• Can I get fired if I ask my coworker if she wants to have sex?

    I would say ok cool if she says no and never ask again
    I would say ok cool if she says no and never ask again
    14 answers · 2 days ago
  • Conflicting Relationships?

    So, I met some new friends through my parents. The issue is that one of their friends introduced me to a very attractive man that they are friends with. Turns out he’s married and has a kid. So, I immediately told myself no and put that thought of what could’ve been in the trash because I’m respectful of... show more
    So, I met some new friends through my parents. The issue is that one of their friends introduced me to a very attractive man that they are friends with. Turns out he’s married and has a kid. So, I immediately told myself no and put that thought of what could’ve been in the trash because I’m respectful of relationships. Every time there is a get together, he’s always flirting... Always. Even if is wife around which puts me in a weird spot. They have a poor marriage, always fighting, never talking to each other, rarely together. I know this because I have observed it, not from being told by him. I never made any moves because, again, regardless of the situation, I’m being respectful. Now, he’s texting me all the time because I had to add him for a work opportunity. I feel so strange and I don’t know what to do. There hasn’t been anything said to me directly for him to seem like he’s completely compromising his marriage, BUT there’s a lot of tension... sexually. I don’t know what to do...
    12 answers · 2 days ago
  • How can I tell someones really cares?!?

    7 answers · 9 hours ago
  • When does being inspired by someone turn to becoming someone?

    Is it possible to be so inspired you follow their exact footsteps. If so is this a problem? Also role models can be fictional too, so is it ideal to be inspired by them?
    Is it possible to be so inspired you follow their exact footsteps. If so is this a problem? Also role models can be fictional too, so is it ideal to be inspired by them?
    7 answers · 19 hours ago
  • I hate my partner of 13 years because he didn t support me through an emergency c-section!?

    I had an emergency c-section after 14 hours of labour. 3 years ago. My son just didn t want to come out. I signed the forms and then my partner of 13 years said plainly " oh you can go in with her mum" My heart sank for the second time in ten minutes after sinking from the words emergency c-section! I... show more
    I had an emergency c-section after 14 hours of labour. 3 years ago. My son just didn t want to come out. I signed the forms and then my partner of 13 years said plainly " oh you can go in with her mum" My heart sank for the second time in ten minutes after sinking from the words emergency c-section! I moved away from all family and friends to be with this person 13 years ago and this was my first ever major operation! I was completely alone and chose to have him as my life. I hate him for it so much! I have never felt so rejected and alone as I did when he said that! I gave up everything to be with him and now I feel like my life is a huge nightmare. I have flash backs of being in labour, going for the op, and of how he got his mum do what he should have. The recovery was horrible too, all I did was cry. I m still on antidepressants today, 3 years on and I still hate him for it all. Why can I not let go. My life feels just like a nightmare every time I wake up. I wake up and think oh great here we go again, same sh** different day. I love my 2 boys to bits and wouldn t change them for the world but mentally it s all still there and I can t let it go. Anyone else feel the same?
    9 answers · 2 days ago
  • Which boys name is better Xavier or Jacob ?

    Best answer: Jacob
    Best answer: Jacob
    9 answers · 3 days ago
  • Do women only care about a man’s looks?

    I’d say I’m average. I workout five days a week. Not buff but I’m not ugly I just have a baby face. Women say personality matters but I know women who’ve gone on to marry men who are dull but have a lot of sex appeal
    I’d say I’m average. I workout five days a week. Not buff but I’m not ugly I just have a baby face. Women say personality matters but I know women who’ve gone on to marry men who are dull but have a lot of sex appeal
    6 answers · 1 day ago
  • My friend said I'm being bitter. Childs fathers girlfriend?

    Best answer: As a mother I understand you completely! Also as a mother I must tell you this. It's the absolute best thing for your child if you can move past it. It was a very nice gesture, that she did for your child. She had the child make something for you. In the child's eyes it sent the message that your mommy... show more
    Best answer: As a mother I understand you completely! Also as a mother I must tell you this. It's the absolute best thing for your child if you can move past it. It was a very nice gesture, that she did for your child. She had the child make something for you. In the child's eyes it sent the message that your mommy must be a nice lady and you love her like I do. It makes it so much easier on them when the other parent's significant other can try and get along. I know it hurts right now in the present moment. In the long run however if everyone does what is best for the child it's good for them. The other side of the coin would be seeing the child torn, and that would be so much more painful in the long run. You can't pick your child's step parent (or wannabe) so focus on the fact it's a good thing when they care for your child.
    12 answers · 4 days ago
  • Am I wrong? I’m in a sexual affair with my guidance counselor at my campus she’s married with kids I want to date, won’t admit she loves me?

    Best answer: Maybe she won't admit she loves you because she doesn't love you, there is nothing to admit.

    Sex and dating are two different things.
    Best answer: Maybe she won't admit she loves you because she doesn't love you, there is nothing to admit.

    Sex and dating are two different things.
    11 answers · 4 days ago
  • Where are good places besides venues for sweet sixteens?

    i’m planning my sweet sixteen, but i want to save a couple of hundred from renting a venue out, and i can’t exactly have it at my house, because my backyard is quite small for the amount of family i’d be inviting. any ideas of places ?
    i’m planning my sweet sixteen, but i want to save a couple of hundred from renting a venue out, and i can’t exactly have it at my house, because my backyard is quite small for the amount of family i’d be inviting. any ideas of places ?
    6 answers · 1 day ago
  • Would you ever date or marry someone with a child or children ???

    My answer is no because I am not going to work: feeding, clothing, paying bills to have a child be disrespectful to me. Example son why did you break the TV well John I was upset and my response wait until your mother gets home. Not me 1 your not going to address me by me name 2 I am going to handle it myself. ... show more
    My answer is no because I am not going to work: feeding, clothing, paying bills to have a child be disrespectful to me. Example son why did you break the TV well John I was upset and my response wait until your mother gets home. Not me 1 your not going to address me by me name 2 I am going to handle it myself. Not saying it never works out buI I have seen way to many times a step child being disrespectful and they know their step parent cannot touch them or if they do touch him they go tell their biological parent then it's nothing but trouble.
    6 answers · 2 days ago
  • How can I help a girl recover from childish and teenage trauma?

    This girl I really do care care about (because she's my life) was physically bullied in middle and high school (even from a tracher who used psychologic violence against her). She already came from an immigrant background (she was at seventh heaven just because her father came from work buyung her a cheap doll,... show more
    This girl I really do care care about (because she's my life) was physically bullied in middle and high school (even from a tracher who used psychologic violence against her). She already came from an immigrant background (she was at seventh heaven just because her father came from work buyung her a cheap doll, so please imagine her life alone at home, with no grandma to take care of her, no babyisitter bc they didnt earn enough although her parents worked in plantations. This happened in Europe). She often has nightmares when she sleeps and I have to wake her up, sometimes she cries and stays depressed all the time, and there's nothung I can do to help her. I'm sure if the same had happened to other kids, they would have done something to help, but since she came from a coubtry hated here, the teachers also hated her, they were racist. I dont know what to do with her, I tried everything, I want to help her but she can never fully recover from this, I'm afraid that she'll do self harm again (she suffered from.this in the past but once in a while she does it again), the doctors were also mean to her (they never took her seriously, after she said she was struggling to live her psychologist went to laugh and had a coffee with a cute coworker.When she had a crisis (she wanted to kill herself) the first aid doctor told her lots of horrible things instead of helping her and treating her normally, he shouted and said that if she didnt let her work he would became an animal.
    6 answers · 2 days ago
  • I intend to financially secure my children in their houses all paid for and give them jobs in the family business.?

    Would it be okay to ask them after having done all this for them not to invite their gran and aunt (fathers side) to their weddings. If they refuse my request is it okay to pull the rug from under them and sack them and make them homeless?
    Would it be okay to ask them after having done all this for them not to invite their gran and aunt (fathers side) to their weddings. If they refuse my request is it okay to pull the rug from under them and sack them and make them homeless?
    5 answers · 16 hours ago
  • Am I over thinking this?

    Been seeing each other for six months. Today his mom and him were doing a trade show selling a product they created. My parents and my aunt and uncle came. All of his extended family was there too, so we all met for the first time. It went really I thought. We didn't talk much when I was there because we were... show more
    Been seeing each other for six months. Today his mom and him were doing a trade show selling a product they created. My parents and my aunt and uncle came. All of his extended family was there too, so we all met for the first time. It went really I thought. We didn't talk much when I was there because we were both busy with family and stuff. But he kissed me goodbye and said he would message when he got home. He had posted a snapchat saying how much they sold. I replied back saying ''yayy'' he said ''true'' and then said we didn't win this raffle thing there. About an hour he texted asking if this restaurant had replied back to us (we had to complain about something) I told him no, no reply from him. He also opened a snapchat from me, no reply. He's being so quiet. Now he might just be tired and busy helping his mom unpack but I feel worried. Over thinking?
    4 answers · 17 hours ago
  • Am I a homewrecker?

    My best friend is gay and in a relationship with a bi man. That bi man used to have a crush on me but I declined him (he was really objectifying and creepy. Told everyone he masturbated to his imagination of me). He then moved onto my gay best friend. They've been arguing a lot recently, over the fact that... show more
    My best friend is gay and in a relationship with a bi man. That bi man used to have a crush on me but I declined him (he was really objectifying and creepy. Told everyone he masturbated to his imagination of me). He then moved onto my gay best friend. They've been arguing a lot recently, over the fact that the bi guy said he finds me more physically attractive. My gay friend is now really insecure and probably hates me. Did I do anything wrong?/What can I do help my friend? Kinda awkward situation.
    6 answers · 2 days ago
  • Was she smiling at me because she didn’t want me to put her in her place/scared of me?

    I’m known for being confident and bold. This girl talks sh*t about me and people have told me. Side note: I have done nothing to her. I’m kind, but she still calls me untrue names behind my back. Some time after i had been told about what she was doing, the smack talker was looking at me and smiling. Is she scared... show more
    I’m known for being confident and bold. This girl talks sh*t about me and people have told me. Side note: I have done nothing to her. I’m kind, but she still calls me untrue names behind my back. Some time after i had been told about what she was doing, the smack talker was looking at me and smiling. Is she scared of me?
    6 answers · 2 days ago
  • Poll: is having slept with 17 guys throughout my entire 21 years of life a lot?

    Best answer: The term "easy" does seem to apply here.
    Best answer: The term "easy" does seem to apply here.
    10 answers · 5 days ago