Look, if you like this man and I mean really like him; I am not at this point talking about love, because that is something entirely different. Do you like what you see when you look at him, when he embraces you, and does he respond in the same manner? If you don't have that great desire for each other a marriage is not anything more than a piece of paper. From really liking each other can grow love from what each of you do for one another. You perhaps will cook nice meals, or other things like doing the laundry, cleaning house, and he should also help. Such things contribute to the start of real love. Helping each other at all times, being together almost as one is not easy to achieve but if love grows and caring for each other then you could have a wonderful marriage. But be sure that you really, really like and trust this man, and understand if he feels the same way as you do. Do not get involved with religion, because you are not in religion now because you know nothing about it. There is no evidence for a god, and we know that Jesus was never a real person and the New Testament story is a huge lie all written by the Romans.I have research Christianity, the bible and particularly the NT for over 25 years, I was a teenage preacher with a congregation over 300, and at age 15 and about 6 month I realized that religion is a con game of the weaker minds of the world. I felt sorry for those foolish people coming to church each Sunday and they knew nothing about Christianity. I had them sell the building and land, then divide the money among the members according to how long each had been a member. I am saying to you do not get into what you really do not understand. Religion is a money game and a game to control your life. contact this address if you want more on this subject. firstname.lastname@example.org . Take care of the child.