as it's an awkward subject: remember, she's probably feeling as embarrassed, or even more embarrassed, as you.
    23 answers · 3 days ago
  • Was I wrong to hit my sister? Am I the bad guy?

    So what happened was I went upstairs to get a glass of milk because I thought I was allowed to since I had 2 carrot cake cupcakes for dessert(w/ no frosting). Then my sister comes up in my face and saying no we don t want you up here. And I m like all I want is some milk and she s like you can t have milk after had... show more
    So what happened was I went upstairs to get a glass of milk because I thought I was allowed to since I had 2 carrot cake cupcakes for dessert(w/ no frosting). Then my sister comes up in my face and saying no we don t want you up here. And I m like all I want is some milk and she s like you can t have milk after had the cupcakes awhile ago. But I still just wanted milk but she kept on blocking my way like it was all a game! When I finally got to open the darn fridge, she proceeded to actually put her whole body into the darn fridge to block me from grabbing the milk jug! So in my mind I was like if she wants to be in the fridge then let her be in the fridge , so tried to closed the fridge door on her. But I guess it hit her "ankle?" and she got mad at me and hit me first! She even ended up scratching me! So in my mind I had to options: 1.) Sticking punch her in her ugly face. If I did that I would be grounded (2.) I softly punch her in the stomach. Which I did. She did even cry from the punch because I didn t even try, but then she has the nerve to tell on me and make me out to be the bad guy?!?!! I was pretty much protecting myself!!! Am I really the bad guy?
    8 answers · 11 hours ago
  • My brother pulled a knife on our Mom. Was I wrong not to call the cops?

    Best answer: Hard to say without any track record. Is this something he has done before ( at home or anywhere)? Do you know that this is a seriously risky situation, where he is out of control and could escalate to actual harm? He is definitely on an edge, so I guess you're wondering what to do. You can speak confidentially... show more
    Best answer: Hard to say without any track record. Is this something he has done before ( at home or anywhere)? Do you know that this is a seriously risky situation, where he is out of control and could escalate to actual harm?
    He is definitely on an edge, so I guess you're wondering what to do. You can speak confidentially to a helpline to get advice, it must be frightening and worrying for all of you.
    15 answers · 3 days ago
  • How to deal with a relative who bought my 7 year old girl extremely short dresses?

    Best answer: "We received the clothes you sent to (name) but unfortunately she won't be able to wear the dresses. We feel the style is inappropriate for a 7-year-old."

    Send them back or give them to a thrift store.
    Best answer: "We received the clothes you sent to (name) but unfortunately she won't be able to wear the dresses. We feel the style is inappropriate for a 7-year-old."

    Send them back or give them to a thrift store.
    9 answers · 2 days ago