• Why do women cheat?

    Is it engrained in their nature to cheat? No women can be trusted in relationship.
    Is it engrained in their nature to cheat? No women can be trusted in relationship.
    57 answers · 2 days ago
  • I wanna get rid of my girlfriend but she said she will kill herself if I leave her?

    Best answer: She is NOT a good match for you. She has a lot of really negative behaviors that NO ONE should tolerate in a partner (or even just a friend). Calling 39 times is obsessive and ridiculous. You simply did not have your charger with you - there is nothing wrong with that. We can't always charge our phones whenever... show more
    Best answer: She is NOT a good match for you. She has a lot of really negative behaviors that NO ONE should tolerate in a partner (or even just a friend). Calling 39 times is obsessive and ridiculous. You simply did not have your charger with you - there is nothing wrong with that. We can't always charge our phones whenever we want/need to unfortunately. Aggressive behavior is also negative and can turn physically violent. She sounds like the obsessive stalker type and THOSE are the types you run far away from.

    If she is threatening to harm herself, it is very likely a guilt-trip/manipulation method to try to "force" you to stay with her. She thinks if she makes massive threats like this, you'll stay with her just to keep her from hurting herself. Don't let that happen to you. Sit down and have an honest talk with her. Let her know that her behavior is absolutely unacceptable and you can't tolerate it any longer. Tell her you don't think she's the person you first thought she was. Let her know that hurting herself will not solve ANYTHING and encourage her to get help for her behavioral issues.

    To avoid issues after you call it off you can change your phone number (and ask others NOT to give her your new one), remove/block her on all social media, keep an eye out in public (don't stay holed up in your house, but try your best to avoid her if you happen to see her out somewhere), and make sure you collect any personal items of yours from her that could be an issue (like house/apartment or vehicle keys), and don't be afraid to consider adding some type of security system to your home. I would also warn any NEW dates you may get about her (often times, problematic exes will try to harass/stalk the new partner as well as their ex lover). If any form of harassment or stalking gets too out of hand, contact the local authorities. You definitely cannot stalk people. If they don't want to be with you, too bad. Stalking and harassment are very much so illegal.

    If you're concerned for her safety, call the authorities and explain the situation to them, then see if they'll go do a wellness check. Also, alert people closest to her (friends/family) and let them know what she's been doing and saying.
    41 answers · 3 days ago
  • My Relationship is making me depressed?

    I feel kinda dumb posting this here, but I don t know what else to do and I need to get this off of me. We ve been dating for 2.5 years, we ve been living together for about 5 months. Our fights have been nonstop, no matter how many promises he makes things never change, I want to stay to be in a promised happy... show more
    I feel kinda dumb posting this here, but I don t know what else to do and I need to get this off of me. We ve been dating for 2.5 years, we ve been living together for about 5 months. Our fights have been nonstop, no matter how many promises he makes things never change, I want to stay to be in a promised happy relationship, but I can t believe it anymore. I feel heavy and sad when I wake up, I m usually a cheerful person, I feel like i m losing myself. I m stuck, I would leave but I keep on having hope. It s like i m at war with myself, thankyou for reading and a helpful comment would be appreciated.
    8 answers · 8 hours ago
  • Would you ever cheat on someone?

    Best answer: No. Because I wouldn't want to be cheated on myself.
    Best answer: No. Because I wouldn't want to be cheated on myself.
    110 answers · 5 days ago
  • Can a guy think of a girl alot and not text/call her?

    What are the reasons
    What are the reasons
    63 answers · 5 days ago
  • Why am I being shamed for dating a 40 year old man?

    I’m 48 years old and a met an amazing guy. I get hit on by much younger guys because I take care of myself well, but I was looking for someone I can relate to and I think 40 is a perfect age. After a date he walked me to my door and my neighbor saw him in the elevator. The next day my neighbor asked if he was a... show more
    I’m 48 years old and a met an amazing guy. I get hit on by much younger guys because I take care of myself well, but I was looking for someone I can relate to and I think 40 is a perfect age. After a date he walked me to my door and my neighbor saw him in the elevator. The next day my neighbor asked if he was a relative so I said no he’s my boyfriend of 6 months. So she says wow he looks young. So I said no he’s 40 but he looks great. So she’s like aren’t you pushing 50? So I’m like so what! She starts saying that I’m robbing the cradle and I should be ashamed of myself. She’s like 5 years younger than me. I won’t even talk to her now.
    13 answers · 19 hours ago
  • Ex gf says “go with with the flow” to me. Is she just being friendly or might reconsider getting back together?

    Basically me and my ex decided to be friends. (Long distance)I haven’t talked to her much cause I wanted to give her space after the break for the both of us. So I’m actually suppose to see her in August for two weeks. I just told her out of the blue if we should just talk when she gets back from her study abroad... show more
    Basically me and my ex decided to be friends. (Long distance)I haven’t talked to her much cause I wanted to give her space after the break for the both of us. So I’m actually suppose to see her in August for two weeks. I just told her out of the blue if we should just talk when she gets back from her study abroad trip and if she feels comfortable sharing a bed when I see her. She said these two things 1) about the bed situation “We’re visiting a refugee site?? we’re all confused as to what it is exactly but that’s what we’ve been told lol and it’ll be fine. if it does get weird i’ll sleep with (her friend) or on the floor idc. just don’t worry about it. 2)about the texting her “it‘s fine to text while i’m here. we don’t have to wait or save stuff to talk about once i’m finally home. that’s too much. stop overthinking things, just go with the flow and not worry too much” Is she showing somewhat of an interest or just playing it cool as friends?
    36 answers · 4 days ago
  • I can’t make my boyfriend ***- is there something wrong with me?

    we both lost our virginities together and we fucked for about half an hour but in the end we got so tired we had to stop, prior to this i’d given him oral sex for about twenty minutes but he just didn’t ***- he blamed it on masturbating before i came over but it just made me feel really insecure. he was really nice... show more
    we both lost our virginities together and we fucked for about half an hour but in the end we got so tired we had to stop, prior to this i’d given him oral sex for about twenty minutes but he just didn’t ***- he blamed it on masturbating before i came over but it just made me feel really insecure. he was really nice about it and refused to masturbate again until we had sex again. yesterday we did and we both knew what we were doing more, i came several times but he still didn’t (bearing in mind we had two hours alone together to try) and i just don’t know what to do. i feel like my body is really inadequate and i’m just not very good at making him feel good, although he tells me it feels great.
    9 answers · 14 hours ago
  • Who is your crush?

    17 answers · 2 days ago
  • Boyfriend won’t stop smoking pot?

    Since we started dating over 2 years ago I asked him to stop. He was getting in trouble with law about it and he’s still on probation for it due to getting caught for other things and not passing his urine tests. I’m now pregnant and I told him it’s me or weed, the smell o it makes me sick to my stomach now and he... show more
    Since we started dating over 2 years ago I asked him to stop. He was getting in trouble with law about it and he’s still on probation for it due to getting caught for other things and not passing his urine tests. I’m now pregnant and I told him it’s me or weed, the smell o it makes me sick to my stomach now and he blows our money on it instead of focusing on the baby. I’m ready to walk out. He stopped me from talking to guys my friends and everyone in my family, I ask him anything that I want to be stopped. He won’t. What should I do?
    9 answers · 5 hours ago
  • How do you know when you have found the one?

    Best answer: If you listen only to your heart - you may get burned like billions of people in the past, including me, did. It takes mutual true love, lots of things in common, and both people being strong people for a relationship to last a lifetime. Here's some information about love from the books True Love Lasts,... show more
    Best answer: If you listen only to your heart - you may get burned like billions of people in the past, including me, did.

    It takes mutual true love, lots of things in common, and both people being strong people for a relationship to last a lifetime.

    Here's some information about love from the books True Love Lasts, Straight Talk About Teen Dating, and Straight Talk About Dating:

    “Unfortunately, lots of people don’t know what true love is and that’s a big reason why a large number of marriage relationships are unhappy. Many people think that true love is just a feeling. You know, the wonderful head spinning feeling of being “in love.”

    If true love is just a feeling, feelings come and go. But true love doesn't come and go. True love is patient and kind. It isn’t jealous, rude, selfish, controlling, or easily angered. It forgives. It’s supportive, loyal, hopeful, and trusting.

    Unlike the feeling of being “in love” which is relatively easy to get especially during dating, true love usually develops slowly over a significant period of time (often years). True love is so much more than just the feeling of being “in love” - it’s supposed to be a mutual lifelong commitment. When you say that you love your significant other, you’re saying that you’re committed to loving them for the rest of your life - for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, from this day forward, until death do you part. True love lasts - it almost never fails.

    Think of it this way, if a person has true love for another person, it’s like the sun - it’s always there no matter what (remember that even at night, the sun is still there, it’s just shining on the other side of the earth - and when it’s cloudy outside the sun is also still there, it’s just behind the clouds).

    On the other hand, the feeling of being “in love” is like sunshine - even though we’d like it to be sunny every day, the truth is that the amount of sunshine changes regularly. Some days it’s nice and sunny and the feeling of being “in love” is strong, on others it’s partly cloudy and the feeling of being “in love” is there but it’s not very strong, and on other days it’s cloudy and the feeling of being “in love” is barely there at all. I’m hoping that this explanation is helping you to see that it’s possible for a person to have true love for another person and not have a strong intense feeling of being “in love” with that person at a particular moment. (If you talk with married couples, I think they’ll tell you that the strength of their feelings of being “in love” changes regularly.)

    So when you hear someone say, “I don't love him or her anymore” - take it for what it usually is. It’s usually someone saying that they’ve lost the feeling of being “in love”, that they don’t know how or they’re not willing to make the effort required to get the feeling back, and that they probably never had true love for their significant other to begin with because true love almost never fails.

    Many times I’ve heard young women say, “my boyfriend loves me.” Unfortunately, most of these women have been fooled. How could their boyfriend possibly have true love for them if their boyfriend doesn’t even know what true love is? Sadly many people marry when one or both people don't have true love for the other - and the result is usually divorce because it's hard to keep a marriage together when it's based only on the feeling of being "in love."

    My first suggestion is that you put in the effort necessary to become a strong person (if you’re not already). A strong person has good character (honesty, integrity, trustworthiness), a positive attitude (cheerful, caring, friendly, forgiving, helpful, and respectful), fulfills their responsibilities (for handling pains in a positive way, for always trying to make a good choice, for taking care of themselves, for serving others), puts forth their best effort, and displays self-control (of their body, anger, tongue and money).

    My second suggestion is that you eventually look for this type of person (otherwise you are setting yourself up for a broken heart). Unfortunately this type of person is difficult to find – but save yourself the heartache and don’t settle for less.

    (Please remember that you eventually want a 50 or 60 year marriage - not a 5 or 10 year marriage.)

    Hope this helps!
    10 answers · 3 days ago
  • Losing Virginity/Girl?

    Best answer: here is your problem "I was wet but he got super excited and stuck it in early lmao" sex does not stretch out your vagina. but sufficient foreplay causes it to easily open to fit a penis. you may have been "comfortable" but you were no where near turned on enough for penetration. when you are... show more
    Best answer: here is your problem "I was wet but he got super excited and stuck it in early lmao"
    sex does not stretch out your vagina. but sufficient foreplay causes it to easily open to fit a penis. you may have been "comfortable" but you were no where near turned on enough for penetration. when you are aroused enough for sex the cervix moves up out of the way so that it is not getting punched at a mere 3 inches. you should be close to orgasm through foreplay before you allow him to "stick it in" being wet happens very early in arousal, that does not mean aroused enough for penetration
    38 answers · 5 days ago
  • If a 40 year old man dates an immature 21 year old girl who looks 13-14 is he a closet pedophile?

    She is incredibly immature. She cannot spell to save her life and she is from the suburbs, lives in her parents nice home yet she talks in slang terms. Her grammar is awful and she talks like she is in a gang despite living in an affluent neigborhood with her 2 married parents who dote on her. She complains that... show more
    She is incredibly immature. She cannot spell to save her life and she is from the suburbs, lives in her parents nice home yet she talks in slang terms. Her grammar is awful and she talks like she is in a gang despite living in an affluent neigborhood with her 2 married parents who dote on her. She complains that life is too hard and she shouldn't have to do her own laundry or work part time while in college. She is obsessed with memes and facebook and writing long rants about how life is so unfair and she has the hardest life of anyone she knows. The girl is spoiled rotten, her parents baby her and gave her a car, free rent, free college. All she has to do is pay for her car insurance and her food and she thinks its the end of the world. She looks like she is 14 years old at the very oldest. She listens to trap music and the horrible artists that do nothing but swear and say words that rhyme and she is the type that makes snapchat vidoes of her making duckfaces with those songs playing in background. A typical phrase for her is something like "im so sick of life lol, when ur parents tell you have to pay insurance, now wonder people drink or commit suicide, i work just to hand my money to bills, thank god for weed and beer, ugggh" To reiterate she looks 14, she could pass for an 8th grader, she's 4'11 and wears childish clothes as well
    50 answers · 5 days ago
  • Why do men have to do all the work and pay for everything?

    Best answer: Simple economics of sex. You want it. Women have it. That's not to say women don't want it. We do, but usually only with a select few. aka It benefits women to be choosy in finding the best partner to procreate with, and there's this impression that deadbeats tend not to make great fathers. Even if... show more
    Best answer: Simple economics of sex. You want it. Women have it.

    That's not to say women don't want it. We do, but usually only with a select few.

    aka It benefits women to be choosy in finding the best partner to procreate with, and there's this impression that deadbeats tend not to make great fathers. Even if children aren't on the bucket list, maternal and paternal instincts are strong motivators when it comes to sexuality. You don't have to like it and I can certainly commiserate with how frustrating it can all seem at times.
    11 answers · 2 days ago
  • Are women really just as horny as men?

    Best answer: I don't believe they are, except when they are made sweet, gentle love to, (lots of kissing, not only on the mouth, either) You see men chasing after the broads, not the broads chasing the men, don't you? Have you ever heard of a woman paying for it?
    Best answer: I don't believe they are, except when they are made sweet, gentle love to, (lots of kissing, not only on the mouth, either) You see men chasing after the broads, not the broads chasing the men, don't you? Have you ever heard of a woman paying for it?
    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • Do girls fart?

    Best answer: No.
    Best answer: No.
    11 answers · 2 days ago
  • Is it rape if it’s your boyfriend?

    this may get a little inappropriate, so sorry for that in advance. but i like having sex with my boyfriend, of course but there’s times when that’s all he wants and i just don’t. we had just had sex about an hour to two before. and i was kind of in pain so i didn’t want to do anything else for the rest of the... show more
    this may get a little inappropriate, so sorry for that in advance. but i like having sex with my boyfriend, of course but there’s times when that’s all he wants and i just don’t. we had just had sex about an hour to two before. and i was kind of in pain so i didn’t want to do anything else for the rest of the night. he told me he was really horny and got on top of me. i told him stop. and i didn’t want to. but he still went for it. even during i told him to stop but he replied with “just take my d”. he’s a lot bigger than me, so i couldn’t really move or do much.. but i never said no. just stop...
    24 answers · 4 days ago