Should I continue secret sex?

We are all in our 80s, Abby and I got our of bad marriages and are companions, but she has physical problems, cannot have sex and moved to her own place. We still see each other for dinner or a chat. Our best friend Beth lost her husband and is lonely. I comforted her and suddenly we discovered the best sex ever together. I never dreamed it could be this good and we meet regularly. I am good to both women and my kindness has grown towards all from these relationships. I think Abby would be very hurt to find out. Shall I continue to take the risk?

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  • 1 month ago
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    Although I lack a few months from being in my 80's, I would say go for it. Be discreet and it should work out fine as long as it's just a sexual thing between you and Beth. 

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    sure, why not?...................

  • 1 month ago

    As long as you are consenting adults, it is no one else's business.

  • 1 month ago

    You ahould be shot for lying to them both

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  • 1 month ago

    What kind of problems does Abby have that keeps her from having sex. dry vagina? That could be overcome. 

  • 1 month ago

    continue as long as you can KEEP IT UP

  • Anonymous
    1 month ago

    Read "The Storm" by Kate Chopin. Might help with deciding on what you should do.

  • 1 month ago

    Sure! Enjoy your secret sex life. 

    But, keep secret it to your wife to avoid her hurt.

  • 1 month ago

    Bite the bullet and tell Abby you cherish her friendship, but have developed a relationship with someone else. Tell her you would like to continue your friendship, but you are developing romantic feelings for someone else. She can then choose to remain a friend or to abandon the friendship. I wouldn't go into who the new lover is on the first round.

  • 1 month ago

    She might think its a good idea.

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