• How to get closure after friendship ending?

    One year ago today my best friend of 20+ years, ended our friendship due to me suggesting she learn to drive. We were 35 and for years I’ve been taking her to work, and she frequently mooched off of me. She responded by writing the most hateful email, threw all my issues in my face (my weight, debt, and so on) and... show more
    One year ago today my best friend of 20+ years, ended our friendship due to me suggesting she learn to drive. We were 35 and for years I’ve been taking her to work, and she frequently mooched off of me. She responded by writing the most hateful email, threw all my issues in my face (my weight, debt, and so on) and revealed she’s been tired of me since 2003 (yeah, not kidding). I feel like she kept me around to use me. She told me not to write back because she won’t read it. I think about that email on a daily basis, even though it’s deleted… How do I find closure, since I couldn’t respond?
    41 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Would she stab me in the back??????

    I'm a 23 year old guy, I have a small crush on this older woman named Amanda who is 35. Shes married and she knows I like her but shes pretty cool about it........by the way i respect the fact that shes married. Anyways, I deliver documents to her in person thought the day. I always go around... show more
    I'm a 23 year old guy, I have a small crush on this older woman named Amanda who is 35. Shes married and she knows I like her but shes pretty cool about it........by the way i respect the fact that shes married. Anyways, I deliver documents to her in person thought the day. I always go around Amanda's desk and I randomly begin having long conversations with her, and everything seems fine and she enjoys talking to me. Someone told me she might even find me attractive by the way she looks at me. But from what I heard, shes been complaining about alot of workers because she thinks shes better than everyone else in her department. Someone even told me to be careful and to watch what I say around her, and to not talk to her much. But I feel like she treats me nicer and little bit more different than any workers. Do you guys think she would complain about me tho ????????? The last lady that would deliver documents to her, was fired because Amanda put soooo many complains about her
    25 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Is he after me for money?

    Best answer: There are two possibilities here, and I don't think either of them are good.
    1. He was leading you on to get you to pay for your horoscope.
    2. He's a freak who thinks that doing your horoscope will tell him if you're his soulmate. But if that's the case, he shouldn't be charging you for it.
    Best answer: There are two possibilities here, and I don't think either of them are good.
    1. He was leading you on to get you to pay for your horoscope.
    2. He's a freak who thinks that doing your horoscope will tell him if you're his soulmate. But if that's the case, he shouldn't be charging you for it.
    20 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • What does this mean?

    Best answer: It means you don't have to miss her as she is right there.
    Best answer: It means you don't have to miss her as she is right there.
    11 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • My bestfriend keeps lying to me?

    i’ve been bestfriends with her for like 6 months and we used to be bestfriends last year and we fell out because of her boyfriend. she’s just started going out with this other boy and she’s being weird. whenever i’m sad she never asks what’s up and she’s lying to me. like for example if i ask her to meet me she’ll... show more
    i’ve been bestfriends with her for like 6 months and we used to be bestfriends last year and we fell out because of her boyfriend. she’s just started going out with this other boy and she’s being weird. whenever i’m sad she never asks what’s up and she’s lying to me. like for example if i ask her to meet me she’ll say yh and then lie and say she can’t but she’s just gone and met her boyfriend. she always ignores my messages even though she’s on snapchat. and since i broke up with my boyfriend i became distant with everyone so i don’t really have any other friends than her so if i fall out with her then i have no one? idk what to do
    16 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • How can I get a quiet person to start...talking?

    There is a girl in our class that is apparently comfortable only talking to a few selective people. At first, I thought she was just a bit of an @ss as well as most of our other classmates have had, but according to another girl who knows her very well, she has been through a lot of trauma in the past and that is... show more
    There is a girl in our class that is apparently comfortable only talking to a few selective people. At first, I thought she was just a bit of an @ss as well as most of our other classmates have had, but according to another girl who knows her very well, she has been through a lot of trauma in the past and that is why she is by herself most of the time. I noticed she even stutters around those she does not know well and keeps her head down most of the time, and pacing when uncomfortable. However, when she is around the girls she is comfortable with, I hear her talk nonstop and rather loudly to the point where teachers need to tell her to keep it down. I'm a little curious, could she possibly even have some sort of personality change? We're i college by the way, and a couple times of the week we work at a clinic. The majority of us will sit around at a table and talk when we have breaks, but this girl will usually lock herself up in a spare room unless one of her girlfriends goes to get her. I asked her friends what she is interested in just so I have something I could possibly talk to her about, and apparently she loves anime, video games, and is extraordinarily good at playing some kind of fantasy card game, which I hardly know anything about either of these things, so this makes it harder for me... I guess I can't help but feel a little sad when someone doesn't want to talk to me, as I am the kind of person that likes to party and get rowdy, which she might be afraid of.
    13 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • How should I have dealt with situation?

    Best answer: There was nothing to handle. I would have just ignored it.
    Best answer: There was nothing to handle. I would have just ignored it.
    8 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Are these adequate gifts for my best friend’s birthday?

    Best answer: The quilt + pillow is a nice gift on it's own, as is the art print. I would choose one of the two, but not both. I wouldn't give cash; cash is typically not a birthday gift for a friend.
    Best answer: The quilt + pillow is a nice gift on it's own, as is the art print. I would choose one of the two, but not both. I wouldn't give cash; cash is typically not a birthday gift for a friend.
    6 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • I'm tired of being alone?

    I'm 14 and a freshmen I just started school two weeks ago. Ever since 6th grade i've been bullied alot and haven't had friends ever since. I get super nervous around tons of people and get all choked up. At this point I just avoid everything that has to do with people. I don't eat lunch at school I... show more
    I'm 14 and a freshmen I just started school two weeks ago. Ever since 6th grade i've been bullied alot and haven't had friends ever since. I get super nervous around tons of people and get all choked up. At this point I just avoid everything that has to do with people. I don't eat lunch at school I hide in the bathroom. I can't work in groups. When people ask me questions I get sweaty and my legs start shaking and I can't talk. I hate it so much. My parents call me a "coward" for being scared of everything. They're right but I can't help it. I can't make friends so I'm literally the only one without one actual friend. I go all day without speaking. I created this alternate version of myself in my head so I just daydream all day but it honestly just makes me feel worse. I want to tell my parents but they'll just say i'm being weird or something but I think I actually need help!! I Physically can't make myself talk to people and its holding me back. I've even tried to kill myself last year because being alone and the bullying got to me. I tried to slit my wrists and overdose. I ended up throwing up the pills and I couldn't cut deep enough. Nobody knows what I tried to do that day. I'm thinking about trying it again because I'm so tired of being alone,.
    6 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • What does it mean when a guy says he was always into you?

    Recently I asked a guy if he wanted to be friends with benefits. And he said he did and that he had always been into me. I first started talking to him at the store where he works a few years ago. While paying for my groceries I kind of thought he liked me but I wasn't sure
    Recently I asked a guy if he wanted to be friends with benefits. And he said he did and that he had always been into me. I first started talking to him at the store where he works a few years ago. While paying for my groceries I kind of thought he liked me but I wasn't sure
    6 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Rooming with acquaintance vs stranger?

    I moved to new city to study in university. I have two options of rooming. 1- rooming with three strangers, all of them are friends with each other and they are studying at university personally I think they are cool (first impression) but my familly worried because they are still strangers. 2- rooming with a... show more
    I moved to new city to study in university. I have two options of rooming. 1- rooming with three strangers, all of them are friends with each other and they are studying at university personally I think they are cool (first impression) but my familly worried because they are still strangers. 2- rooming with a friend of my brother (living in the same small town) I personally met him once he is clearly a hard working introvert like myself. Also my father is a friend with his father. So as you may have guessed my family suggest to with the safe option 2, but think I will have more fun with option 1 especially that I was born in a small town and still want to know big cities and build my social circle. What do you think guys?
    5 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Im 16 and i never been to a house party?

    Best answer: You needn't feel aembarresed. You'll notice, if you look around you, that there are several different types of people (in terms of social needs). Some require a sense of PLACE or RANK among everyone else they know. That's the kind of person who feels they have to attend every party they can, and that... show more
    Best answer: You needn't feel aembarresed. You'll notice, if you look around you, that there are several different types of people (in terms of social needs). Some require a sense of PLACE or RANK among everyone else they know. That's the kind of person who feels they have to attend every party they can, and that events at every party they attend affect how others think of them, and how they think of themselves!

    Others, like YOU, don't judge themselves by what they believe everyone else thinks of them. Your sort of person is usually oblivious to the whisperings and secret feuds going on around them, and couldn't care less. Instead, people like you tend to form one or two or even three very close, practically intimate friendships, and they have no need to worry about, or involve themselves, with others. You will probably find when you get older that you don't date a different person every other week, but tend to bide your time until you find someone who seems really "right" for you, and then to stick with that one person for months or years.

    It's all normal - you're just not like those party types. You have different needs, so you develop different social habits to fulfill them.
    6 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Do you think Pence might have known something or perhaps running the show (Op-ED) behind Trump to keep the WH and country under order?

    Best answer: Yes. Everyone is discussing it on television. They posted a list of people who denied writing it. Conway denied it. Chao was not on the list. They say that the wording indicates a woman wrote it. The poo is going to hit the fan soon. The Trinity of Pence, McConnell and Chao have a vested interest in having a... show more
    Best answer: Yes. Everyone is discussing it on television. They posted a list of people who denied writing it. Conway denied it. Chao was not on the list. They say that the wording indicates a woman wrote it. The poo is going to hit the fan soon. The Trinity of Pence, McConnell and Chao have a vested interest in having a smooth transition when Trump is impeached, tried and removed from office. They'll have to work closely to maintain stability. I doubt that only one person crafted the op-ed alone. It had to be a group effort. Some people in the White House want to reassure the American people that Mr. Trump is being monitored and we are safe. I believe it had to be someone high up in the administration or the New York Times wouldn't have published it. The Times took a risk that they may not have taken otherwise.
    11 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • I have a crush on my friend's husband and I don't want to work with him?

    I have been unemployed for a year. I have been looking for a job and getting interviews but not getting hired. My friend's husband who is a manager said he is hiring an assistant. I have a degree and experience to work. But I try to stay far away from her husband. My mom thinks I should work with him because... show more
    I have been unemployed for a year. I have been looking for a job and getting interviews but not getting hired. My friend's husband who is a manager said he is hiring an assistant. I have a degree and experience to work. But I try to stay far away from her husband. My mom thinks I should work with him because I am not getting hired in anywhere else so why not get hired in a position where your getting paid lots of money. Am I dumb for staying unemployed and turning down the job offer of friend's husband?
    24 answers · 3 weeks ago
  • I’ve started to HATE my best friend?

    I started to hate her a while ago when she was stealing one of my friends from another school then from there she lied to me she tried to steal my best best mate and she did and now it’s just to the point she’s trying to steal EVERYONE I have ever talked to and she’s such a ****** beg she begs of nearly everyone... show more
    I started to hate her a while ago when she was stealing one of my friends from another school then from there she lied to me she tried to steal my best best mate and she did and now it’s just to the point she’s trying to steal EVERYONE I have ever talked to and she’s such a ****** beg she begs of nearly everyone popular and even thinks she’s popular and fit(hot) it makes me cringe and everything she does irritates me and every time I think of her juts makes me pissed
    8 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • What are fun things to do while skipping class with a friend?

    Me and my friend skip the most boring classes and we would roam the hallways or even stay in the bathroom and chat ...but although we cant have our phones so we need some good ideas on what we could do while skipping class... i know we shouldnt be skipping but we’re already high honor students so we just dont give... show more
    Me and my friend skip the most boring classes and we would roam the hallways or even stay in the bathroom and chat ...but although we cant have our phones so we need some good ideas on what we could do while skipping class... i know we shouldnt be skipping but we’re already high honor students so we just dont give a damn 😂😂
    5 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Is she ending our friendship?

    Best answer: That's the classic "kiss-off" maneuver. You've been permanently ditched.
    Best answer: That's the classic "kiss-off" maneuver. You've been permanently ditched.
    8 answers · 2 weeks ago
  • Am I wrong for being upset/mad with my best friend?

    So we have been best friends ever since high school close always and in 2016 we both got bfs and stopped hanging out as much but have always kept in touch. She ended up having a baby by here bf. And we just stopped hanging out even more but recently we started hanging out more and we expressed how our dudes have... show more
    So we have been best friends ever since high school close always and in 2016 we both got bfs and stopped hanging out as much but have always kept in touch. She ended up having a baby by here bf. And we just stopped hanging out even more but recently we started hanging out more and we expressed how our dudes have done us so wrong like wrong wrong treated us bad & some more stuff so we stopped being with them & we was having fun & we were happy and we told eachother how much we appreciated our company and how we was not going back & both our dudes started texting us again apologizing and what not but I didn’t go back & she did and now it’s like I don’t exist to her she doesn’t talk to me until he ain’t around ect. And I feel like she’s just settling he did so much to her I know she can do better and I’m angry that she went back am I wrong?
    5 answers · 2 weeks ago