• Neighbor/ friend and I are having affair and I don't know if she's leading me on advice?

    I moved into a nice condo in Salt Lake City for law school. I met my beautiful neighbor and she was so nice she invited me over for dinner amd we had salad and lasagna. We knew eachother from BYU and youth activities as kids. I texted a friend about her and he told me she's married. So fast forward a few days... show more
    I moved into a nice condo in Salt Lake City for law school. I met my beautiful neighbor and she was so nice she invited me over for dinner amd we had salad and lasagna. We knew eachother from BYU and youth activities as kids. I texted a friend about her and he told me she's married. So fast forward a few days later and she brought over milk and cookies and sat on the couch with me barefoot and sat on my lap seductively. I told her the only reason I slept with her the other night was because I thought she was single. She began to cry and told me about her failing marriage and then kissed me she said she doesn't love her marriage and that her marriage has been over the moment the wedding ended. She told me that her marriage is abusive, sexless amd she feels trapped. When I got this condo I didn't know she was my neighbor. Well we've been seeing eachother secretly for 6 months and she even bought me a Rolex watch and told me that it was for her kind lover. When I had to have surgery on my leg after it was broken a buddy of mine told me that her husband was suspicious of us when his wife found out that I was hurt and left the room and started crying in the bathroom,. I'm not sure what to do... her husband is always working and she even took me to her parents place and introduced me as her special friend and her mom said it was a pleasure to meet me. i love her but I'm not sure if she's leading me on. She said she wants to be together but that we need to wait
    12 answers · 2 days ago
  • After eight years of trying to grow her hair out, my girlfriend decided to shave it completely off.?

    After eight years of trying to grow her hair out, my girlfriend decided to shave it completely off. It happened a few months before our marriage ceremony and came as a total shock to me. I don't know how I should react. I've always tried my best to support her and see the two of us as an indivisible team... show more
    After eight years of trying to grow her hair out, my girlfriend decided to shave it completely off. It happened a few months before our marriage ceremony and came as a total shock to me. I don't know how I should react. I've always tried my best to support her and see the two of us as an indivisible team in all things. It's just that this feels different. I even find myself telling her that I have to do something in another room just so she doesn't see me crying over it. A part of me feels hurt that I wasn't even consulted. A part of me wants to tell her how much I loved her hair and how much I associate it with 'her'. A part of me feels it should be a small thing and I'm taking it too harshly. The last part of me wants to support her as best as I can.
    14 answers · 3 days ago
  • Should I quit my job?

    I went to a small gathering with some co workers in a hotel pub,one of them told me he had a crush on me for 3 months, I was pretty half drunk that time so I didn't take his words seriously,after much later, it was just him and me, he took me to the room to rest but i suddenly recall i had make out with him for... show more
    I went to a small gathering with some co workers in a hotel pub,one of them told me he had a crush on me for 3 months, I was pretty half drunk that time so I didn't take his words seriously,after much later, it was just him and me, he took me to the room to rest but i suddenly recall i had make out with him for a short while...i did ran out and took a cab home,I have a boyfriend for 3 years, I worried if i see him again, he is gonna do the same thing to me - i am on leave and was wondering if i should quit? thanks
    9 answers · 2 days ago
  • Signs that a married man wants you?

    Any signs?
    Any signs?
    16 answers · 4 days ago
  • To MEN, Do you feel that Women who wear Makeup, False eyelashes, Fake nails, girdles, push up bras, hair weaves, and high heels etc are?

    Basically LYING to you? Please explain your reasoning. thanks.
    Basically LYING to you? Please explain your reasoning. thanks.
    8 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is this person up to no good, what to do about this situation?

    I have an ex-boyfriend, we broke up almost eight years ago and we share a 16-year-old son together. He is not a trustworthy person as he has tried to get me to go places in the past and then serve me with court papers for things such as custody, etc. I recently told him that I don't want to talk to him on the... show more
    I have an ex-boyfriend, we broke up almost eight years ago and we share a 16-year-old son together. He is not a trustworthy person as he has tried to get me to go places in the past and then serve me with court papers for things such as custody, etc. I recently told him that I don't want to talk to him on the phone. Whatever we need to discuss about our son can be through our son only. Whenever we talk on the phone about our son, somewhere in the conversation he makes a snide remark about me or says a put-down comment. He has served me in the past. Today, out of the blue, he said he wanted me to come outside to the front gate of my apartment building. He said he had something that he thought I would like. When I declined to come outside, he still kept trying to push me to come outside. He supposedly had chocolates for me. I am very reluctant considering that he hasn't really even contacted me. Why would he suddenly want to give me chocolate and why couldn't he give it to our son to give to me?
    7 answers · 2 days ago
  • Do you think it's ok for your bf to talk to his ex *fiance without telling you?

    Ok so I was bad and snooped through my bf's phone after I saw a chat head from his ex fiance when he had his facebook pulled up. He messaged her asking about the unit he was in because after being in the military and getting out he decided to join the guard and had questions. She told him to come stop by since... show more
    Ok so I was bad and snooped through my bf's phone after I saw a chat head from his ex fiance when he had his facebook pulled up. He messaged her asking about the unit he was in because after being in the military and getting out he decided to join the guard and had questions. She told him to come stop by since she is also stationed at the same unit. He hasn't ran into her yet but I see he messaged her twice asking her if she was there so they could meet up. He never even said a word about contacting her or going to meet up with her to me so I feel betrayed. Mind you this fiance cheated on him and made a sex tape while he was deployed so I dont get why he would even walk to contact her let alone see her.
    7 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is My Roommate being unfair?

    I live in a house with 3 others. But one of them is a nightmare! Everyone has a TV in there room except for me, instead I have one of those tiny laptops, I stream movies on there as I have a decent pair of speakers, but every evening I go in the living room to watch my soap which starts at 6.30pm, I've been... show more
    I live in a house with 3 others. But one of them is a nightmare! Everyone has a TV in there room except for me, instead I have one of those tiny laptops, I stream movies on there as I have a decent pair of speakers, but every evening I go in the living room to watch my soap which starts at 6.30pm, I've been doing this for months, everyone knows the routine and everyone else will keep the room free. I do this so I can enjoy it on a nice comfortable sofa and not have to watch it on my 11.6" screen in my bed like I do with almost everything else. But recently this one housemate who HATES me has been in there every evening before my soap starts, when they have their own TV in their room and a sofa, they know that's when my soap starts but of late have refused to let me watch it because they were watching something else. I suggested politely that they can continue watching it in their room, I can't afford a TV at the moment because I have no money and I am in debt up to my ears. I explained this to them and they said it's not their problem and they pay rent and so are entitled to be in the communal room just as much as me. This is unfair. What can I do? He even said to me "Your financial situation is not my concern, go stream your soap on your tiny laptop." HELP!
    9 answers · 4 days ago
  • Smoking, stress and taking it out for n everyone else?

    My best friend just called me and said her and her husband had a massive fight and he walked out. Not a biggie I know but apparently he was angry bcos her sister couldn’t get him weed (he smokes everyday). He had her sister in tears, and their daughter gota little scared aswell. So my friend said she was trying to... show more
    My best friend just called me and said her and her husband had a massive fight and he walked out. Not a biggie I know but apparently he was angry bcos her sister couldn’t get him weed (he smokes everyday). He had her sister in tears, and their daughter gota little scared aswell. So my friend said she was trying to calm her hubby and sister down and when it didn’t work she told him she’s sick of them all copping the brunt of his anger when he can’t get weed. She said he lost his **** and basically accused her of picking her sister of him. She said this wasn’t the case at all and he just didn’t like hearing truth. He kept saying she’s turned her back on him and that he’s really stressed out and she has no idea what he is going through. I know they are having money problems and he has problems at work but I feel bad bcos my friend feels like she’s in the wrong for saying that to him. I don’t think she is. What do you think?
    6 answers · 2 days ago
  • Tonight my mums boyfriends son was tickling my leg which made me REALLY uncomfortable, not sure how to reject him as he lives with me, HELP?

    so my mums boyfriend moved in with us not too long ago, bringing two of his sons with him. one stays at his girlfriends place a lot and the other, the same age as me, stays home often and we usually hang out at night if i am home. we are really comfortable with each-other but i'm worried he is getting TOO... show more
    so my mums boyfriend moved in with us not too long ago, bringing two of his sons with him. one stays at his girlfriends place a lot and the other, the same age as me, stays home often and we usually hang out at night if i am home. we are really comfortable with each-other but i'm worried he is getting TOO comfortable. tonight we were laying on the lounge watching T.V, and because i have long nails he really likes it when i tickle his hand, totally innocent! but tonight he started tickling my thigh and was getting wayyy to close to my "girl" if you know what i mean, making me SUPER uncomfortable. i told him to stop and he did, but then he started touching my neck making me leave the room quite quickly, i'm still unsure if he got the hint. I don't know how to deal with this because he lives with me, someone help! there's no one i can talk to about this and I'm so bad at rejecting people.
    12 answers · 5 days ago
  • Someone won't let my boyfriend see his missing kitten.?

    About a few days ago my boyfriend's kitten (a litter from my cat. I know she's getting spayed no need to state the obviouse.) Was stolen by a family member and then dumped out in the country side. We have been doing what we can to find her. Posting her pics on the internet, checking the shelters and making... show more
    About a few days ago my boyfriend's kitten (a litter from my cat. I know she's getting spayed no need to state the obviouse.) Was stolen by a family member and then dumped out in the country side. We have been doing what we can to find her. Posting her pics on the internet, checking the shelters and making flyers. Yesterday someone texted him saying that they might have found his kitten and has been feeding her and even sent him a few pictures. She is a generic black cat so it's hard to tell by a picture if it really is her or not. He said he would meet up with him at a location to see if it was her. My boyfriend waited at the location with the reward money but he never showed up. When he went back home he messaged the guy asking what happened and the guy said that he had already let the cat loose for the night and that his kids were already bonding with her. My boyfriend tried to explain that he has an autistic brother who is really missing her, he just wants to know if it's her or not and would give him extra money to pay for the food he gave her. But he never messaged back and we don't know where he lives. I still have the kittens twin sister and we were thinking of doing an exchange if he agrees to it so that my boyfriend and his brother have their cat back and his kids still have a pet. But I don't know about this what should we do? She was only missing for a few days they couldn't have bonded with her that much if she is only coming by their house to eat.
    6 answers · 3 days ago
  • Do you know what the feeling of sonder is and if yes have u experienced it? (Its the realisation that everyone has the same complex life as?

    you). So I am a really deep thnker and have come across this feeling but didnt think about it as deeply as i did last week. I was on the bus and staring out the window and I saw a bunch of white elderly people and the fact that I am a minority race - indian means that I just cant relate with white people ( I AM... show more
    you). So I am a really deep thnker and have come across this feeling but didnt think about it as deeply as i did last week. I was on the bus and staring out the window and I saw a bunch of white elderly people and the fact that I am a minority race - indian means that I just cant relate with white people ( I AM NOT RACIST) unless i become friends with them or know about their life . I have this conception that they are not as family orientated which is often the case of the small amount of white people I know but i do know that majority cant be like that . So when i was on the bus the sonder feeling hit me and I just coundnt imagine all those elederly people with each and individal set of parents . Also i felt like obviously their parents are not alive and if that was me I dont know how i could sit there and have youngers look at me not know my whole life story its as if I would want it to be written on my forehead that my mum has passed away. ARGH i dont know where I am going with this but I guess have you had any similar experience and maybe explain mine, Btw I have just turned 18 ................. thayunkssssss
    4 answers · 1 day ago
  • A random man was looking at me by the time he came into the bus and later he was looking at me many times....what could be the reason?

    He was with his wife and his children
    He was with his wife and his children
    7 answers · 4 days ago
  • How do I get closer to my mum?

    My mother is very different to me, I like doing typical girl things like nail polish makeup and stuff, but she hates all of that and is more masculine than me, we don t really have anything in common help, I m 15. She also hates eating out. (She s very strict I had to battle so hard to be allow to wear light... show more
    My mother is very different to me, I like doing typical girl things like nail polish makeup and stuff, but she hates all of that and is more masculine than me, we don t really have anything in common help, I m 15. She also hates eating out. (She s very strict I had to battle so hard to be allow to wear light foundation and clear nail polish)
    4 answers · 1 day ago
  • Signs an older man in my college class has a secret crush on me?

    Best answer: MAYBE he just friendly, like a grandfather
    Best answer: MAYBE he just friendly, like a grandfather
    11 answers · 5 days ago
  • Found something that belongs to my ex in my house, should i contact him or throw it out?

    We dated from 2008-2010. I am now 25 years old. Anyways, its his I.D from when he was in high school. I remember they issued him a new one because they printed the wrong birth date on it. I feel weird throwing an I.D out but i highly doubt he cares or remembers. I found it while cleaning a plastic dresser drawer... show more
    We dated from 2008-2010. I am now 25 years old. Anyways, its his I.D from when he was in high school. I remember they issued him a new one because they printed the wrong birth date on it. I feel weird throwing an I.D out but i highly doubt he cares or remembers. I found it while cleaning a plastic dresser drawer that i am getting ready to throw out. It was in between a book. I still have my ex’s number. Occasionally I will see him as he is a city bus driver( not on purpise i dont know what times he drives the bus). He got sort of mad at me in October 2017 and he swore that he would be over me for good now and then I saw him again in November with my boyfriend on accident (he ended up being the bus driver) and he looked real p*ssed off to be seeing me and he said nothing but he also looked jealous in a way... but the point is should i contact him to see if he wants his high school I.D or just throw it out? All of the years we been broken up he never mentioned it so i am thinking he forgot about it.
    9 answers · 5 days ago
  • Should I take away my Grandpa's U.S. Veteran hat while he's not looking since he's not a Veteran?

    Best answer: And you know he is not a veteran because of what? I have to ask that because have you ever asked him about his military service or if he served. I would first do that and establish if he ever served or didn't. If not then I would tell him some veterans would not take kindly to him wearing that hat maybe and... show more
    Best answer: And you know he is not a veteran because of what? I have to ask that because have you ever asked him about his military service or if he served. I would first do that and establish if he ever served or didn't. If not then I would tell him some veterans would not take kindly to him wearing that hat maybe and let it go at that.
    4 answers · 1 day ago
  • I'm trying to figure out if my child's teacher likes me.(in a way more than a friend) from day one he updates me on everything about mychild?

    Multiple times a day. And with very lengthy messages and sometimes it's almost to the point where he is trying to get personal info about what i do at home or questioning how I parent my child. Teacher always ends the message saying I hope you have a nice night/day. Also encourage me to be a guest speaker in my... show more
    Multiple times a day. And with very lengthy messages and sometimes it's almost to the point where he is trying to get personal info about what i do at home or questioning how I parent my child. Teacher always ends the message saying I hope you have a nice night/day. Also encourage me to be a guest speaker in my child's class.... also in the messages sometimes he goes into asking me if I noticed a certain picture that he posted ?? I don't know how to take all of this. Any thoughts? Thanks
    5 answers · 3 days ago