• Why does my mum always cook rubbish meals?

    Best answer: Hmm! Did she work at some horrible fast food joint?
    Best answer: Hmm! Did she work at some horrible fast food joint?
    28 answers · 1 day ago
  • Do all women like to have sex?

    my wife dislikes it
    my wife dislikes it
    100 answers · 3 days ago
  • What to do if I hate my sister?

    Im 15 year old, my sister is 23. She was always the better one, she had good grades, she goes to the university. I was always little ambitious kid that cared more about famiy and beauty (I want to become a makeup artist) not about grades. I hate her because she always tears me down, tells me that im worthless... show more
    Im 15 year old, my sister is 23. She was always the better one, she had good grades, she goes to the university. I was always little ambitious kid that cared more about famiy and beauty (I want to become a makeup artist) not about grades. I hate her because she always tears me down, tells me that im worthless child. Since I was little she caused so much stress in my life. I am the sensitive one so I always cared what she thought about me. Our flights still sometimes end up with bruises and scratches. I thought that we grown out of this stuff but I think were not. She still tells me to shut up, that im powerless child, that Im going to be nothing in the future, that im peace of **** and more. I really care about her still cause she sometimes is really funny and clever. But I dont think that I can live with sister like this. I really don t know how to deal with this... My parents tells me that im the problem(I guess they love her more)
    17 answers · 1 day ago
  • Mom expecting half of my paycheck?

    My mom is expecting half of my paycheck. Am I selfish for not wanting to give it to her anymore? Here's my situation: I just got my first paying job a couple of months ago. I work minimum wage, so I'm not left with a whole lot after taxes. My mom is currently unemployed, has been for the past few years.... show more
    My mom is expecting half of my paycheck. Am I selfish for not wanting to give it to her anymore? Here's my situation: I just got my first paying job a couple of months ago. I work minimum wage, so I'm not left with a whole lot after taxes. My mom is currently unemployed, has been for the past few years. We just moved here so my brother and I got a job to help pay the bills, but now that my brother and I pay for everything she doesn't really feel the need to go out and get a job. I didn't mind splitting the bills with my brother, but I started to get really frustrated after a few months, especially when I'd come home late at night and she didn't make dinner or go grocery shopping or anything really. I pay her rent, utilities, car payments, car insurance, gas, food... I spend the majority of my time at my boyfriends house and plan on moving in with him. Only problem is my mom isn't looking for a job. I told her how I felt and how I can't put a dime away and she responds by telling me that I'm so ungrateful and a terrible daughter. In the past 4 months I've managed to save $200. How am I supposed to start my life if I'm paying for her to live hers? What bothers me the most is that she's not even trying to find a job, I'm so frustrated with the situation. Should I feel guilty for wanting to move out and stop paying her bills? I was thinking about moving out and giving her a couple of months to find a job. Any ideas?
    27 answers · 1 day ago
  • I am not allowed to lock the bedroom door, is this normal?

    Best answer: It's kind of confusing when you call yourself a "guest". What exactly does this mean? People are telling you she's weird, but this is missing the point and it doesn't help you. She may have valid reasons for not wanting doors locked in her home. More importantly, this isn't as... show more
    Best answer: It's kind of confusing when you call yourself a "guest". What exactly does this mean?

    People are telling you she's weird, but this is missing the point and it doesn't help you. She may have valid reasons for not wanting doors locked in her home. More importantly, this isn't as uncommon as you think. For example, a lot of parents I know remove locks from bedroom doors in new homes.

    The point of all this is if you're living in a place where the only way you feel safe is to lock your doors, you need to leave. The only exception would be if you're a tenant and your lease doesn't say anything about locking doors. But if that was the case, I don't think you'd be calling yourself a "guest".
    14 answers · 5 hours ago
  • My parents keep having MASSIVE and HEATED arguments with each other, And Im scared something might happen. What do I Do?

    I just over-heardmy mom and dad having a MASSIVE and HEATED argument. It was rather intense. My dad called my mom a "Money-hungry C U N T" (Sorry for the swear), HE said to mom "You deserve nothing". My mom was calling my dad "Lazy" and some other stuff i cant... show more
    I just over-heardmy mom and dad having a MASSIVE and HEATED argument. It was rather intense. My dad called my mom a "Money-hungry C U N T" (Sorry for the swear), HE said to mom "You deserve nothing". My mom was calling my dad "Lazy" and some other stuff i cant remember. Sometimes, my mom would call my dad an Alcoholic. But my dad denies this. Last time this happened, My dad THREW A CHAIR in a fit of rage at a $5,000 TV (And Smashed the TV By the way). And When I asked him why he threw the chair, He told me "It was the TV or your mom". Im afraid that somethign like tjis might happen again. If my parents hate each other this much, why are they still married?
    9 answers · 1 day ago
  • What should I do?

    Best answer: Congratz on your acomplishments. You remind me of me when I was your age. The whole house and car thing at an early age, Thats Good! Your parents they don't mean bad, they love you just as you love them. They worry about you. Your 18 it's a cruel world out there not to mention dangerous. You'll always... show more
    Best answer: Congratz on your acomplishments. You remind me of me when I was your age. The whole house and car thing at an early age, Thats Good!
    Your parents they don't mean bad, they love you just as you love them. They worry about you. Your 18 it's a cruel world out there not to mention dangerous. You'll always be there little girl even when your 40. If you want to move out do so, just keep close tabs on your folks. Phone them stop by, find out if they need anything and if they do, mom, dad Just call me and I'll be there. Good Luck!
    10 answers · 2 days ago
  • My Dad wants to know how much I saved up. Is it any of his business?

    I just separated from the Air Force. I'm back home until I can find a job and start working again. My dad has had his job for 30 years and thinks I should be filling out applications door to door and looking in the paper at the want ads. He totally doesn't get that everything is by computer now. Even... show more
    I just separated from the Air Force. I'm back home until I can find a job and start working again. My dad has had his job for 30 years and thinks I should be filling out applications door to door and looking in the paper at the want ads. He totally doesn't get that everything is by computer now. Even though in a week, I've scored three job interviews. First two are tomorrow. Another thing is he keeps wanting to know how much I saved up in four years with the AIr Force. His advice was to add up what I would spend on rent, and food, and since those were free in the Air Force, to bank the rest. Well that would have left me with like $12, and I needed a car, and haircuts, and insurance, and a phone, and deodorant, and razors, and shaving cream. I was able to save quite a bit. But I'm sure he won't think it is enough. I am living with my parents now until I can get a job and a few paychecks. But Dad is treating me like I'm 16 all over again. How do I tell him to back off?
    38 answers · 4 days ago
  • Does my brother think he's going to die?

    My brother is 24 and in August entered the USN. He is set to shove off on his first mission at sea for nine months later this week. It is a routine training exercise he claims. Friday he called me and said he had a will drafted and named me as the executrices and was sending me a copy. He said he was not sick and... show more
    My brother is 24 and in August entered the USN. He is set to shove off on his first mission at sea for nine months later this week. It is a routine training exercise he claims. Friday he called me and said he had a will drafted and named me as the executrices and was sending me a copy. He said he was not sick and had no foreboding about his mission but that no one has the promise of another sunrise. Then on Sunday I found he purchased a plot in the churchyard cemetery. Today I got a copy of the will. It leaves the bulk of his assets to his fiancée. The thing is it assumes he will die before he is married which is scheduled for Feb. as soon as he returns. His job has something to do with data gathering and encryption. He can't speak much about his job. He jokes that he could tell us but he'd have to kill us. Now I'm thinking he knows more than he's letting on and this mission isn't as safe and routine as he is claiming. I've been known to borrow trouble, but how many 23 yos are having wills drawn up and buying grave plots? DO I have a right to be worried.
    17 answers · 3 days ago
  • Do you like your parents?

    114 answers · 6 days ago
  • My partner went through my messages without my permission...?

    Sorry for the length but I need some advice, a few days ago my partner went through my messages without my permission. Following this I ended our relationship. Sadly we live together in a rental and neither of us have anywhere else to go or the ability to cover the rent on our own. I am trying to avoid... show more
    Sorry for the length but I need some advice, a few days ago my partner went through my messages without my permission. Following this I ended our relationship. Sadly we live together in a rental and neither of us have anywhere else to go or the ability to cover the rent on our own. I am trying to avoid confrontation and as such when he aggravates to try and cause a fight I leave and head to my room and lock him out. Currently I am hiding in my room with the door locked and he is shouting at me and banging on the door, trying to unlock it (he also tried to break into my room via the outside window). He has previously during a past fights thrown my items, punched walls (including putting his fist through a door which will cause us a drop in our rental bond) and slammed a door on me. And as such I m worried for my safety, of not only my property but also me. What can I do to stop him confronting me, he is ruining my confidence and my ability to function (he keeps me up on purpose so I m running on minimal sleep) and so I really need to avoid confrontation? I feel as if this continues I will soon be too scared to be in the house at the same time as him. P.s For those who may be wondering what caused him to go through my messages, he wanted to find out about my past, after over a year and a half of being in a relationship he wanted to find out the truth of my past sexual relations and our online messages. He decided knowing my past was more important then my trust.
    10 answers · 2 hours ago
  • Dealing with inferality?

    I am a 20 year old female and i have found out that is impossible for me to ever carry children. My whole life I've fantasised about one day becoming a mother and wife one day, my heart is completely shattered. What is the point to my life if i can't be a mother and probably a wife. All of my life... show more
    I am a 20 year old female and i have found out that is impossible for me to ever carry children. My whole life I've fantasised about one day becoming a mother and wife one day, my heart is completely shattered. What is the point to my life if i can't be a mother and probably a wife. All of my life I'm going to watch everyone around me live my dream life. I desperately need some advice, i feel so lonely and helpless
    9 answers · 2 hours ago
  • Moving out of my parents house...?

    So I'm moving out with my boyfriend to he's house were he's family lives but we are going to put a trailer behind he's house for us both to live and start saving money to buy a house .. Main point is i feel bad about leaving my house but at the same time I wanna leave because its always me by myself... show more
    So I'm moving out with my boyfriend to he's house were he's family lives but we are going to put a trailer behind he's house for us both to live and start saving money to buy a house .. Main point is i feel bad about leaving my house but at the same time I wanna leave because its always me by myself at the house my step mom and dad are always working also they are always against me especially my step mom and my dad just goes along with her ....but I go through so much and idk why I feel sad about moving out ???
    9 answers · 22 hours ago
  • Would I exist if my parents had never met...?

    Would I be born to a different mother or father?
    Would I be born to a different mother or father?
    7 answers · 6 hours ago