• Why is my dad so annoying and retarded?

    I’m 16! I’m an adult! He won’t let me go to my boyfriends house tonight because he thinks I’m going to have sex with him. He’s having a birthday party for another friend and I know his friend and we’re good friends. My dad thinks I’m just going to have sex with him! It’s completely unfair!
    I’m 16! I’m an adult! He won’t let me go to my boyfriends house tonight because he thinks I’m going to have sex with him. He’s having a birthday party for another friend and I know his friend and we’re good friends. My dad thinks I’m just going to have sex with him! It’s completely unfair!
    20 answers · 7 hours ago
  • I avoid my mother because she is mentally insane and obsesses over her disorders. Is that wrong?

    My mom has schizophrenia, bi polar, OCD, PTSD, whatever else u can think of and she is OBSESSED. She has made her problems her and not just a part of her. She posts nothing but things about her disorders on Facebook that bluntly say she's a victim of this and that and it's annoying. She's never worked... show more
    My mom has schizophrenia, bi polar, OCD, PTSD, whatever else u can think of and she is OBSESSED. She has made her problems her and not just a part of her. She posts nothing but things about her disorders on Facebook that bluntly say she's a victim of this and that and it's annoying. She's never worked and spends her husband's money on stupid stuff. When I'm around her I feel uncomfortable. Her house is always messy and smells like pee and she does nothing but sleep and play on her laptop. She has an autistic daughter who doesn't know how to read and her husband is a little off too I feel like she could've done a lot more to help with her kid and she doesn't manage what she eats and let's her just sit in front of the computer too all day she's only like 9 but she acts like she's 4 and I feel like there's more my mom can do like with her weight and hygiene. My mom has showed up at my door before with out asking (she has no vehicle she'll just walk). I just don't really want much to do with them because it's just depressing and they kinda smell. I have nothing to do with any of my family really and I think my mom neglected me as a child. Also anytime I'm around her, all she does is talk about past things and abuse and stuff. I have bi polar but at least I try to not harp on it and try to eat healthy and just try to do things to make me happy. The least she can do is try to help herself but she swims in hopelessness. Wtf to do?
    38 answers · 3 days ago
  • Why don't most people marry and start families young anymore?

    My grandparents told me back in the 50s and 60s that everyone used to marry young. Most people got married straight out of high school but getting married while in school or dropping out of high school to get married was not unheard of. Nowadays seems like most people enter their 30s, and are still not married... show more
    My grandparents told me back in the 50s and 60s that everyone used to marry young. Most people got married straight out of high school but getting married while in school or dropping out of high school to get married was not unheard of. Nowadays seems like most people enter their 30s, and are still not married and don't have any kids.
    15 answers · 4 hours ago
  • My husband installed a camera in my daughter's bedroom?

    So my husband and I have been married for 8 months now, but he didn't officially move in with me until just recently. I also have a teenage daughter from my first marriage who lives with me for most of the year. Up until yesterday, he and my daughter have gotten along great and I really enjoyed having a real... show more
    So my husband and I have been married for 8 months now, but he didn't officially move in with me until just recently. I also have a teenage daughter from my first marriage who lives with me for most of the year. Up until yesterday, he and my daughter have gotten along great and I really enjoyed having a real family unit again. However last night when my daughter was doing laundry she discovered some kind of recording device with a little camera lens taped under one of the shelving units in her bedroom closet. We have no idea how long it's been there or if it's even functional. We weren't too alarmed at first, but over the course of the night she became increasingly panicked at the thought of somebody watching her in her sleep. I texted my husband (he's currently out of town) and asked him if he knew anything about it. At first he denied knowing anything, but after a couple of hours he called me and admitted that he put it there. He claimed that he only put it there to "keep tabs" on her and that it was "for her own safety". It's true that she was HAS gotten into trouble recently for drinking and she DOES have a history of sneaking out. Even if he did put it there for those reasons, this is still way over the line, right? I want desperately to believe his reasoning, but I'm starting to suspect that he probably has other motives for putting it there. He won't be home for another two days. How should I handle this until then and what should I do when he gets back?
    18 answers · 1 day ago
  • Can I call the police?

    My mom and dad has been drinking , everytime they drink together my dad brings up old stuff and sometimes new stuff and makes a big deal out of the little things and accuse my mom of cheating when she has been nothing but faithful , she has been taking hits and punches from him for years , I really want my mom to... show more
    My mom and dad has been drinking , everytime they drink together my dad brings up old stuff and sometimes new stuff and makes a big deal out of the little things and accuse my mom of cheating when she has been nothing but faithful , she has been taking hits and punches from him for years , I really want my mom to leave him and I tell her everytime to but she keeps letting him back into the house knowing me or my siblings doesn’t like him , he hasn’t done anything for me or my siblings he eats up all of our food and uses our soap and lays in my mom bed and all he does when he’s sober is just keep his distance from us but when he’s not sober he’s horrible he’s a downer , today my dad hit my mom on the side of her neck and I wanna call the police but they both been drinking and I’m afraid they both will go to jail what should I do ? Especially considering the fact that she keeps just forgiving him and letting him back in .
    17 answers · 2 days ago
  • Do you feel uncomfortable when moms take their sons into the women’s restroom?

    Not a 12 year old but like a 4 year old.
    Not a 12 year old but like a 4 year old.
    13 answers · 12 hours ago
  • Should I stay with him?

    I am much younger and he works 200 km away from me. I want nothing more than a family and living together like a classic family, but he wants to see me "be happy with myself first". Yeah true but like, I kinda want a family?? He even said he might be too old for children and might be too independent now... show more
    I am much younger and he works 200 km away from me. I want nothing more than a family and living together like a classic family, but he wants to see me "be happy with myself first". Yeah true but like, I kinda want a family?? He even said he might be too old for children and might be too independent now to change his life... hmm I am considering giving up! He also said he can't trust me because I tried to get pregnant?? Ehm... we had unprotected sex... seriously I am fed up!
    12 answers · 6 hours ago
  • How do i tell my girlfriend she has a habit of doing this?

    Whenever i tell a story involving my family, she will boast about her mum or dad saying “my mum/dad would never do that because (example)” blah blah blah it’s so self righteous and annoying! like they’re better then my family?
    Whenever i tell a story involving my family, she will boast about her mum or dad saying “my mum/dad would never do that because (example)” blah blah blah it’s so self righteous and annoying! like they’re better then my family?
    12 answers · 20 hours ago
  • Girlfriend [24 years old] wants to move because she's ''miserable'' in Florida?

    She wants to move to LA because she ''always wanted to be an actress''. 0 acting experience/schooling, is in college studying business now but a few months ago she majored in biology. She's been in FL all her life, I just got here 4 years ago. She has a good job with a major insurance company,... show more
    She wants to move to LA because she ''always wanted to be an actress''. 0 acting experience/schooling, is in college studying business now but a few months ago she majored in biology. She's been in FL all her life, I just got here 4 years ago. She has a good job with a major insurance company, I have a good job with a bank. My bank is in LA, her insurance company may be. I have a feeling she does not have a clue what being an actor is like. Should we take the dive and move [will deplete our savings for sure]?
    9 answers · 6 hours ago
  • Is it right to hate my parents for being short ?

    Best answer: Why would you hate someone for something they can't control? Your only other alternative would be not existing at all. Your parents are the only reason you exist.

    So no, it isn't right.
    Best answer: Why would you hate someone for something they can't control? Your only other alternative would be not existing at all. Your parents are the only reason you exist.

    So no, it isn't right.
    13 answers · 2 days ago
  • Where do I go to help my parents ?

    My mother has been unwell with various ailments for the past 4 years. She spends all day every day laying on the bed. She visits the doctor at least 2 to 3 times per week and he has no answers for her. My problem is she is completely unreasonable and demands that Dad sit on the bed next to her all day every day.... show more
    My mother has been unwell with various ailments for the past 4 years. She spends all day every day laying on the bed. She visits the doctor at least 2 to 3 times per week and he has no answers for her. My problem is she is completely unreasonable and demands that Dad sit on the bed next to her all day every day. His mental health is slowly erroding as he's bored silly. He spends all his time on his iPad to keep himself entertained. The minute he goes outside to do something she gets angry with him and says he's not looking after her. We are at our wits end with her and no matter how much we try to talk to her and tell her that its completely unreasonable to expect Dad to sit on the bed all day she won't listen. She tells us its his duty. Im not sure where or who to turn to for advice. Any suggestions please
    6 answers · 2 days ago
  • Should I slap my aunts for gossiping or hurt them?

    They been doing it for years, they never disagree that they say negative stuff is the worse par, they lie. MY father helped them and are very nice to them for no reason. They still take advantage and talk crap
    They been doing it for years, they never disagree that they say negative stuff is the worse par, they lie. MY father helped them and are very nice to them for no reason. They still take advantage and talk crap
    10 answers · 1 day ago
  • How to become vegetarian when your family isn't?

    I'm a 16 year old girl so I'm still living at home. My family and I have always been huge meat eaters and honestly I love meat and find it a struggle to imagine my diet without it. However as I'm getting older I'm starting to come to my own conclusions about things more than just following my... show more
    I'm a 16 year old girl so I'm still living at home. My family and I have always been huge meat eaters and honestly I love meat and find it a struggle to imagine my diet without it. However as I'm getting older I'm starting to come to my own conclusions about things more than just following my parents "just don't think about what you're eating" attitude. Whilst on the computer the other day I found a presentation about how immoral eating meat is, followed by the most repulsive snapshot from an abbatoir. This video paired with my own feelings helped consolidate how I feel about eating meat. I really don't want to eat it any more for moral reason and also for the health benefits. My parents are against me going vegetarian as they think it's just a phase and it's too much hassle to make me separate meals and they believe this diet won't provide me with the necessary nutrients. Can anyone help me out?
    30 answers · 5 days ago
  • My mom favors my brother more? What do i do?

    I usually notice from time to time, my mom and dad both favor my brother more. I'm the oldest and he's the middle and i have a younger sibling girl. My mom doesn't let my brother do chores, she says it's the girls job to do chores, and when i mention why doesn't my brother do it then she says... show more
    I usually notice from time to time, my mom and dad both favor my brother more. I'm the oldest and he's the middle and i have a younger sibling girl. My mom doesn't let my brother do chores, she says it's the girls job to do chores, and when i mention why doesn't my brother do it then she says why do you always have to bring your brother into it. My dad would yell at my mom saying its the girls job to do the dishes. I'm also concerned for my brother as well, my parents don't put any restrictions on him, he plays on his computer from 12 p.m to 12 a.m and wakes up at 5 a.m to play games on his computer and then goes to school, plus he's always yelling at the computer (talking to his friends). My mom also thinks just because she does everything for him, he will take care of her in the future, while right now i do so much to help around the house while he sits for 12 hours straight doing nothing. Being home makes me so angry, ik the right answer is to move out, but i'm preparing myself for it and i'm not ready yet. What can i do to make my life more bearable?
    9 answers · 17 hours ago